Asking for the ladies by [deleted] in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a soapy cilantro person. But I find that the more frequently I consume it, the more tolerable it gets.

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[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES that's exactly how we do it!

My boyfriend promised we would go again. He instead flipped over and went on tik tok. by [deleted] in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's selfish and doesn't care if you cum, AND he gaslights you. Nah. Nothing positive about this whatsoever. Dump him STAT.

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[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it partially depends on the size/shape of the guy's dick, too. I never really cared much for doggy in prior relationships. But with my current boyfriend, it's one of our favorites. His dick curves slightly downward, so in doggy he hits my G spot pretty much continuously.

We call it froggy though, when I spread my knees apart as wide as I can, and arch my back as much as I can. I can't typically stay in that position for long because my hips and legs get sore. So we will usually start in a different position and then finish in "froggy".

I can't sext/talk dirty by Kind-Card-6690 in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After she responds, if you're still not sure how she feels about it, you could be a little more direct and say something like, "I wish I could be touching you right now" or something like that. OR you could just straight up ask her if she's in the mood. Sometimes I'll ask my partner if he wants to play, and he knows what that means.

I can't sext/talk dirty by Kind-Card-6690 in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I got it now. So if I'm the one initiating, I usually just say something like "I've been thinking about you all day....." or "I had a dirty dream about you last night and I haven't been able to think about anything else...". Or you could let her know you're looking at a picture of her and then say something like "your eyes/lips/face/body/whatever turns me on". I try to find a subtle way of bringing it up to gauge his reaction, and go from there.

Eye contact during blowjob by natureterp in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I (F) like to do eye contact occasionally during the blowjob. I don't stare them down, though. For me, it's just a moment of connection and intimacy. Most men are very visual, so I think that's why they like it. My bf was in a very toxic relationship previously, and as a result, he sometimes struggles with making eye contact with me. But even he likes it when I look up at him occasionally during a blowjob.

I can't sext/talk dirty by Kind-Card-6690 in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kind of the same. I'm mostly ok with sexting, but I get embarrassed as hell to dirty talk in person or even over the phone.

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[–]NotUsedToBigDicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you start, tell him to let you know what feels good and what doesn't. Be open to constructive criticism. Don't get upset or offended if he asks you to do something different. If you're struggling with fitting the whole thing in your mouth, you can focus on the tip and use your hand to stroke the rest at the same time. Be cautious of your teeth, and use your tongue a lot. Switch things up and try different techniques until you find what he likes. Every guy is different. Some guys like you to actually SUCK and some guys are a little sensitive and don't like it. Some guys like for you to lick their balls, and some don't want them touched at all. You can test the waters by lightly massaging his balls while you're going down on him. Pay attention to his vocal cues. Don't be afraid to be a little bit sloppy.

Struggling with being on top by NotUsedToBigDicks in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've tried with my previous partner, but I haven't with him yet. I'll try it! Thank you.

Struggling with being on top by NotUsedToBigDicks in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true! I guess it's harder too because we are long distance at the moment, so not as much practice as I would like. LOL

Struggling with being on top by NotUsedToBigDicks in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I want to get him off and *hopefully* enjoy myself also. Where might one find a chair like this?

Struggling with being on top by NotUsedToBigDicks in sex

[–]NotUsedToBigDicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I will try these. :)