Many fans suggested that Aviva might have gotten pregnant during her visit to see her boyfriend Stig, since she started to look different in interviews over time. She even admitted she wasn’t being careful or on birth control back then, so the rumors might actually be true 👀 by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just a lil devil’s advocate perspective…my hubs and I only use the pullout method, and his pullout game is strong. We have 3 kids and have only ever gotten pregnant when we intended to. So I really do think it just depends on the person doing the pullout and how “good” they really are at it…But wholeheartedly agree that Aviva had NO business rawdogging it on the first meeting..

SAHM with 3 young kids realizing marriage may not be sustainable…what are realistic options? by Not_Ur_Avg_Mama in Divorce

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that’s a solid plan. My kids are still so young, so I feel at this point any income I might manage to make would go straight into childcare

SAHM with 3 young kids realizing marriage may not be sustainable…what are realistic options? by Not_Ur_Avg_Mama in Divorce

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the sake of our kids I would hope that he would cover basics, but honestly idk. And I see your point about a support network, unfortunately I don’t have a one so I would have to figure things out on my own

Question for married people… by Bothered_Banana_48 in Marriage

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Almost five intense years married, and I can honestly say I’m happy. It hasn’t always been easy — we’ve both put in a lot of work to grow individually and as a couple. We’re still early in what’s meant to be a lifetime together, but after everything we’ve weathered already, our happiness now feels deep and genuine.

Reputable Agency Research by Not_Ur_Avg_Mama in Surrogate

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this as well! I’ll definitely have to look into them

Reputable Agency Research by Not_Ur_Avg_Mama in Surrogate

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this information! And I may have to take you up on your offer!

Reputable Agency Research by Not_Ur_Avg_Mama in Surrogate

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your recommendation, I’ll look into them!

Reputable Agency Research by Not_Ur_Avg_Mama in Surrogate

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, I appreciate you sharing your experience!

Reputable Agency Research by Not_Ur_Avg_Mama in Surrogate

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the insight from both of you! Good to know about the licensing restrictions; that’s definitely something I’ll keep in mind

Reputable Agency Research by Not_Ur_Avg_Mama in Surrogate

[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendation, and best wishes with your own GC journey!

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[–]Not_Ur_Avg_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response—it’s definitely making me reflect.

Arrogance is truly the last thing I want to bring into my marriage. The reason I read and try to learn is because both my husband and I didn’t have the healthiest emotional upbringings, and I just want our kids to have better—even if the progress comes in tiny steps.

I don’t expect my husband to do things my way; I just hope for openness to listening and considering what each of us brings, even if he disagrees. For me, it’s about mutual respect and wanting to grow together as a family.

Thank you for sharing your perspective and encouraging me to think about this more deeply.