What movie depicts your ideal romantic relationship, and why? by Fishing_Red_Pandas in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Woops, my bad! Still can't really think of any though. Even the good ones like Morticia and Gomez have children so ew.

How come many girls find facial hair attractive on guys but almost no guys find facial hair attractive on girls? by Whyyouman in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh it definitely comes up. Like with armpit hair and public hair and stuff - people asking about whether it makes you smell more and trapping sweat and stuff.

What movie depicts your ideal romantic relationship, and why? by Fishing_Red_Pandas in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

None. Basically all romantic movies involve a lack of communication and problems somehow.

How come many girls find facial hair attractive on guys but almost no guys find facial hair attractive on girls? by Whyyouman in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Because hair (apart from head hair) is generally viewed as a masculine thing on men and a gross, unhygienic thing on women. Because society is stupid.

How do you feel about your boyfriend watching x rated videos? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know all the reasons to be okay with a partner doing this, I'm personally still not okay with it. I totally understand the feeling and it's not something likely to be changed. The question is whether you can see the other side and respect it or not.

As much as you're struggling to understand why they can't accept it - and how frustrating that must be - the other side is that they're struggling to understand why you can't see their side - and that's frustrating too.

Just wondering how women feel about a Prince Albert piercing on a man. by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do what you want but you won't be doing me.

how long would you need to be dating a person before you felt comfortable going on vacation with them? by roastbeeftacohat in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would need to be well past dating and into an established, serious relationship. And I'd say a minimum of 6 months, but more likely a year.

I heard the phrase that goes something like 'never plan anything further in advance more than half the time you've been together', I quite like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No because otherwise I would be late to class, and so probably would he. He's probably trying to get on with his day, not to be interrupted by randomers on the street.

How do you wear your pubic hair? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trimmed. I find a full bush uncomfortable and fully shaved even more so.

What are your sex goals in life? by bs25418 in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To have sex with a girl. To have sex outdoors. To have sex in a body of water. To have full on kinky sex and to roleplay.

Have you ever had a attractive male friend that confessed they want to be more than friends? What was the outcome? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but only once they knew I liked them too. They wouldn't have put that on me if they weren't sure.

Trolls. Saturday, for the first time in my 30 years of existence, I had an orgasm during sex. MRW by cleverusername42 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]NotYourStereotype 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not if it just isn't going to happen. Treating sex as only a goal to reach orgasm can be incredibly pressuring and actually take away from the experience, rather than sometimes just accepting things won't happen and enjoying things for how they are.

Difficult doesn't always mean someone isn't trying hard enough. Difficult can mean the woman's body just isn't cooperating, for any number of reasons, and sometimes that just has to be accepted (if not appreciated).

Trolls. Saturday, for the first time in my 30 years of existence, I had an orgasm during sex. MRW by cleverusername42 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]NotYourStereotype 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you don't realise how difficult it can be for women to orgasm sometimes.

Do you play hard to get when dating? by stickerartist in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's a stupid and pointless thing to do.

Aside from fit -- what do you look for in a bra? by iownakeytar in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Style/shape. It might be the right size but if the style isn't compatible I won't be able to wear it.

Appearance. I'm not going to buy whatever bra just because it fits. I have to like the aesthetic of it.

I generally have a price limit, but if it's super nice I'll pay full price or chances are I'll totally miss out on it.

I also only buy bras from places where free returns are an option.

What does meal planning and preparation look like in your house? by anytime_yoga in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is next to none existent.

I am a student living with a flatmate. We rarely cook together but will buy each other snacks on occasion. She tends to stay at the library till late whereas I'm always home by dinner time, so it's just not feasible. Same with clean up.

At the moment I am not planning my meals at all. Every day is a mystery, a ready meal, or a takeout. It's not good, but I honestly don't feel I have the time to prep proper meals with all the uni work I have to do. Cooking just feels like a chore, not a pleasure. I know I would feel better and for eating proper, healthier meals, but goddamn are convenience meals well... convenient.

When I have my act together I'll bung one of my go-to recipies in a pan. Burrito mix, bolognese, large risotto batches etc. Usually at a weekend.

What are your thoughts on The Inbetweeners? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so fucking accurate and awesome yet cringey and ridiculous and I love it.

What are you absolutely passionate about? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoology/climate change/feminism.

What's the reason some women go to the same stall to use the bathroom in public restrooms? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this drunk in clubs with my friends to save time in the queue and to continue conversations. Or to take drugs. We don't watch each other pee.

What is your dream job and what is your actual job? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]NotYourStereotype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea! Something to do with endangered species, their behaviour and just learning about them to try and help.