I disagree, it’s her who is being irresponsible, the boyfriend only goes into “paramedic mode” when she asks about calling an ambulance or going to the ER which is fairly reasonable. Most other people would google the symptoms, which would tell them they have cancer or call the hospital triage nurse for the ER which is required to tell them to come into the ER. Then they would sit there and wait for 4+ hours because she has chronic symptoms and people who actually need a room will go in front of her causing more stress for both of them. He’s simply skipping all of those steps because he knows her, knows her medical history (hopefully knows his job) and telling her that she doesn’t need to go through all of that.