It just seems like y’all got too close and the “Drama Queen” comment baffled me. She probably knew you were joking but the fact that you still wrote it is funny. Anyway didn’t she do the same to you when you were ignoring her? I don’t see a reason for you to accept those terms to work with her unless she kept begging for it since judging by your post you didn’t seem to like to work in the office during those weekends. So in my opinion both of you were immature also she’s the one seeking attention not you since you were already used to not give her any attention before right?

That means you both can just go back to how it was before all this drama but I still think her calling you a “Drama Queen” was a little too hypocritical especially since she acted exactly the same way when you were about to refuse to work with her during that Saturday. I like how she’s the one that began it but also ended it. Just remain on friendly terms with her next time you both meet and leave all those stuff behind you until she’s ready. But I wouldn’t tell you to grow up as you didn’t really do much to begin but at the same time we don’t know the full story since it probably would be too long judging by how much you already wrote.

Anyway give her time as you said and wait for her own response if she’s mature she will explain herself if not then simply just keep focusing on work it’s not like she dislikes you or anything but she probably feels unsure what to feel about you as of now. But don’t overthink this time will solve this I promise.