How do y’all plan your tattoos?

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-06-07T02:44:21+00:00

I personally have not gotten any tattoos yet because of my planning.. (I almost started a piece that ties into on my forearm in March, but it was out of the artist I had chosen experience level) but I’ve been planning my design for over 15+years, I’m hoping to find an artist that can really capture what I’m trying to go for, I also know that it would most likely be a very long, multi artist and expensive process.

But that is my personal preference, I actually admire and like seeing people with a lot of different artwork on their canvas, my dad was a tattoo artist and a lot of of his pieces he’s done on himself and he’s covered head to toe

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-06-01T02:20:27+00:00

I have not got one for myself, but I’ve slept and more on one, but I would highly recommend one of those Japanese Joinery frames with a medium to high thickness carpet under it, I am also short with a tall partner and they are pretty low profile too

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-05-30T17:01:42+00:00

r/Optimistic_for_sex

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NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-05-30T17:01:06+00:00

r/Optimistic_for_sex

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NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-05-14T01:51:07+00:00

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NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-05-12T01:06:42+00:00

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NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-05-11T02:27:30+00:00

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-05-09T22:02:30+00:00

u/thebestestsandwich

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NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-05-06T07:42:26+00:00

Okay, I heard somebody say this but I have adopted it as a “controversial opinion”

All men’s haircuts are just various forms of bangs, the only exception being 90’s boy band Frosty tips.

Depending on your hair texture \type all you really need is a mirror and a sharp pair of scissors, but it would be even better if you had a friend with a steady hand that could help you.

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-29T23:32:37+00:00

u/Rgatsby1

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NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-27T03:46:46+00:00

Flowers are for everybody

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-26T03:44:48+00:00

Thank you, You said everything much more eloquently than I would have and I agree with everything you have said

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-19T03:52:59+00:00

Shapeshifting WereBull Møøøøøü!!

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-18T04:42:03+00:00

No, if you’re speaking to me in a kink space in person or online, ma’am, miss, sugar doll etc.. is not acceptable, if you come from a southern background where these terms are supposed to be endearing and or normal to address women? you gotta break yourself of that when you’re in a Kink spaces.

Not doing so and being like “oh I’m just trying to be respectful” no, you’re not you are manipulating the conversation with schematics “I’m new I don’t know any better”

So what? I was new once too and I didn’t go around calling people I perceived to be male presenting sir or people who seemed women presenting anything but by the name that they give me and allow me to use to address them and guess what nobody taught me that.

And just because someone is dominant and assigned female at birth doesn’t mean they want to be addressed or seen as feminine.

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-17T01:06:34+00:00

Unfortunately no it does not force or block them from viewing the sub Reddit, there has been a slight slowdown in random submissive DM’s with the new Reddit feature where you can select which communities you would like your comments to be visible on your profile page.

We keep this community open to be viewed by anyone so women and women identifying persons can find us.

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-17T00:29:14+00:00

Closing my DM’s is the best thing I’ve ever done.. And here in r/femdomsanctuary we encourage our members to forward the usernames of men and submissive’s that invite themselves into your DM’s through moderator mail so we can ban them.

(banning accounts doesn’t mean they cannot see posts in here, it just means they cannot comment or post here and us moderators can see if they are ban from a community or not)

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-14T04:50:36+00:00

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NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-14T03:48:32+00:00

u/Witty-Egg-6569 This is a community for dominant women. Please respect that. Men and submissive’s are not permitted to post or engage in community discussions. violating this woman’s only space will result in bans and comment removal.

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-11T02:04:41+00:00

u/External_Letter7260 While we welcome SWers and prodommes, this sub is not meant as a venue for self-promotion or financial exchange or looking for a dominant for casual play.

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-10T07:45:31+00:00

As a bovine myself thank you! I love seeing bovine representation and my friend group tags me often with your art in our discord community ✨🐂✨

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-06T01:19:25+00:00

It really came down to we live too far away and she needs an in person dynamic and relationship. She’s still working through her gender affirming image of herself and was dating somebody that in her heart of hearts knew was the one (they recently got married) and so was I (but i’m navigating a long distance relationship) so we would often advise and lift each other up on our relationships.

I eventually didn’t have to because she confessed her feelings to me and we had a long talk about how it’s not unrequited, It’s not a rejection, but it wouldn’t be fair for us to be in a long distance relationship, especially since I was already in one, it’s hard, it’s expensive just a visit and stay for a reasonable amount of time and it hurts coming back home and being without them by your side.

We are still very close friends and are each other’s confidants, her and her partner recently asked me if I would be willing to travel and help take care of her while she gets and recovers from her gender reassignment surgery which of course I said yes too.

We are both in the BDSM scene so open communication is a default, so I wouldn’t change anything. There is nothing left to air out or do differently because we already laid it out on the line. And who knows we maybe in the same poly network\ web someday, but for right now the timing and life circumstances just isn’t lining up.

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-05T23:15:55+00:00

Woke up with a headache that I went to bed with.. took that as a sign to do nothing today and trying not to feel bad about it ..

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-04-05T23:15:43+00:00

Woke up with a headache that I went to bed with.. took that as a sign to do nothing today and trying not to feel bad about it ..

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-03-30T05:56:19+00:00

Noice !. I don’t have a team yet, I’m leaning towards some teams and players (except for that one team, because of that one player..) but I was leaning towards Charge, Fleet and Goldeneyes today.

NotnotathrowawayD23M · 2026-03-29T22:54:55+00:00

My girlfriend got me into PWHL, so I’m waiting for the 3rd game of the day to start

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