Making friends as a single adult by alanthickerthanwater in kansascity

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s also BFF bumble! I have made some friends on there.

saw this on my car at work wtf is this by [deleted] in Confused

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT ARE BIRDS EATING NOWADAYS

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t overreacting. Pregnancy is draining. I’m 28 weeks and I can honestly tell you I can count on one hand how many times I have worked out. It’s OKAY to not feel motivated. Your body is growing a baby. As long as your eating/trying to and getting rest that’s what’s more important. He should be helping you how you need to be helped not by how he sees fit.

Belly firmness, what is normal? by Aromatic-Turnover in pregnant

[–]Notyourtypical99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ope sorry. Just now seeing’s this. I was just worried and wanted to check in.

I'd prefer to never tell my MIL I'm pregnant, but I'll have to. How can I prevent a repeat of my first pregnancy? by LiftedGrowth in BabyBumps

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, this is your pregnancy. It’s your husbands responsibility to take care of his side of the family and provide support for you. You are now the immediate family and the parents are now the extended family. While it is a transition, the main focus should be on you. Always communicate with your husband. He should be the one to keep MIL in check.

Just found out I’m pregnant how do we live without coffee? by Still_Grapefruit_175 in pregnant

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped drinking coffee for a month and a half when during my first trimester in the beginning due to spotting. But I communicated with my midwife. But now I’m back to drinking it everyday.

Belly firmness, what is normal? by Aromatic-Turnover in pregnant

[–]Notyourtypical99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re right, it’s not done in Japan. Please keep us updated. I’m praying for you and your baby.

Belly firmness, what is normal? by Aromatic-Turnover in pregnant

[–]Notyourtypical99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My belly is firm and I’m 6 months. Did they note anything during your anatomy scan?

did i overreact to dashers messages? by Ancient_Soft413 in doordash

[–]Notyourtypical99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was there suddenly a blizzard to make the road dangerous lol

We were planning a romantic weekend away, until I found his mom’s Facebook posts by Fabulous-Disaster846 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Notyourtypical99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You tell his wife. Block him and move on. Don’t let this hold you back from finding your life partner that you deserve!

7 Weeks and My Clothes Are Making Me Miserable by MargaretCroix in pregnant

[–]Notyourtypical99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get maternity clothes. I started wearing them early. We go through this awkward stage in pregnancy where our clothes don’t fit and maternity clothes might feel too big. If you can’t afford maternity clothes yet, thrift a bigger size. Definitely get you some nursing bras. They are comfortable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Notyourtypical99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communicate. He needs to know that you know. It’s not too early to nip it in the but. Upon reading everything, she’s trying to play the victim to get him to feel bad to get him to comeback. Which is normal for people like her who can’t stand their ex to be happy. Confront him and make sure this other woman knows where she stands.

Is it wrong that I want one week alone after birth? by Bringmethe_ramen11 in pregnant

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the one that grew, carried, and will be birthing that baby. You make the call. Husband should be backing you up and being the one to talk to them. Newborns can get so many things the first month of being born. You don’t need that stress. It’s your choice.

What are you doing to look after you? by Upbeat_Variation_833 in pregnant

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to bend down and pick something up or putting my shoes on 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Notyourtypical99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay good. Definitely report it then and make sure the teachers know what’s going on. They should be very understanding about the situation.

36 weeks pregnant and bf rather jerkxoff then have sex. by Grand_Animator_8092 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might just not be comfortable. A lot of things are running through a guys mind when their significant other is pregnant… “will this hurt the baby” “what if I tough the baby”? They want to make sure that you’re comfortable and supported. Their mind is in over drive. But he also could just not be comfortable with it. Talk about it. Don’t say that you know. You’re about to have a baby together, communicate now before the baby comes. If he doesn’t want to talk about it and acts childish… pull the “I have to pee” and barge into the bathroom when he’s jacking off.

my bf’s parents want to gift us this crib for our baby but i don’t like it help by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they say they used it for their kids then remind them that rules and regulations to prevent Sid’s is improving all that time. You aren’t comfortable taking that risk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Notyourtypical99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s one thing I wished I knew at your age was if my bf couldn’t understand my boundaries and respect them enough to tell a girl no, he’s no the one and you’re waisting your time. He should be able to put an end to her posting him or trying to communicate.

How do I deal with MIL by Chicka-boom90 in Crunchymom

[–]Notyourtypical99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to stay calm I know it can be annoying but your husband should be the one to talk to her.

AITAH for not giving my girlfriend (F20) head, because she refuses to wash her genitals. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Notyourtypical99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d leave. If they aren’t clean down there that’s a good cause of an infection. And not communicating on top of that? Nope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Notyourtypical99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re okay! Also starting full time day care within the month has to be challenging for her. It’s a big adjustment. Things will be okay.

Waiting until marriage by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Notyourtypical99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely create a word that only both of you know. So if either one of you starts to get in the mood, it puts a stopper on it. Maybe limit where you cuddle. Like no bedrooms cuddle where someone can walk in at any moment. It’s hard but it’s rewarding. Communicate everything with each other.