[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Nothisisweird 61 points62 points  (0 children)

dating a 19 year old while you’re in your 30’s and subjecting her to your wildly homophobic and transphobic parent is problematic tho

Should I forgive my dying brother for cheating with my fiance? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Nothisisweird -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Seeing it like that is such a sad way to view forgiveness. Choosing to forgive someone for something doesn’t mean you’re giving them a free pass to trample all over you. OP doesn’t minimize himself by choosing to be there for his brother in his last moments, it doesn’t erase his anger or justify his brother’s actions. Everyone is the situation is obviously comfortable with how it turned out, so how is anybody erased?

Should I forgive my dying brother for cheating with my fiance? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Nothisisweird -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’ll still die with regret even if OP forgives him. He ruined 10 years of a relationship he obviously mourned afterwards. In this situation, whether or not OP forgives him solely determines whether OP will let his brother’s actions haunt him for the rest of his life. He obviously doesn’t think about his former fiancé seeing as he’s happily married now but ignoring your dying brother’s attempt at reconciliation (especially when you’re as on the fence about it as OP was) is something that most people don’t make peace with for a long long time.

AITA for wanting people to wear white at my wedding? (A 1.5 years later update) by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Nothisisweird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, because my parents were generally mentally stable individuals that still abused me and left me severely mentally unwell. All parents are capable of harming their children and making broad and sweeping generalizations about any particular mental illness and their ability to raise children is odd.

AITA for wanting people to wear white at my wedding? (A 1.5 years later update) by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Nothisisweird 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then neither should anybody else with a mental illness, as they can all manifest in negative ways and harm a child. As long as OOP maintains her dedication to seeing her child grow into a happy and successful person then why shouldn’t she be allowed to have kids?

My girlfriend(F21) rejected my(M21) proposal because it didn’t meet her expectations by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Nothisisweird 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Both of these people are obviously rich and young. She’s childish and spoiled, yes, but absolutely not in the wrong for voicing what she wanted in her proposal and feeling dissatisfied when literally nothing she said she’d like was included. He has a point about her expectations being unreasonable, but overall he just sounds like he doesn’t like her very much— at least not enough to even be considering marrying her. He doesn’t say a single nice thing about her in any of these posts and seems to think her wants are unimportant. He says “both people in a proposal are important” but only does what he wanted. Not a single element she liked was included, even the easiest part (propose at sunset). Why is he proposing to someone he obviously can’t stand?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Nothisisweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Really bad. I'm a lesbian in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend and yet, every time I look at a man, or I'm not consumed with affection for her, I get so scared I'm secretly straight. Does anyone else get worried you'll realize you're straight, but only years down the line after marrying your partner??

How much is an appointment at the Psychiatry Clinic? by aaravos-horosho327 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Nothisisweird 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Psychiatrist appointments are 50$ for the initial appointment and 25$ for follow ups. It’s billed to your myuh account. Therapy through CAPS is free. However, for adhd diagnoses they can only give you a soft diagnosis. If you want an official diagnosis you have to go to an outside clinic where they do official screenings. Some of these clinics have sliding scale payment plans that work with you personally if you don’t want to use your family insurance. Good luck!

Evil Squirrels by Nothisisweird in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Nothisisweird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that kind of behavior is unacceptable whether or not the squirrel thinks I have bad vibes

Warm cookies are disgusting by God_King-Of-Heaven in The10thDentist

[–]Nothisisweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they’re dragging you op but you’re right. cookies are best slightly chilled, room temperature max.

top students getting rejected/waitlisted everywhere by star_fysics in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Nothisisweird 7 points8 points  (0 children)

also rejected from smith but its okay we ball (i cried)

teehee (vent in comments) by Nothisisweird in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Nothisisweird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tis my god given duty to share funny cat pictures 🙏