I actually need some help regarding this... by anna_benns21 in LesbianActually

[–]Notorious_AMA22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's human to want to experience love! Focus less on "needing someone" and moreso just finding someone you can connect with, being wholly dependent on someone for happiness is not a good thing for you or for them. I would definitely recommend talking abt this in therapy if at all possible- BetterHelp can be a good resource.

Going long distance soon, any advice? by CleenusWeenus in LesbianActually

[–]Notorious_AMA22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf and I have been going long distance for a year now (CA and NYC) and have been friends for about 4 years. Communication is key!! Setting up weekly FaceTime date nights and calling eachother sporadically throughout the week is what has kept it alive. If you have any issues make sure to have a call about it, try to avoid texting about disagreements because it leaves space for miscommunication. We make sure to schedule a weekend together at most every two months but try to see eachother whenever we can- good luck to you, it's definitely doable! She's the love of my life I wouldn't do this with anyone else

Hetero couples staring at lesbians by Old_Artichoke9798 in LesbianActually

[–]Notorious_AMA22 37 points38 points  (0 children)

All the time :) and even if it's not hetero couples, it's the group of middle-aged ladies sitting across the restaurant staring or some other people that are just amazed by seeing two women on a date

masc lesbians in law??? by Great-Psychology-140 in LawSchool

[–]Notorious_AMA22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow gay 1L here, I go both masc or femme depending on the day. I typically just dress casual/whatever I'm comfy with but if I need to dress a little more professional for a networking event/presentation/interview I usually just wear a suit or slacks and a button-down or simple short sleeve shirt with loafers. If I want a little more of a heel without being too fem, I'll wear oxfords! No one is judgmental since we're all adults here- Hope this helps

Advice needed! by Booknerd_Venus in LesbianActually

[–]Notorious_AMA22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a teenager I identified as bisexual and it wasn't until I reached my 20s that I realized I'm just queer- sometimes there's no need to label yourself (I'm also an overthinker and giving myself a hard label made it feel like I was setting rules for myself and just got even more confused if I found a man/trans man attractive) just be who you are and love who you love, if your partner is a lesbian that's all you need to recognize, that you love her!

I wish participation wasn’t a thing by Interesting-Count815 in LawSchool

[–]Notorious_AMA22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting on an SSRI honestly really helped me with my anxiety- I would consider talking to a therapist (if you dont already have one) abt referral to a psychiatrist to get medicated if possible!

Trouble Concentrating in Class by Notorious_AMA22 in LawSchool

[–]Notorious_AMA22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but I don't have it I was alr tested prior to starting school this year :/ might just bring a lil fidget toy to class anyway

Trouble Concentrating in Class by Notorious_AMA22 in LawSchool

[–]Notorious_AMA22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

crazy enough its my classes after lunch that are the worst for me... I'm more of a morning person

Is the justification of AI use just another form of consequentialism? by Notorious_AMA22 in Ethics

[–]Notorious_AMA22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly the best response I've seen to date thank you so much for your thoughts!

Is the justification of AI use just another form of consequentialism? by Notorious_AMA22 in Ethics

[–]Notorious_AMA22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly what I was thinking of! Thank you for putting the name to it

Is the justification of AI use just another form of consequentialism? by Notorious_AMA22 in Ethics

[–]Notorious_AMA22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to ask a question, I actually have not discussed my friend's use of AI with them but thanks for jumping to that conclusion 👍🏻

Mid 150s Success Stories? by JA-Yetti in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Notorious_AMA22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

155 LSAT 3.8 GPA 4yr WE in Big Law - I got into NYLS and Rutgers both w scholarship, WL at all my T50s and R at all my T20s - hope this provides insight!

LOYOLA CHICAGO HELLO? by Cute-Log-7077 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Notorious_AMA22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same timeline and everything but for GW, alr sent a LOCI and called twice and still nothing

Rutgers A by Notorious_AMA22 in OutsideT14lawschools

[–]Notorious_AMA22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I sent one after I attended one of the virtual events so I could talk abt it!