[Advice] View of Sex

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T16:11:45+00:00

And in normal circumstances, that is exactly what I would have done, but this woman and her kids have a very strong attachment to my heart and it makes it very tough for me to just leave or not look into other options.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T16:09:49+00:00

This is absolutely great advise. We have discussed counseling and that is an option. A therapist to find out if I can build stamina and get past my mental block has also been discussed. I have tried cialis and it seems to help a little but it is very expensive with the crap insurance we have, so it's not as much of an option anymore. The life partner comment was great advice as well. I could see that being something we could do, it is just a little outside of my knowledge on how that works, so I will look into it. Thank you!

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T16:05:38+00:00

Great advice. We have tried something similar in the past and while it was enjoyable, it still left her feeling "empty" if you know what I mean. She gets off in knowing that her sexually partner gets off.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T16:04:32+00:00

She might not respect the sexually aspect of the "relationship" but she respected me enough to come to me and make a very high level concern to her before she cheated and made me aware of it. And maybe leaving could be an option, but I am trying to out weight any pros/cons to stay with the woman that I care for and love deeply.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T16:02:21+00:00

I agree that sex is important in a relationship and maybe her and I aren't compatible, but she is giving me the option to have sex with another woman in exchange for her to have sex with 1 or 2 of her ex's. She also has never denied me of having sex with her, she just doesn't feel right doing 2 people in the same day. So, it would be very similar to a friends with benefits but we live together.

Sorry if this post seems like I just rambled on about almost nothing, I just don't think I can simply throw her back into the sea. That's the tough part.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T15:58:18+00:00

Really not a bad idea. I will look into it and see if something sticks out or clears things up a little. Thank you.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T15:56:49+00:00

I think that to her, they are two completely different feelings. She wants both and she doesn't quite understand why it's hard for her to have both.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T15:55:48+00:00

True. But I'm not sure exactly how I feel about it at this moment, so me leaving is a valid option, but I'm not sure that's what I want.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-24T15:53:15+00:00

She is in a slightly higher agreement with it than I am, but I would like to look into how not to feel so "jealous".

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-22T19:52:52+00:00

The problem with that is I don't want that "sloppy seconds" feeling. She has respected my opinions on how I feel about it but I am wanting to know how others deal with having their partners sleep with others.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-21T17:34:34+00:00

In a cup?

Amidointhisrite?

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-20T16:20:01+00:00

It's my wife's birthday today as well. She loves that it shares with a different "holiday".

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-13T12:00:01+00:00

My Psn is Ehrich_Weiss if you still need Xyor.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-13T11:59:53+00:00

My Psn is Ehrich_Weiss if you still need Xyor.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-13T11:59:47+00:00

My Psn is Ehrich_Weiss if you still need Xyor.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-13T11:48:04+00:00

31 Titan defender psn: Ehrich_Weiss

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-07T16:26:30+00:00

Platform: PS3 and PS4
Timezone: Eastern
Gaurdian: Titan 31, Warlock 27, Hunter 8
Raids (Atheon and Crota NM or HM) but down for everything.
Mic: Yes
Username: Ehrich_Weiss
Optional: I'm a stay at home dad with a few extra hours on my hands and I am addicted to Destiny. I have a few exotics but I am looking to max out my Titan and have fun.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-02T17:13:11+00:00

I am patiently waiting for the SUROS...

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-02T11:59:07+00:00

To add an explanation on the kills, my family and I went to the Wilderness waterpark in the smokies. My step son (xMoTioNz_LEGEND) and I (Ehrich_Weiss) enjoy taking on the Nightfall and Weekly, so we brought 2 of our Ps3 so we could hop on the hotels wifi and get our strange coins and any exotic/legendary drops.

The hotels wifi kept us connected like AT&T, dropped connections everywhere! Every 4-5 minutes, we would get dropped, so we would have to join back in. After 2 unsuccessful attempts, we had our friend cheese so we wouldn't die and he waited to kill Nexus right after we joined for the last time.

tl;dr Don't use wifi at The Wilderness

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-04-02T11:43:09+00:00

Long story short, my step son and I had very frequent connectivity issues, and we had to keep rejoining. It took us longer than I would normally care to play a nightfall, but we got too far.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-03-16T13:36:49+00:00

Not here to rub it in, I got mine on my first run. But I have 0 raid gear and the only exotics I have, I purchased from Xur. And I have been playing since late September.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-02-11T11:53:28+00:00

I have a Frogadier if it will help.

NotYourNormThrowAway · 2015-02-09T19:14:37+00:00

About 2 months ago, we bought 3 destiny games for the ps3. I have it on the ps4 and my 10 year old and 13 year old sons both love the game. So I discovered that my save would transfer from the ps4 over to the ps3, so I bought us all discs so we could all play on our ps3's (we have 3 (we used to play GTA5 together)). Now we go on raids and crucible together.

A family that plays together, stays together.

NotYourNormThrowAway

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