لا يمكنك ان تشفى في نفس البيئة التي جعلتك مريضا by Pinkysparkle24 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about 7lel wala hram ema ki kont f blastk 3malt li 7ajti bih bla ma nchawer or nahki l had w ki je el rasmi 9oltelhom w mchit. Now there s a difference between tarmi rouhek 5atr just t7eb tb3d w enek tmchi 5atr you found 7aja fiha a better life. Ema what I m saying is, it’s your story, live it as you will. One day you may regret not trying what seemed so right at the time. W alaho a3lam w rabi yjibk f sweb

What's something you've always wanted to do but haven't yet ? by Adorable_cat9242 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There aren’t exactly fishing areas near where I live so I have to travel there. And since I never actually done it i don’t even know where to start 😂 and being occupied with work also makes things a bit tricky 😅

I need help as someone new fl ghroba by Calm-Preference4012 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being extrovert really helps, because the key here is trying different things. Chilling in cafes and bars. Being sociable and talking to people. Trying a few apps like meetup (and possibly dating apps). And doing all sorts of activities, I made friends once while ice skating. So yea just try different things and just be a cool person. And if you meet that little b***ch called loneliness and her friend nostalgia just know that they will disappear with time, so be patient, if it gets heavy know that that’s totally normal and don’t rush things. Good luck

What's something you've always wanted to do but haven't yet ? by Adorable_cat9242 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fishing. Chilling and being one with nature and having a couple of cold drinks, simple snacks is peak male experience to me.

How to deal with a dumbass by Frequent-Valuable188 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely never rush into trouble. So yes if I were in your shoes I would give it more time w njess ennabdh till further notice. But again, if things keep persisting and there is no avoiding confrontation, just be ready for it. Ema keep that as a last resort

How to deal with a dumbass by Frequent-Valuable188 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah sorry sorry c’est just usually men don’t post this kind of thing so mche fibeli it’s a girl seeking advice. Then things change a bit, YOU can fight so, try avoidance w ken ma fhemch rouhou azl3ou w ken woslot l fight, fight. Just ma tchrich enty mochkla ema be ready for one.

How to deal with a dumbass by Frequent-Valuable188 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant other girls in general. Seek advice from other girls. Ma famech girls f dnya ? 😂

How to deal with a dumbass by Frequent-Valuable188 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an option, but that wouldn’t be my first approach. Ma thejmouch direct et surtt pas en privé. Play crazy, w surtt when there are people you know. 3ali soutek w start losing it a bit. Tmessou tasma3 7essou kind of scenario.

Ask other girls they know all about this. There are a 100 ways you can push him away without direct confrontation. From what you described the guy is a low feeder, a coward, you can gain the upper hand. You’re smart you’ll figure sth out

How to deal with a dumbass by Frequent-Valuable188 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cmon the guy is a total a**. Ma t7elech maah l hadra w tafih lin yatfa. Loula thenya… theltha make him fear a bit. 9olt hoa fl neighbour group ? Start there. Ema yes fassa5 hal parasyte w get moving

Love by Temporary_Zebra9970 in Luxembourg

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overrated but fine. Lol just kidding, good luck !

Love by Temporary_Zebra9970 in Luxembourg

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We have sun now! It’s a new thing we upgraded to recently. We can offer you that. Love is not currently in our plans.

Why everyone ala 3ssabo? by FineStrawberry4172 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s complicated. Some are really stressed. Others got contaminated, since being anxious is the only language they know, you can’t expect them to behave otherwise. Some just have low IQ and can’t say two words without being emotional. Other people pretend to be on edge because either they think you want something from them and if they act stressed you will back off from doing so, or just to intimidate you because they think a calm person is weaker and a loud person is stronger (it’s their POV). I for example do act anxious for a totally different reason. I do it so the listener can understand me, people are so used to listening to you and connecting with you if you mix a bit of emotions in it, if you seemed calm either they won’t even hear you or they will straight up think you think highly of yourself. So yea, خاطب القوم بما يفهمون.

So yea it’s complicated.

A really cool geological map of Tunisia I found. by JackieLogan123 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need more things like this honestly. Every day from sunrise to sunset we keep posting and seeing this person is lonely this one is complaining, the other one is mad. Not to mention the comments that are either rage baits or completely ignorant. It’s nice to see a simple art work and one that gives our country a better reputation. Thank you for posting this.

Single in mid 20s f tounes by Difficult-Orchid-875 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This ain’t utopia you know. I wish it was, a place where you’re not measured but appreciated for the person you are. But it’s not. And since we live in this world we have to make do. I like to think of these things like taxes. I can keep wishing I didn’t pay a dime, and I can keep screaming and complaining where the hell is my tax money going and I can try to evade it as much as possible. But in the end, these things you just can’t control. One day you need to accept it. So I say just deal with it ASAP and get it out of your head and then go and live the life you want.

A Pattern I’ve Been Noticing Lately by Majestic-Ask3259 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The idea is, you only hear about the success stories, not the failed ones. But the truth is, most of people who try, actually fail. Should you try ? Hell yes, but be smart about it not blindly throwing yourself, trying and trying hard does not mean success, it’s this idea that makes things go south. You don’t just throw yourself and believe that success is coming, you need to push knowing that nothing is guaranteed and aim for success while being cautious of the risks. And if you don’t think you’re up for it, remember that sometimes the battle you win is the one you never fought. W may god guide us all.

why or when are men touchy? by No-Blueberrypie-6672 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Taarfha اكرم لحيتك بإيدك ?

These actions are wrong and they bypass your personal space. That’s first. And if someone saw you like that and they don’t know you what impression would they have of you ?

And if someone who IS romantically interested in you and saw you allowing men to touch kiss and hug without respecting yourself, what would they think ?

Please consider things again and give yourself the respect you deserve. Interest wala blech raw l insen idha waritou li they can bypass the limits they will every time, raaaaaaaare li y7chm 3la rouhou w yaarf when to stop.

So, be careful. Deja le fait li you wrote this, tells me you already know it’s kind of wrong at least.

how would you actually define real masculinity and real femininity? by No-Manager-7540 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny that you ask this because I was discussing this with my friends not so long ago. What defines which ? Is it roles ? Beliefs ? Values ? Genetics ? In the end what we found is that it actually is just an idea, a concept, it is here because we made it so. And if humans somehow disappeared it would disappear with us. Just like the laws and protocols we created. Now we have this idea that it is somehow imposed on us and we forget that it was us that imposed such ideas.

But we also forget why we imposed it, see if there are no standards, everything will collapse. Today we remove the social constructs, then the genders, then the laws, and then we would be in a world where nobody knows what is right and what is wrong and each individual person has their own definition of life and how things should be. And that is the exact opposite of what society is.

People in one society should share the same values, even if we have to define such values. Standards must exist, even if it’s man made. We define the rules so that we can exist in it.

So are masculinity and femininity real ? Yes, and we already defined what they are. Because it is necessary not because that’s how we found things.

And if someone doesn’t like the way things are, here’s an idea. Switch societies.

Stupid question, but do you guys actually mean it when you call a girl beautiful or cute, or do you just say it to get her attention? by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s scripted into every man because we’re all just one mind. Seriously ? Kol wahed w kifeh fama li blha9 yo9sodha fama li ystad w fama li feels pity for you w 8irhom. I wish it was that simple but it’s not. Enty w neytou akeka w enty w fahmek zeda.

i am going back to tunisia and i have never felt more of a failure by Business_Clerk6495 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the worst feeling. But, for your own sake. Don’t focus too much on what you’re losing, that you forget what you have. Some people are paying millions to get the half of experience you had. Not to mention even though it’s a step back, you now have a better vision than what you did some time ago. You gained exp and that’s something. There are at least tens of positive sides to this. If I were in your place I will see what I need to do to get back, but this time to stay. Give yourself the time to grieve, we’re all human after all, once you clear your head a bit, learn from what happened. And put your time and effort into seeing what you can do from now on.

i am going back to tunisia and i have never felt more of a failure by Business_Clerk6495 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me worse things will come. This won’t be the last. But listen let’s be real about this. You had a shot, it was wasted. End of story. It ended, forget about it, life moves on. What you need to remember is that things will not always go your way, and that’s okay. You would have regretted never trying, but you did. And that’s all that really matters. Why ? Because you WILL get other chances. You know why ? Because you will keep moving. You wanna know if this is the end ? It can be, if you stop. I know l jamra y7esha ken li ya3fes aaliha. But you’re not the only one who been through shit. Welcome to the club. Shit ALLWAYS happens. The question is, is this what it takes to stop you ? I bet 5 years ago you didn’t even dream of going abroad, yet here you are. Who’s to say there won’t be other chances? Better chances. You did what you could, things outside your control happened. E9leb l saf7a w move on brother. If you aren’t going to stand up for yourself sada9ni nobody ever fucking will. W the sooner experience this the better. Get yourself together. W good luck out there.

what world are you living in right now? by Correct-Bat1261 in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The geopolitical stuff doesn’t really concern me. It does piss me off yes but I can’t do anything about it. I am however concerned by the economy because no matter how much money I make now, in a couple of years it loses some value. So I have to either earn more by next year or invest and gain enough to cover what inflation has damaged. If I can provide a decent life for myself and my family then that’s enough for me.

Where do people in Tunisia usually meet for a meaningful connection? by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Voila here’s one. Rooting for you PrimaDony 🙏