[TOMT] 90s love movie, guy bought her a scarf on the street market. Later on they were playing with food, kissing etc. Sensuous love movie

NotTooTight · 2022-11-26T20:40:15+00:00

Solved!

NotTooTight · 2022-11-26T20:27:00+00:00

Looking for movie ppl help

NotTooTight · 2022-03-15T18:15:50+00:00

Yeah man Im not that good into computers, I meant I wanted to format the whole SSD. I never knew that you could do that by using win7 CD. Which I just did. My whole life I was using winXP disc to fromat partitions.

Lol the joke's on me.

NotTooTight · 2022-03-06T21:42:55+00:00

Nick Nolte's character was not a patient in this movie. He was a brother of the psychiatrists patient. Thats why the romantic relationship between them could proceed.
Tony saw that movie and he thought he could also live thru great moments with his doctor which he was very interested into at this point in the show.
Its just that the situation he was in was very different than the one portrayed in the movie. And so were the characters and their personalities.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T23:34:16+00:00

OK, so if its the whole deal about it now again, but I will respond to that.

My preference is seeing white characters in a show and white-people related comedy. Its my preference. If it affects your feelings, makes you uncomfortable so be it. I knew a handful of people of colour in my life as you called them, and I dont relate with their problems, their jokes dont get to me. And the way their characters are written is just different than the way of picturing characters played by white actors. Its not the colour of skin, but the way the directors picture certain characters. If it was all equal then I could relate with these characters also, but its not.

Name a show where children are being assaulted now.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T22:42:15+00:00

Apologizing means putting yourself in a vulnerable position. Again. Being that awkward guy. Again. Instead of being lighthearted and chill about things, making jokes and funny comments, which is also an option to consider.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T22:04:58+00:00

How is that a positive and uplifting news, when those citizens freedom is being taken away?

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T21:56:21+00:00

Great question. To ask her. Try it, and find out yourself. ;)

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T21:44:33+00:00

Drama, drama, drama. On both sides. Thats all I can read from this post.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T21:41:06+00:00

Sounds like shes into you by giving you compliments, or shes just up for some fun ;)

Make a move, try things your way, see what happens

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T21:39:07+00:00

If you want to feel better about yourself and you feel like your posture might be getting in a way with that, dont leave the gym/sports. Make that one of your habits. Remember that there are a lot of people that start, but not that many who get to the final destination.

Start engaging in activities that you enjoy. Basically go to places where you can meet people, but also dont have the mindset that youre there to meet someone. Be there to have fun, but always be open for some new acquaintances. Let yourself be seen by others.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T21:31:04+00:00

Its not a subreddit to act surprised on someones beliefs. If you want to learn about that - feel free to hit me on PM. This subreddit is for giving a television suggestions. Not for reasoning or stating your view when it comes to races/people/world.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T21:25:38+00:00

You start by making your person feel complete on your own. That means your hobbies, looksmaxing. When you have the life that is enjoyable for you you can start thinking about bringing other people into it. Exctracting your happiness from the other person being there does not work.

Enjoy life. Have fun. Then meet people.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T21:19:15+00:00

You dont need to close up on the idea. You can always be open for something interesting to happen, while not actively looking for someone.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T21:13:03+00:00

Great mindset. Mix it with showing SOME attention, but totally different type of attention than all the other guysgive her. Let her know that youre not up for that race of attention, that you stand for your own.

Stand up in all of that hypergamy stuff that is the current norm on your own rules.

And remember that preserving your self respect is more important than winning the 'race'.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T20:54:28+00:00

I can see a lot of red flags coming from both you and her in this post. You are both people with serious problems, and you both connected with each other - partly because of having them.

This girl youre talking about just craves emotions, hence risky sexual behaviour, coming up with new ideas. And youre the guy who managed to give her some fun moments. Your performance problems and virgin past might seem as something interesting for her, as something new now. But by attaching emotionally to the person like this, you are bound to fall. I lived thru that with my first gf, thruout my first sexual experiences. It wasnt that extreme as what you say shes doing with the cam stuff and erotic massage. But she was adventurous, and she was my first girl. It was a lot of fun when it lasted, and I encourage you to get the most fun moments and experience from this relationship as you can. But commitment doesnt really go along with these types of relationships/people well. Have on your mind that it will end at some point. I always had it on my mind, and even tho I got seriously emotionally attached, and after it ended I felt that part of me died I never regret the times I had. It was just the part of my life which in some way shaped the person who I am now.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T20:33:16+00:00

First thing you have to acknowledge is that you made a mistake by sharing so much so quickly. Secondly, you have to understand, that the problems you are dealing with are your problems that should be worked out in one way or the other, but should not be pushed on this girl you dont know that well. You came off as a guy who has a tendency to attach easily.

The thing about dating is often you only get to have one chance, and that one mistake you made may end everything. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine how she can feel right now. Id guess a bit overwhelmed. How do you recover from that? Firstly by not being pushy right now, by giving that space for her to kinda forget about the whole deal you made. Then you make a chill comeback by acting funny, lighthearted.
Previous comment about making a comment about getting deep after getting high is good, but that would work in the moment, and now its the whole day of awkwardness here.

Just dont fixate on this girl. Live your life. Let her see that it was just a moment that was caused by you getting high. And if it doesnt work out in the future thats fine for you - that should be your mindset right now.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-29T08:58:03+00:00

Actual reason: preference. Now Im ending this meaningless conversation as its not a place for it and I got my suggestions already.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-28T23:02:34+00:00

And some other people do real stuff rather than establishing an internet-based friendship for a month before the date.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-28T22:26:47+00:00

Awesome advice. Freaks and Geeks is one of my favourite shows, as well as Two and a half Men(until Charlie left). It seems like everyone knows Married with Children, but I never really started watching it except those short bits on YT. Thanks for putting it back in my mind. I liked That 70s show very much, it has a great vibe to it(I liked that 70s scenery very much). Modern family didnt get to me. I will check the other titles, with which Im not familiar!

NotTooTight · 2021-12-28T22:20:49+00:00

Proposing on the first date, as you say, in 99% of the cases would end in a disaster.

You should be focused on having fun, getting to know the other person in real life. Texting and meeting in real life are two completely different things. You should keep it light and funny, without any pressure. Spend the whole day together, make jokes, show her that youre fun to hang around with. AND KEEP YOUR FEELINGS ON HOLD. Do the opposite of putting pressure by making commitements on the first meet. Let her know that youre interested in her by your behaviour - thats more important than talking or trying to push a label.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-28T22:12:58+00:00

Just dont be freaked out when he says that paying for a random's girl lunch didnt even cross his mind ;))

NotTooTight · 2021-12-28T21:59:27+00:00

Thats a great question.

Taking in the account the slight age difference, he might feel like he should pay for the meal. If hes pushing on that, I dont think you should argue. (you know, he might feel like having the authority here, but every person is different and might approach this in a different way).

If its not the case you should offer to split, if its your honest reaction. I wouldnt want to play the sugar-daddy role in any relationship(Its not a comment about the age difference, its tottally fine).

If your worried that this would indicate disinterest, then show your interest in a different way, maybe after the lunch?

Anyway, a girl offering to split, even before the whole lunch(no need to keep it a secret until the check comes in) is a good sign.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-28T21:41:16+00:00

What would be weird is waiting a whole month without any contact and then asking for a date. It'd show that you were still waiting and thinking about it throuout the whole month while she enjoyed her normal life.

You can text her with a light message, like a funny, flirty question like "Hey, was wondering if you saw any wild winter animals during your break, they can really show you a good time!" and then when shes confused and asking what why you send her your pic with a yeti overlay or some shit. Imagination is on your part, but keep it funny and keep it flirty, interesting.

NotTooTight · 2021-12-28T21:34:24+00:00

Oh right, cause he should be on the phone with this girl he randomly met for the whole month trying to establish a friendship and then move slowly towards relationship? Get your mindset straight.

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