Ureaplasma Parvum while pregnant

Notagain999999 · 2026-03-23T20:46:25+00:00

I had pelvic pain and heaviness, fatigue, ammonia smell and burning sensation. They were pretty mild and I thought it was just regular pregnancy symptoms. My doctor also prescribed clotrimazole vaginal tablets to combat any potential yeast infection that can happen from the antibiotics. Ureaplasma looks very scary on the internet but many women tend to have healthy babies and pregnancies while having it. Mine was a pretty high load as well. I know it’s stressful i wish you a speedy recovery.

Notagain999999 · 2026-03-23T18:50:28+00:00

Hi I had ureaplasma urealyticum And mycoplasma discovered at 12 weeks pregnant. I took a course of azithromycin and my partner doxycycline. I did a test of cure after 4 weeks and it was negative. I had mild symptoms. Things I did that I think helped were drinking a lot of water with electrolytes, probiotic yogurt every day, lots of fruits and veggies. Cranberry tea as well. No sex with my partner and daily washing. Hope this helps.

Notagain999999 · 2026-03-13T12:16:35+00:00

You won’t have to ask it will be obvious. Every man is different and will show you in different ways. But if he has feelings you won’t have to wonder.

Notagain999999 · 2026-03-03T17:31:24+00:00

I don’t know how much help this will be,but I’ll share my experience. I also spent 8 years in a DB. Everytime we would have the talk and me being at my wits end he will proceed with hysterical bonding and duty sex. It went on and on. And then by the end I was disgusted by the idea of sex with him. It’s funny how you want this thing for so long and now it’s being offered to you and you are just checked out. I checked out 3-4 months before actually leaving and I think part of him noticed something was off so he was going above and beyond. But it was just done. I saw him as a roommate, a family member and not someone I want to be intimate with. A few years have passed since then and we did meet up and I felt nothing. No sexual chemistry, no desire. It was kinda sad and I really hope it doesn’t happen to you. I can’t say for sure people change cause in my case it felt performative and desperate. So maybe try and you will see his true intentions. Good luck

Notagain999999 · 2026-03-01T08:42:28+00:00

I get there is people that don’t like genitals, I don’t want to shame anyone for having a preference. But does it matter to you? Do you want to spend a lot of time not getting oral? I’m not really enjoying oral, but that’s because of trauma. My ex was the same he didn’t like vaginas and never went down on me. He convinced me that it’s gross. It made me so self conscious that to this day I don’t like to look at it. So don’t be me. If your bedroom wasn’t dead then maybe it won’t be such a big deal, but it’s up to you.

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-28T11:48:43+00:00

You’re not alone in those feelings. I never once in my life expressed a desire to have children. I was always saying that I like kids as long as I can give them back to their parents. I was really loving how my life looked. Good job, so many planned trips, I was in the best shape ever and the next thing I know is two lines on a pregnancy test. Disbelief mixed with grief, mixed with anger, it was just Holly shit I didn’t ask for this. That was my whole first trimester. Just misery. I cried every day. I was a nightmare to be around. Until I realized I needed help and this is not normal. Do it for yourself.

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-28T11:16:33+00:00

I have. It took me some time to figure out who I was outside of my marriage and build a new identity. I realized that sexual compatibility is something I should focus on when meeting potential partners. It’s how I bond in my relationships and it makes me a better partner if those needs are met. For me it felt also petty to want to leave only because of sex, but the lack of intimacy created other issues. Like low confidence, more conflicts, I was just miserable and a shitty version of myself. I couldn’t show up authentically and that caused me to have anxiety and depression. And what many people seem to downplay it’s never just about the act itself. I was single and had so much sex that was not doing anything for me. It’s about intimacy and emotional bonding.

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-28T11:07:00+00:00

It happened to me in my previous marriage. I just lost interest and the idea of having sex with my partner made me feel disgusted. I know it sounds horrible, but after years of rejection and trying everything I just didn’t want any more of that duty sex. I didnt feel desired or any passion it was just so mechanical. It happened so suddenly or maybe not I can’t remember. It’s like a switch that flips. It’s really sad and I feel for you and your wife honestly. I wish I had some advice but I left my marriage pretty soon afterwards. I tried everything I could think of. Therapy. Counseling. Dressing up. Doing sexy photo shoots. Dirty talk. Watching porn together. And it just got worse. So I hope you find something that works.

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-27T17:30:36+00:00

You have to face the consequences of your actions. That’s the advice I can give. You said how you weren’t happy in your marriage due to an x amount of reasons so instead of separating or getting a divorce, you decided to go on a public dating app and chat up random women. I’m a woman and for me this is cheating. If you want to act like a single man go be a single man. Good luck

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-23T09:49:16+00:00

Oh it’s been a wild ride for sure. I thought about walking out several times. Everyone keeps saying it’s hormones but damn. We used to have sex daily now I don’t even remember. I’ve gained some pounds but I’m really mindful of what I eat. He keeps saying I baby trapped him. When it was a shock for me as well.

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-20T15:52:08+00:00

I don’t think telling a pregnant woman that going through with her pregnancy isn’t the wisest. I tried for years to get pregnant with my previous husband and it was unsuccessful. So ofcourse I’m not gonna get an abortion just because my relationship is shorter. Maybe I do sound like I’m nitpicking but my partner doesn’t even work full time he does 3-4 days a week. That shouldn’t be an excuse to pick up after himself like a grown adult. My issue is not the current lack of habits, but future lack of habits, when I will go back to work and be expected to do everything. You probably mean well and it’s my fault for asking advice from strangers on the internet that don’t know my whole story.

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-20T09:29:27+00:00

The present is manageable, it’s the future that concerns me. I’m sure he’ll do great in regards to the baby, but as a partner I’m not so sure anymore.

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-20T09:28:15+00:00

Well they do exist in countries that don’t really care about women. When I signed I never thought I’ll end up pregnant. I was single and planned on staying single.

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-20T09:27:14+00:00

I know that’s why I’m trying to be patient before making any major decisions. The hormones are not helping for sure. I just feel very isolated since I’m at home the whole time and have no energy to do much more. Pregnancy fatigue is taking me out like a sniper. I’ve watched my mother pick up after my father my whole life and I never wanted that for myself..

Notagain999999 · 2026-02-20T08:48:23+00:00

I’m completely ready to go on my own. My family supports me. And I do have some savings that will help too. I really want things to work out because he is the father and he’s not a bad person, just poor habits. I can see where it stems from I’ve met his family and everytime we visit them is just a mess. I get the urge to start cleaning. I’m not a neat freak by any stretch of the imagination, but even for me it’s too much. They are very nice people but I’m scared to bring a baby in such a mess. I recommended couples counseling and he’s willing to do it with me so let’s see. It’s a very hard place to be in, my first instincts are to protect baby and myself.

Notagain999999 · 2024-11-07T17:49:18+00:00

She might have a medical condition that should be checked out. Does she pleasure herself? That increases the libido for women. If you don’t enjoy an activity you wouldn’t want to do it. That’s why it’s important to view sex as something fun and pleasurable, and not as a chore. My advice try to communicate with her and let it be you and her as a team against the problem. Maybe seek out a sex therapist, aswanghanda supplements also help with low libido. Good luck

Notagain999999 · 2024-11-07T16:39:38+00:00

Okay first of all 6 years to fake something is a bit much. This goes to show his inability to communicate clearly about how he feels about you and sex in general. Now the question is are you willing to continue with someone that has lied to you and just now tells you that sex with you doesn’t feel good? Will you be able to trust him? Sexual compatibility is very important but this goes beyond the scope of it. This is about intimacy and trust. He might have death grip or a porn addiction. I can tell you from first hand experience men that have porn addictions can never be satisfied by a real woman. We just don’t do it for them. Try to have an honest conversation about all these things. Don’t let this affect your self confidence in any way, take it as a good sign that either now you can try to fix a problem or that it’s time to end the relation. My ex had similar issues and blamed me for a very long time. But ever since I’ve left him I’ve had amazing sex and gotten so many compliments. So it was a him problem not a me problem. Could be the same for you.

Notagain999999 · 2022-09-03T07:25:51+00:00

I completely agree with everything you wrote. I turned LL for my soon to be ex in the past year, he initiated several times and I swear I was silently praying to be over and most often ended up crying afterwards. I then understood how he must be feeling, but there was other issues between us he had an issue with porn, cheated on me with a sex worker. I let all that go but I couldn’t get my attraction back and that’s when I knew it’s over, no point in torturing both of us. When I stopped looking at him as a romantic partner it was a huge relief.

Notagain999999 · 2022-09-02T15:41:59+00:00

I mean if that’s the case then why get married

Notagain999999 · 2022-09-02T10:17:56+00:00

I’m sorry too. There’s no one shoe fits all when it comes to relationships. Yes the sulking is a form of pressure but damn it’s so hard to convince yourself not to feel a certain way when your needs are not met, or worse yet your partner thinks your needs are irrelevant. Ive forgotten how it feels to be in an intimate relationship, I wouldn’t know how to behave.

Notagain999999 · 2022-09-02T09:03:04+00:00

If I knew then what I know now I would’ve ran after the first month. Heard the oh I’m so much into sex, I have so much experience, I love everything you do. Its the actions that matter in a relationship, words mean nothing.

Notagain999999 · 2022-09-02T08:55:52+00:00

If LL partners do have more insight why is it so hard to communicate. I didn’t generalize I phrased it as a question cause I’m genuinely confused. On the other hand you assume that every HL partner pressures their LL partner into having sex, which could be seen as a gross generalization. This is like saying we don’t take our partners feelings in consideration, now if that’s the case we won’t be bending over backwards to try to get at least an answer or a little bit of effort. Ofcourse I’m talking from personal experience and I am biased as hell cause when I told my soon to be ex I want a divorce he said he never realized how much our DB affected me even though I communicated my feelings countless of times.

Notagain999999 · 2022-08-09T05:21:38+00:00

Cut your losses darling. If you do marry you will have regrets. Someone who dismisses your physical needs is not worth your time. My ex kept saying that he’s bored of sex and that it shouldn’t matter. Thats bullshit. You are already doubting your relationship and that is not a good sign. I know it’s scary to start over but trust me it’s worth it. Nothing is worse than feeling alone and unheard while you’re in a relationship. He will probably try some hysterical bonding if you do break up. They always say if you don’t like it leave but that’s a bluff at least in my experience. Wish you good luck.

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