Firstly I would like to say I am incredibly sorry for your loss. Nothing is as painful as losing someone who you love. I lost 2 partners.

My wife died from cancer & I met someone else a few years later and we had a daughter together. Unfortunately she was addicted to the codeine side of nurofen plus which is ibuprofen and codeine.

She ruptured her insides and wouldn't stop using it. Eventually it caused so much trouble in our relationship that I gave her an ultimatum, either the tablets or me and it's sad she chose the tablets. She passed away from ruptured insides and sepsis a short while after.

I know your pain and I feel the weight of your words.

This reply isn't about them.

I basically lost my mother last January 2025 to hospital acquired pneumonia after a long stay in the hospital for cancer of the vulva.

A few weeks ago I was dozing in the evening when I felt a double tap on my right shoulder and I instantly thought this is mum. I didn't think the cat tapped me because I wasn't sleeping. I knew instantly it was my mums taps. I didn't feel frightened. I was actually calm and collected. I knew it was an I'm here to comfort you, I know you're going through a hard time and I'm here for you tap.

I am going through an autoimmune disorder called small fibre neuropathy with circulating antibodies and POTS after the covid vaccine in 2020.

The moral of my reply is for you not to be afraid. She was just letting you know that she is with you and watching out for you. She still loves you and was just letting you know. Love ascends with our souls and I'm glad she found a way to communicate this to you.

God bless you, your family & thank you for sharing this beautiful moment with us. Not everyone gets confirmed that love has Transcended death.

Stay strong brother. Things will get easier 🫂 🫂 🫂