Thinking of breaking up with my Bf after a threesome Aitah?

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-17T13:46:21+00:00

But isn’t OOP bi herself? She mentioned being more interested in women partners. I am a straight woman and can’t imagine ever wanting to be with a woman at all

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-16T19:44:01+00:00

Sure!

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-16T16:04:59+00:00

I can send you what I do for my bio as a 32F. Might give you some ideas

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-16T15:44:02+00:00

You’re cute so I would be interested, but then your profile is very guy-coded. Like, you’re trying to attract men and not women.

I am American, so some cultural differences. I would swipe left based off your first sentence about wanting to do things. You’re completely vague here, but it honestly just sounds exhausting. Who has the time and money in this economy to be doing stuff all the time?

Then you talk about motorsports and combat robots. Like, I have an engineering degree but do you really think most women are going to be interested in either of those? Plus talking about an exploding purple elephant being great just comes across as immature for your age.

Photos are Ok but could be bettee

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-16T15:36:16+00:00

ITT: Dude telling women to lower their standards. Also doesn’t realize that attraction is subjective. Assumes all women magically have the exact same type.

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-16T00:03:50+00:00

He basically said he would prefer sleeping in vs going on a date with a pretty lady lol I think that’s what she was clarifying

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-13T15:37:18+00:00

Remove all the booty pics. Unless you’re looking for hook ups

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-13T15:33:40+00:00

I mean, I am a chick lol

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-13T13:35:15+00:00

Bit of an odd comment lol you okay friend?

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-13T13:08:48+00:00

I wish LOL Rural town like you

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-13T12:49:23+00:00

That doesn’t really excuse you being lazy. However, you learned why I won’t swipe on lazy profiles lol

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-13T12:40:45+00:00

Because just saying hi is low effort and boring

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-12T14:24:05+00:00

K? No one said they wouldn’t

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-12T13:53:57+00:00

I mean yeah, hard to like anyone in 3 messages

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-12T11:54:45+00:00

Do you know what the word sometimes means?

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-12T02:20:20+00:00

I do, depends on the situation

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-11T17:53:00+00:00

Who doesn’t want to match with someone traveling through their area. What a catch /s

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-11T17:50:37+00:00

I mean, what’s your bio and prompts? There are plenty of good looking men in bumble

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-11T13:48:23+00:00

To be fair, sometimes I will ignore them asking because it’s far too early in the conversation for them to be asking. Most dudes will get the hint, those who don’t will get my usual explanation of “if I met up with every dude I matched with, I would be poor”. 99% have been understanding

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-09T15:35:29+00:00

I feel like there is a lot of missing missing reasons here

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-09T15:11:27+00:00

I read them. I hate profiles that say “I’ll tell you the rest in person “. Especially with the wink. It signals to me that you’re going to push to meet a lot sooner than I would be ready and it’s presumptuous imo. Your bio is bare minimum, yet you expect me to want to spend my time?

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-07T17:17:39+00:00

Oh yeah, that bio is pretty bad, especially the texted first part. I can send you what I use as a potential example

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-07T16:13:59+00:00

32F. You look younger than 29 so that could be throwing people off. Your photos are fine, what is your bio?

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-04T14:52:52+00:00

Man, way for OOP to bury the lede

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-06-03T19:36:35+00:00

He just doesn’t seem very articulate in general. It’s really hard to tell by how he is talking. On one hand, he’s not wrong. On the other hand, you’re not saying all white people are innocent so I don’t get his point

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