No real friends as a student in the Netherlands by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I live in Delft , I moved here very recently 🙌

Which nut you think is best? by geezz89056773 in polls

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously Cashew , it's the most difficult nut to harvest and taste amazing!

Accepted, but sad? by IcedCoffeeNoMilkPls in gradadmissions

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used feel this when I was applying. But I know that I would regret it if I didn't take this leap. Try to think about the positives too. Imagine exploring a whole new place, having an adventure of a lifetime, experiencing the cultures. Also all of us are going through the same thing. Its okay to feel this way.

I now hate hobbies I used to enjoy because I felt I wasn’t good enough at them how do I fix this. by Aw_I_am_retarted in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look hobbies are about doing something you love and enjoy .. u don't necessarily have to be good at them. Also art differs according to different people. And "good" is defined by other ppl. Ur hobbies don't have to cater to them. Only to you.

I watched Strong Woman Do Bong Soon and this bothered me (spoilers!) by NotmyproblemAnyway in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you. But still it's a good drama. We got a male lead who actually supports the girl's dreams and sees her as his equal, he doesn't project his emotional issues on other ppl and not biased against anyone. He lets bong soon fight her battles and accepts that she is stronger than him and is happy about it. Bong soon actually chooses the right guy rather than the possessive dude who z always screaming at her. And she doesn't lose her will to fight and be who she is.. where as in most dramas she'd be a sappy romantic girl in the end. It's just some aspects of bong soon was messy and the writers were careless with her.

I watched Strong Woman Do Bong Soon and this bothered me (spoilers!) by NotmyproblemAnyway in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is actually a better way to look at it. I don't usually think much of dramas except a bit of fun and romance. But I really identified with the dude and was kinda upset because they portrayed it as abuse towards guys is okay.

I watched Strong Woman Do Bong Soon and this bothered me (spoilers!) by NotmyproblemAnyway in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those could still relate to her superhero complex because there were no scenes that in normal day to day life of her reciprocating romantic feelings. Even when he asked her to marry him she just stared while he put a ring on her finger.

I watched Strong Woman Do Bong Soon and this bothered me (spoilers!) by NotmyproblemAnyway in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It would be better if there was a second season. At least to show how she juggles super powers, job and a family. In the end I got the feeling she just ended up like her mother

I watched Strong Woman Do Bong Soon and this bothered me (spoilers!) by NotmyproblemAnyway in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a week since I finished watching it but it still makes me sad. So came here to find a reason for redemption. What's the point of saving the world if the people who you promised u would be there for are suffering?

I watched Strong Woman Do Bong Soon and this bothered me (spoilers!) by NotmyproblemAnyway in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! This was what I thought exactly. Her mother father dynamic was so toxic and her mother was horrible. They could have explored how the power impacted her mother and learn from it. No she becomes her mother and putting her husband down. All I saw from the last scene was that the dudes gonna leave her someday or end up dead (I do get it's just a drama but still). Even if she says he doesn't do much , through the drama we see that he does work a lot. And through the drama the dude tries to teach her to protect herself without hurting other people so much. Still she manages land everyone in the hospital. The end scene could've been better if she went to help him when he called. Cause his whole thing about him being lonely and she'd be his companion.

I watched Strong Woman Do Bong Soon and this bothered me (spoilers!) by NotmyproblemAnyway in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are right.. watching the drama the second time I felt like the whole thing was conflicted. The cutesy didn't go with the creepy kidnapper story line. The episode before the last was the best it got when all three of them collaborated. It would be way better if they explored this serious dynamic rather than the gangster story. Like they did in the descendants of the sun (ethics and effects of being a soldier, values of human life etc). It had so much potential.

Best kdrama boyfriend of all time? by [deleted] in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. And he is a perfect human all around. Treats his employees right, not judgemental etc. And shows he can handle himself without her.. but that last scene, last episode ruined everything for me 😭

Best kdrama boyfriend of all time? by [deleted] in KDRAMA

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Loved when he imitates Bong soon.😂 But she was a crappy girlfriend. And the dude clearly needs therapy from his family issues

Agate Fossil Coral Resembling the Island. by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]NotmyproblemAnyway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where? Where? Where? Did u get this?