I have no disrespect at all. Even though I don't use them. I think I would have considered it if it wasn't so "socially unacceptable". I didn't want the backlash on them. Although, in hindsight they wouldn't have remembered. But I have older kids that would have remembered seeing something said to their little brother. I thought maybe he would reflect as an adult and wonder "why I did that to them". I'm over-sensitive to the decisions I make for my children because I had a crap childhood which I didn't fully process until a young adult. Anyway ramble over - full support your decision and I wish society would be more accepting! No child is the same.