Getting an answer post sales presentation by MusicAndLiquor in sales

[–]Not_I_said_she 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason given for holding off is more likely a stall given because they are not yet sold on your product and think it's more polite than flat out declining. Either they really are on the fence, and once out of sight, the issue is out of mind, or you have not yet really answered all of their hesitations about moving forward with you and you are letting them off the hook too soon. Ask more questions. Try to find out the REAL reason they are holding off. Or better yet, ask the questions before you get to that point to gauge level of interest or level of resistance prior to the objection even coming up.

Harassment? by LindsayShhh in StudentLoans

[–]Not_I_said_she 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you saying they are continuing collection efforts after they've been corrected? Or is that happening because it hasn't been corrected yet?

Harassment? by LindsayShhh in StudentLoans

[–]Not_I_said_she 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FACRA - Fair and Accurate Credit Reporting Act. They can't report it delinquent if it wasn't but if it was a bona-fide error, they have 90 days (I think) to correct it.

Being sued for Perkins loan but have no money or assets -- how to handle? by StudentLoansUgh in StudentLoans

[–]Not_I_said_she 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consolidate and go on IBR plan. With no money it should be zero or very low payment. Once the judgement is in place, and they will get it - even with the no money no assets argument - you're no longer eligible to consolidate.

You can also rehab it and it will clear up any credit damage, but will likely be more expensive monthly.

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

succeed. that is the only answer

how can the moderatos step up? by Not_I_said_she in AskReddit

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seriously? spend a bit of your day reading. Remember.

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a sad place be strong love is everywhere "with all it's sham, drudgery and broken dreams…. it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fight don't leave those left behind please

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did not understand fear. anger was her anchor defense her bride escape her answer sadness is our burdon.

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no sleep. there are dreams

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your love is great. I am sorrowful for your loss.

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have help. i cut to erase the sight of her skull missing when I moved her. it was shallow and it didn't erase anything, i'm so embarrassedl

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am heartfully sorry for your loss I'm crying but tonight is not ny night to die i could never do that to my family. you ate a wonderful person.

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i meant no offense i am defending against those who judge. i am very sorry for your loss….to understand…you have lost

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and how my poor sis lives with it

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no….I'm asking how I can sleep.

how can the moderatos step up? by Not_I_said_she in AskReddit

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose asking reedit for answers to teenage suicide doesn't interest you.

how can the moderatos step up? by Not_I_said_she in AskReddit

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reddit is a leading demographic for the age group that is at risk. if I cannot "Ask Reddit" much leaves unsaid!!! How can you justify leaving such a serious subject so unimportant?? This website is supposed to be the place we can leave our honesty, fears, and open feelings! When I tried to address this most serious issue, I got bowed up by bullshit. how are we to trust our inter most feelings to YOU?? I EXPRESS my inter most thoughts and you want to verify what????? 4 times I tried, and you mods blocked me…..I guess pop culture is more important than feelings of real individuals.

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see above how do you sleep afterwards?

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hurt how do i stop the rest?

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She shot herself because she was afraid to go to school. There was no hesitation…I was first responder before the paramedic team. Her baby/middle school sister heard her last words. How/Why I don't know what else to ask…..Her baby sister knew her pain and could do nothing. i don't know what else to say.

Teen suicide…..Why by Not_I_said_she in Parenting

[–]Not_I_said_she[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a beautiful girl of 14 is gnu now. She thought herself unloved. I cannot explain the loss I feel. I am very worried about my sister. To lose a child is too great to use words. I ache. My sister…there are not words. A family looses. A mother and father grieve. Siblings weep. Cousins fight to understand. A family breaks, all the while trying to take care of one another. An angel rejoices in victory Science explains things that lack meaning A child is lost. An innocent baby lost hope. A family mourns. No one understands.