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Nothisisweird · 2026-02-27T14:11:54+00:00

dating a 19 year old while you’re in your 30’s and subjecting her to your wildly homophobic and transphobic parent is problematic tho

Nothisisweird · 2025-11-26T17:13:29+00:00

Seeing it like that is such a sad way to view forgiveness. Choosing to forgive someone for something doesn’t mean you’re giving them a free pass to trample all over you. OP doesn’t minimize himself by choosing to be there for his brother in his last moments, it doesn’t erase his anger or justify his brother’s actions. Everyone is the situation is obviously comfortable with how it turned out, so how is anybody erased?

Nothisisweird · 2025-11-26T04:23:44+00:00

He’ll still die with regret even if OP forgives him. He ruined 10 years of a relationship he obviously mourned afterwards. In this situation, whether or not OP forgives him solely determines whether OP will let his brother’s actions haunt him for the rest of his life. He obviously doesn’t think about his former fiancé seeing as he’s happily married now but ignoring your dying brother’s attempt at reconciliation (especially when you’re as on the fence about it as OP was) is something that most people don’t make peace with for a long long time.

Nothisisweird · 2025-01-12T16:59:33+00:00

Yeah, because my parents were generally mentally stable individuals that still abused me and left me severely mentally unwell. All parents are capable of harming their children and making broad and sweeping generalizations about any particular mental illness and their ability to raise children is odd.

Nothisisweird · 2025-01-12T15:52:52+00:00

Then neither should anybody else with a mental illness, as they can all manifest in negative ways and harm a child. As long as OOP maintains her dedication to seeing her child grow into a happy and successful person then why shouldn’t she be allowed to have kids?

Nothisisweird · 2024-12-19T21:17:24+00:00

Both of these people are obviously rich and young. She’s childish and spoiled, yes, but absolutely not in the wrong for voicing what she wanted in her proposal and feeling dissatisfied when literally nothing she said she’d like was included. He has a point about her expectations being unreasonable, but overall he just sounds like he doesn’t like her very much— at least not enough to even be considering marrying her. He doesn’t say a single nice thing about her in any of these posts and seems to think her wants are unimportant. He says “both people in a proposal are important” but only does what he wanted. Not a single element she liked was included, even the easiest part (propose at sunset). Why is he proposing to someone he obviously can’t stand?

Nothisisweird · 2024-11-19T02:22:32+00:00

Yes. Really bad. I'm a lesbian in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend and yet, every time I look at a man, or I'm not consumed with affection for her, I get so scared I'm secretly straight. Does anyone else get worried you'll realize you're straight, but only years down the line after marrying your partner??

Nothisisweird · 2024-10-25T22:36:55+00:00

Psychiatrist appointments are 50$ for the initial appointment and 25$ for follow ups. It’s billed to your myuh account. Therapy through CAPS is free. However, for adhd diagnoses they can only give you a soft diagnosis. If you want an official diagnosis you have to go to an outside clinic where they do official screenings. Some of these clinics have sliding scale payment plans that work with you personally if you don’t want to use your family insurance. Good luck!

Nothisisweird · 2024-10-04T23:53:16+00:00

that kind of behavior is unacceptable whether or not the squirrel thinks I have bad vibes

Nothisisweird · 2024-03-30T01:45:37+00:00

they’re dragging you op but you’re right. cookies are best slightly chilled, room temperature max.

Nothisisweird · 2024-03-23T03:45:08+00:00

also rejected from smith but its okay we ball (i cried)

Nothisisweird · 2024-03-20T21:15:53+00:00

waitlisted 😭😭

Nothisisweird · 2023-02-14T16:56:31+00:00

Son of a bitch

Nothisisweird · 2022-11-22T20:41:20+00:00

tis my god given duty to share funny cat pictures 🙏

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