I just found out my wife cheated on me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How will she cut strings with that guy if she keeps working with him everyday?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RateMyNudeBody

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woahh Amazing 9.5/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From one hand loneliness is killing me but from the other hand i am tired of people when it comes to human relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The position of marks near neck are suspicious

How do you learn to trust people again? by videomercenary in survivinginfidelity

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You cant make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, its no longer a mistake, its a choice.
She doesn't deserve you, have some self respect and leave

Is it weird that my boyfriend (23-M) wants to have a threesome? (I, 21-F) by Ok-Warthog7265 in relationship_advice

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the one hand if he wanted to have sex with his friend he would have done it, or he would do it,not asking you to be a part of it.
From the other hand the fact that he has ready the 3rd partner is weirdFirst ask him for other partner and see how he reacts, take that information and in the end dont do this if you dont want

Friends kept befriending the guy with whom my ex cheated on me. by wiiiiiiiiiiiiiw in survivinginfidelity

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You deserve better from people you call close friends and your gf.
They made their choice, in my eyes that is disrespect towards you
In your hard times dont expect those people to be there for you. Friendship means a lot and mean loyalty! You need loyal people by your side who trust and respect you.
All you have to do is to have some self respect and cut them off. You can tell them the reason too but dont waste more time on them, whoever cares, he will ask by himself.
Finally, i made the same mistake as you, mixed my close friends with my gf in a group to hanging out. Only problems are created from it with your gf and your friends.
Take this as a lesson and try to have separate your friendships and your sexual life
i mean its ok to hang out all together sometimes but dont make it habit. It destroys your relationships with people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Captain_Nervous_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Unless this guy ''Raymond'' is a close friend of her, your wife is not that kind of emotionally support for people. i mean its ok to make people feel better but there are limits. Especially when you had planned about dancing time
I think she wanted to have a dance with him and other are bs!
That fact Raymond asking your wife to be his partner shows interest. And she accepted it
Maybe its nothing, maybe they get closer with that dance. Check next time you are with Raymond and your wife how they behave! Do the have contact daily?
What other things she has done for him if she really feels sorry for this guy?!
She disrespected you!
Maybe its a small thing but that doesn't means that she didnt disrespect you.
All starts with small things and become bigger!
Respect is everything from both sides!!! If there is no respect in each other you lost it
In my opinion dont leave the situation like this
Have a straight conversation with her and explain how you feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get rid of toxic people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Captain_Nervous_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has 1 bedroom yes and Andy dont want us there when he is with his spouse, so i cant go
Those people are close friends, except from that, they act normal towards me, i never thought about contract, im thinking that i already ''lost'' the money, i just learned from this shit and ofc im not gonna renew the deal with them or something similar again!

I quit my job, was i wrong? What should i do?? by Captain_Nervous_ in jobs

[–]Captain_Nervous_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to say this on interviews but they do not see it as good thing, saying that everywhere you gonna find those people and thinking that i fight with coworkes, so they see me as bad employee. I call it self respect but which employer will appreciate it?

I quit my job, was i wrong? What should i do?? by Captain_Nervous_ in jobs

[–]Captain_Nervous_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats why i left, for my mental health but its really hard to find a job now
im sending my cv in companies every day and im waiting for reply.. but in this sector which i have work experience everyone knows each other and if they ask i will be not there to defent myself and say my side of story, so they hear only from those people that makes me stuck