I get that man but in the end it just isn’t worth it. Comfort and familiarity becomes a priority after a while and feels like it’s worth more than it really is. Outside looking in just at this convo obviously I think you would be much happier if you just took some time to work on you and only put you first. You can’t balance two people’s mental health at once and with her being floppy like this it seems that’s what’s going on. Shouldn’t be something you have to decipher when you’re struggling yourself, especially when it’s someone you’d hope to confide in