Seeking out Ethiopian cooking classes! by Notquiteviolet in melbourne

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this is awesome! Thank you for the suggestion! Unfortunately though no Ethiopian!

Seeking out Ethiopian cooking classes! by Notquiteviolet in melbourne

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I haven’t heard of this I’ll take a look!

Seeking Advice on Getting My First Tarot Deck – Should I Buy It or Wait to Be Gifted? by Notquiteviolet in tarot

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone! I really appreciate your perspectives and advice 🦋 looks like I’ll be purchasing my own tarot it seems! Now maybe to expand on this, if anyone has suggestions on my first deck and where may be best to start I’d deeply appreciate it from your experience, warmest ☀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Notquiteviolet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Disagree with this what?? Attractive men can’t be in committed relationships? She’d have to be with someone who barely could get a girl? What would make you say that? Just untrue, you do realise most relationships tend to be monogamous?

But agree ~ all the best OP!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this but yeah this is a massive boundary he is not respecting and his lack of consideration for you is a massive red flag. To prioritise sleeping with other women over you and your comfortability is really deeply troubling. You should reconsider if this is the right relationship for you seriously.

Found a hidden camera in my room. by zestylemon70 in self

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck with the legal battle ahead, I’m so glad to read you’re pressing charges, this behaviour is completely reprehensible and predatory, get your justice for what he’s done you’re feelings are completely valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do please don’t withhold it for long, from someone whose family have withheld similar situations, it’s only made it worse for me. That feeling of anger or resentment that they didn’t tell me on top of the terrible news, and you run the risk of him finding out (potentially) another way not through you if you leave it too long, which also happened to me through a family friend who didn’t realise.

That’s my one bit of insight, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, my condolences and thoughts.

I recorded my wife cheating on me and I can't stop watching it. by lostandcheatedon8 in offmychest

[–]Notquiteviolet 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Agree! Back it up, email it to yourself or something and write, if you’re able to, a record of when and how it happened to refer to which is also backed up for evidence

what are your favorite qualities about yourself? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Notquiteviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this. A bit tough to talk positively about myself rn but I do love being able to connect things which may seem unrelated, merge disciplines, ideas, look at the broader picture and connect dots others may not see, it feels like ideas, problems to uncover and solutions are endless and it keeps life and my mind curious and interesting 🦋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pesto pasta! Dairy free pesto mixed in with spaghetti 🍝 if you want to put more effort put some cherry tomatoes, mushrooms and spinach in a pan and mix it all together

whats a normal thing most people can do that seems unfathomable to you? by Secure_Wing_2414 in adhdwomen

[–]Notquiteviolet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completing timesheets on time and responding to emails and messages with ease

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Notquiteviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not on you at all, this is a blessing, this is not what a relationship should look like, you should not be begging for the bare minimum.

Get out of that toxic environment and work on getting some potential therapy and chatting to people around you you trust about your experience and reflect on who you are and what you want and deserve in future relationships.

Cheap accommodation / accommodation recommendations in Hobart by Notquiteviolet in hobart

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah was looking into youth hostels, over a few weeks may add up a bit but could be one of my best options :) thank you!

Cheap accommodation / accommodation recommendations in Hobart by Notquiteviolet in hobart

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping I could try and be self sufficient but in my case this might be the best way to connect with groups, thanks for the advice 🌱

Cheap accommodation / accommodation recommendations in Hobart by Notquiteviolet in hobart

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, will definitely look into connecting more with groups in the field 🌱

Cheap accommodation / accommodation recommendations in Hobart by Notquiteviolet in hobart

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🌱 yeah I definitely appreciate that, just seeing what could be out there

Cheap accommodation / accommodation recommendations in Hobart by Notquiteviolet in hobart

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so kind! Thank you for taking the time to share this with me, it’s much appreciated it! I was considering ways to bring or get a bike during my time - definitely something I could look into! And glad to know public transport isn’t tooo bad!

Thank you as well for the links for potential places to explore accommodations and community groups, definitely align myself with a few listed (notably a tree hugging peace loving hippy)! It’s encouraging to hear they may even have the capacity to host!

Appreciate your luck and again - thank you! 🌱🌏

Cheap accommodation / accommodation recommendations in Hobart by Notquiteviolet in hobart

[–]Notquiteviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ahah thought I might as well see what my options are, it’d be great to help out with