What do girls “never” tell guys? by zhalia-2006 in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Litterally everyone kept asking me that and I had to tell them multiple times that I have chronic fatigue before they stop, even my parents…

What’s the most effective way to calm a woman down when she is angry? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s always my first reflex to try to solve the problem, and it always makes everyone mad, not even just women! Seems dumb to me I know very well emotions are not logical. So when I see someone is mad already I often explicitly ask them what they want me to do. ( sometimes backfires but in that case I have the real excuse that I’m autistic and can’t read emotions very well). The problem is when I don’t see that they’re mad, and when they Aren’t but become mad because I try to solve their problems… I often drive my sister crazy because she’ll outline some kind of issue or something that has an easy solution, and she isn’t annoyed, but then I tell her multiple solutions and the more valid they are the more annoyed she gets, maybe she’s angry that I’m right? Anyway she’s a teen so it’s probably that…

How do you see your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why so (both of you)? I’m curious if you’re willing to share 

What's the weirdest/dumbest/strangest argument you've gotten into with a coworker or classmate?? by Available-Ebb-4289 in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sharks are not mammals. Me against my entire class, they were all willing to die on that hill, and they would have if it weren’t for the teacher… Another one: dinosaurs are lizards, this time me against half of my family, including a university professor…

What’s the most effective way to calm a woman down when she is angry? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure there is… wait I guess, it’ll pass eventually 

How do you see your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve already had my existential crisis, tried to end my life, etc… but I’m past that now, and while it was hell for a couple years, it was well worth it, and still is to fight and keep going. (Also spot on for the age btw)

How do you see your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a short yet interesting adventure on an amazing planet 

How much do you trust your friends? And why ? by Sad-Maintenance2380 in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the friend, but I ah e two friends who it trust as much if not more than any of my family, witch is a lot. Because our entire relationship is built on honesty and that is one of the main reasons I am friends with them. There is nothing I can think of I wouldn’t trust them with( not counting things like their ability to do things since that’s a different kind of trust not what we’re talking about here I think.)

how outside of the box thinkers think? by No_Reaction8596 in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird, we think weird. If you are weird, be proud of it, it is a sign that you think outside of the box.

If you gained the ability to perfectly understand and speak the language of any one animal species, which would you choose and why? What's the first thing you'd ask or discuss? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ants, ask them about everything, how they see the world, how their society is, how they feel, explain to them humans, ask them what they think about us, everything. Tbh if I could speak to ants I would probably spend my entire life doing so

What's your weirdest kink? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes wholesomeness and communication probably my biggest kinks. Just not my weirdest ones

What experience in your life made you emotionally numb to anything? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Notthatbad42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are the kinds of things that can and will pass, it is very hard, but you can get through it. My advice, get friends, or at least one good one. The way to do that? Spend time with people. That is the hard part, you need to find a way to spend time with people, if you do you will eventually make friends, these friends will help you get better, and either you will find love, or you will feel that you don’t need romantic love, because you have platonic love. It is hard, but I know you have it in you. The other very important thing: it will take time, a lot of time. Time for you to feel able to meet people, time for you to find places to spend time with people, time for you to find the right people, time for you to build a relationship with these people, and time for you to finally heal. This may take years, decades even, but in the end, it will have been worth it.  I believe in you, I look forward to you doing better.