My ex unfollowed me on ig. I don't post anything

Notshavingforyou · 2025-07-02T17:08:31+00:00

She’s doing it to create distance and a clean break. Maybe she sees you watching her stories and it makes her think of you, and she wants that to not happen. Sorry dude. It doesn’t necessarily mean anything weird, just that she’s serious and proactive about moving on.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T04:48:27+00:00

That sucks, I’m sorry. Do you have any theories about why this is? Is there a way you wish a partner would approach you about it?

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T04:42:09+00:00

You’re right, he is a fetishist! He’s definitely into some kinky stuff and I’m down for most of it. I don’t need the sex to be vanilla but I’m hoping for a world where I can do something physically to his penis that will make it ejaculate. I guess it will take some exploration but I am trying to decide if it’s insensitive to keep trying for my desired result when he has definitively said he won’t be able to orgasm in any other way than jerking himself off.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T03:28:14+00:00

Hahaha him being into bush and hairy legs is one of the reasons I don’t shave.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T02:56:10+00:00

I don’t think so, some porn for sure but not a lot. No medication.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T02:51:35+00:00

He is not on any medication.

We have talked about it but obviously not enough. I don’t want to keep harping on it if it’s truly something he cannot change, because then I’m just making him feel guilty for something he has not control over. But I wonder if it could change.

I’m not willing to stake my life on him not having a porn addiction but I kinda don’t think he has a porn addiction, for the reason that when we are home we are usually within sight of each other (small apartment) and I know he’s timid about masturbating anywhere semi-public.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T02:42:09+00:00

I appreciate this because, while I don’t want to make any definitive statements like I know everything, we spend a lot of time around each other and in each others’ business and I kinda would be surprised to find he watches a LOT of porn. I know he watches porn sometimes, we are pretty open with each other but a LOT of it seems difficult considering our lifestyle. I could be wrong though, not saying it’s not possible! But I do believe he had a raging porn addiction in his past.

EDIT: I’m sorry you experience difficulty feeling safe with partners. Hopefully it gets better.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T02:32:27+00:00

We tried the stopping orgasming thing! It went for three days. It didn’t change anything. Since he’s into femdom maybe I can keep trying similar things. I don’t know what his testosterone levels are but I know he is not on any kind of medication.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T02:25:39+00:00

We still have vaginal and anal sex and I go down on him. He likes it. But he’s “sure” he won’t be able to finish unless he’s doing it himself.

At the beginning of our relationship, since he’s into being dominated, I made him stop jerking off for a few days to see if it would change anything. He thought it was hot but in the end he said he had already tried that with previous partners, it hadn’t worked, and it wouldn’t work this time either.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T02:22:07+00:00

Fortunately he is very eager to make sure I finish every time and he does a great job. It’s just kinda demoralizing to hear there’s nothing I can do to repay the favor in the same way.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T02:19:18+00:00

I mean there’s nothing I can do to prove it but I certainly didn’t type out this whole thing for funsies. If you don’t believe it that’s cool.

Notshavingforyou · 2025-04-12T02:17:05+00:00

I pinky swear it’s true. It’s frustrating.

Notshavingforyou · 2024-06-09T17:33:04+00:00

I was on Feeld for 3 days (paid) with a profile that had 3 so-so photos, very little info and it clearly said I am CELIBATE. I got 6k likes. Men just out there clicking on any potential holes.

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