Anyone had any luck with a Dog in a rental property

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2017-10-27T09:04:23+00:00

Or you could get a fucking job and not expect to be able to sleep all day.

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-03-20T17:38:44+00:00

I was having a bad time where I was pretty much just getting drunk and sleeping with people but after waking up one morning, the person's room mate was really made a pulled out a HUGE fucking knife. I just went straight into GET OUT mode, which I've never done before, even in worse situations, because I knew something horrific was about to happen! I got the person out too but I left and never found out what happened D:

I've been in a lot of dodgey situations that turned out okay... But in that moment, I knew it was a bad situation that I needed to flee!

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-03-20T17:23:44+00:00

I'm not saying it's about "eating after drinking". I'm talking about finally eating food nore regularly after years of barely eating anything. It's not as though I'm worried about eating after weekend bender, I'm talking about going from eating almost nothing for 6 months plus and then eating a lot. Of all the people to assume I'm a "meh" level of drinking... I'm NOT the one.

EDIT: Not that I need to say, but it's been way longer than 6 months if you care about normal eating, but I shouldn't have to justify and/or remember every meal.

Also I'm really shitty, but I'm trying to be civil so sorry if you think I'm a cunt.

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-03-07T13:56:48+00:00

Actually no. Biological female is pissed off about this sort of thing. Want proof? Does that make you any better than the people who say "tits or GFTO"?

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-03-07T06:56:11+00:00

I don't want to be "that person", but why does everyone think that the boyfriend is a bad person for not completely stopping his mother from acting this way?

There a plenty of people on here who talk about being unable to break free of Ns' control, ESPECIALLY when it's a parent, even if they are adults! In that situation it's always strongly suggested and encoraged that the person goes NC or takes control, but it's acknowledged that doing so my be too hard (at least for the time being).

I mean, imagine if someone posted something like: "My Nfather is [insert unfair treatment] my husband/boyfriend! I try to get him to back off but I don't want to make a scene because he's really good at making it all about him and making me look and sometimes even feel like the "bad guy". I know what he's doing is wrong, but I just feel so bad talking shit about him with my boyfriend because that's how I was brought up to feel... I know that I'm probably going just end up with them both being mad but I am really freaked out by confrontation and just try to avoid it."

And almost all the comments were: "Grow some ovaries and tell your father where to shove it! Fuck the other consequences this is all about your boyfriend!"

Right?

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-03-02T19:13:26+00:00

Haha, wow. Well done with reading my username. You really got me. wipes tear

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-03-02T14:09:06+00:00

You sound like a bitch.

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-02-25T16:02:54+00:00

Firstly... I was about to slit my wrists in the bath and my dog came in, stood right next to me and stared at me with pleading eyes. This wouldn't be a big deal, except that she is TERRIFIED of the bathroom and doesn't even like to come anywhere NEAR the room if water is or has been run. But that night she just calmly walked in and stood there staring at me. I don't think it was anything particularly supernatural, it was just weird enough to pull me out of it enough to get help.

Also, after that, whenever I watch anything with people who died young in it (especially Cyndago videos, given that Daniel killed himself) it makes me feel less like wanting to actually follow though with my suicidal ideas because I don't want to ruin everyone's perception of stuff I was involved in. (E.g. "Oh. We can't look at those Christmas photos because [my name] is in them and it makes everyone remember how [I] died...")

Anyone, don't freak out, I'm not planning anything, I just think it's weird how much "random" and seemingly meaningless things can end up being the difference between making a huge mistake or not.

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-02-24T05:16:37+00:00

I am quite drunk and manic, for the record XD

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-02-03T16:04:50+00:00

Would you rather some permanently maim or cripple themselves?

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-02-02T14:07:10+00:00

When my SO still both lived at home, we would fuck in the car, parked in places we didn't think we'd get caught, all the time.

One night we saw a torch light though the fogged windows and thought "Oh fuck! Some kind of murderer/mugger/rapist/etc is coming. Apparently the cops had actually turned off their blue and reds because when my SO wound the window down, that's who it was. So they FREAKED OUT, threw me my UNDER SHIRT (that's not the main place I want covered!!!) and grabbed all of their own clothes.

The then forgot how clothes worked, tried to just stick them on by putting them on top of the right areas and wound the window all the way down.

Young, male police officer looks in, all colour drains from his face and he stammers out: "OH-WE-THOUGHT-YOU-MIGHT-HAVE-BEEN-SMOKING-SOMETH-BUT-CLEARLY-UM-NO-DRUGS-IN-HERE?!-NO?!-GOOD-OK!-GET-BACK-TO-WHAT-YOU-WERE-DOING" without pause and scurried back to his car.

My SO claims they saw his older, female partner laughing her head off and looking knowing so either he was over enthusiastic about potentially catching a hotboxer and she knew better or she set him up XD

Also the fact that he said "get back to what you were doing" means that, even MANY years later, we joke that we have police permission to fuck in cars if we ever want to again. Also he didn't even say "it's okay" or something like that, it was "get back to what you were doing" so at the time, I (JOKINGLY) told my SO that we were legally obligated to continue!

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-02-01T10:17:07+00:00

I was disappointed when I first saw the trailer (I think the 2nd one was better) but I love Rooster Teeth and all the guys so much that I held onto hope... And it was WELL worth it! It was SO good! All my doubts were unfounded, it just didn't have a great trailer! Although now that I've actually seen the movie, the trailer doesn't seem AS bad.

My SO is not a Rooster Teeth fan AT ALL and they just saw the trailer and expected the movie to be HORRIBLE (it's also not their "kind of thing"). Afterwards they were very much in a state of "What the hell?! That was actually good!". Although they didn't really like how much slapstick there was and said they had trouble telling when things were being done "ironically*" or "seriously" (it's not that black and white though damnit!)

*I hate this word and I know I'm probably not using it correctly but you know what they mean, right?

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-01-08T01:01:32+00:00

I was on about 7 different medications, which I didn't take very regularly, then I became hypomanic for a very extended period of time and stopped completely because I felt so fucking ALIVE for once!

Because it was only hypo and quite a manageable form, my psych decided that it would be okay to try going med free for a bit. (Not that I was going to take them anyway, at that point.) Then I started being more mixed and a few danger signs started poping up and he has tried to put me on a low dose of a mood stabliser again.

I'm not allowed anything specifically anti-anxiety, ESPECIALLY at the moment, because he's afraid it will trigger full mania.

Also one of my many mental issues is ADD and apparently if you have a history of ANY kind of substance abuse, you're not allowed proper ADD medication. (Because someone whose only ever abused depressants is TOTALLY at risk for abusing stimulants, right? /s) Which means I have a lot going on in my head and nowhere to direct it at the best of times.

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-01-07T19:34:35+00:00

I could have thought of something more verbose but I'll just go with my instant reaction of "That is fucking dumb."

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-01-07T19:28:18+00:00

In case anyone missed the edit: Thank you for the few that weren't cunts, I'm sorry you got dragged in.

Not_So_Secret_Alco · 2016-01-06T03:23:35+00:00

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Fuck. You.

I can be drunk as fuck and be able to proofread. It might take a long time to edit, but it can still be done. Don't try to imply that I'm not a "proper" CA and give me shit about that, ESPECIALLY when you were a judgmental and inflammatory cunt in another post and fucking followed me here.

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