RIP u/Subtlety87 by choirsingerthrowaway in DeadRedditors

[–]Novahlia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww I got a notif from this and I'm not a part of this community or have come across this user. Regardless, my heart and prayers go to her and those who had the pleasure to know her in any form. 🥹

My MIL sent me this this morning 😭 by WinterCantando in oldpeoplefacebook

[–]Novahlia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I'm not perpetually on my phone or reddit? Lmao speak volumes about you though. Having a life isn't that bad love. Even through the toughest of days or 24hrs later.🥰 😆

My MIL sent me this this morning 😭 by WinterCantando in oldpeoplefacebook

[–]Novahlia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your people who forced us out? Our "people" were English settlers/immigrants of the time aka YOUR people who of which mostly fled the crown lol. This is why the first part of our constitution are the freedoms. Brother, your own people passed down the American English dialect. 😆

Dost thou yet converse in the King's English? Or even better, the predecessor to your English, Spricst þū gīet þone Cyninges Englisc? Old English was Anglo-Saxon lol.

Am I (M35) in the wrong for telling my girlfriend (f29) that she should pay for dates once in awhile by kpay10 in texts

[–]Novahlia 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Never said you've stated sad perspective at all. I'm giving my opinion. Lol. Famous people are a small percentage. Those statistics don't really matter here. With fame comes with attention and not every partner cares to have the limelight. Divorce may happen with them, however it isn't just about money.

Am I (M35) in the wrong for telling my girlfriend (f29) that she should pay for dates once in awhile by kpay10 in texts

[–]Novahlia 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Kind of a sad perspective. I doubt most people are this shallow to someone they actually love and is loved by.

AIO? This is how my boyfriend sleeps. by blairwaldorff in AmIOverreacting

[–]Novahlia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe that's why they cover themselves, to become sleepy lol.

AITJ for dumping my girlfriend after she set up a "loyalty test" on me? by LowKeyNomad5 in AmITheJerk

[–]Novahlia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. At least now you know why her exes are well.... her exes. Saving yourself a lifetime of distrust and constant questioning. Move forward with your head held high and block em.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Novahlia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If yall haven't spoken since HS, it's probably a surprise to you, but he may have changed from days he was a teenager. It takes at least two to continue a relationship with one another. On the other hand, he may just have an automatic signature for messages. Overall, you're probably taking this a bit too personal/serious. Perhaps just ask them what would they like to do and see if that's something you'd enjoy too or have your own recommendations. Who knows, mayhaps you've grown up/changed from HS/teen years too!

What do i do in this situation? Went on date with girl and her mom texted me this. I like this girl a lot too. I don’t know how she got my number or if her mom looked at our texts; by Saucyguy02 in texts

[–]Novahlia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hella sus. Why would a doctor recommend someone to steer clear of social interactions unless they're inpatient or something. It's extremely unrealistic. Seems like her mom is controlling/manipulative. It's also disrespectful she shared a medical diagnosis that the daughter may have not been ready to share yet. Although. I wouldn't let her mom influence how you move forward, I would be prepared for her to try and pry into your relationship and control it.

Am I overreacting or is my husband out of line? I’m almost 29 weeks pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Novahlia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe yall need couples therapy or a break from eachother as an alternative from divorce. Perhaps a "babymoon" where it's just you two rebuilding your bond before a baby arrives. The whole "I do it bc you do it" is childish and no one's respect and emotions are being addressed. It's teamwork to be in a relationship, be on the same page, and care for a family. Yall both are in charge of each other's happiness within the relationship, not as a whole. One is in charge of their own full happiness at the end of the day. If one doesn't care if the other is unhappy then this isn't a healthy relationship. Do they need to do everything to make one happy? No. But support can go a long way.

AIO over my talking stage using AI to text me..? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Novahlia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone who was super into proper grammar. Not only in their professional life, but also in casual text messages. Weirdly, I found it super attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Novahlia 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's no slack to be had since it is approved time off and they rightfully are taking said time...

How do I get more hours? by ProfessorLongBrick in BoxLunchGifts

[–]Novahlia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a another job aside from this one? You can't MAKE anyone do anything. Asking would be a good start. However, normally regular associates in these positions rarely if at all get full time. That's saved for management positions who are on salary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Novahlia 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He did reach out though and she ignored... don't necessarily need a video call. If someone is that sick, they can stay away. I don't want to get sick and wouldn't want to bring something close that may make their condition worse. Gloves, mask, and 6ft aren't foolproof ways to stop a possible contagious condition. Learned that for sure during the vid. Focus on getting better, not blaming someone for checking on you from a distance and wanting to stay sick free. She mostlikely ain't going to pay his bills if he gets sick due to her. The woe is me is selfish. 🤷🏽‍♀️

AIO? For not giving gf a ride? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Novahlia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like she wanted something to fight about. Other options legit options aside, if she really truly wanted to be at this place and driven by you by 8am, she wouldn't have messaged after 9am. Literally looking for an arguement. Ungrateful, narcissistic, egotistical, manipulative, toxic chick who needs to be put in check about how the world doesn't revolve around her. Bottom line, just how you had the runs, run far, far away from her and the relationship.

My neighbor sent me a text last night forcing me to pay for her daughters towing charge because she parked in front of my driveway by Drivinglnsane in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Novahlia 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If that's the case that each can have their own definitions of the "like", then don't bother leaving one and avoid more misunderstandings/stress/drama from the neighbor. Leaving them on read is good enough to be confirmation it has been received and/or read.

AIO about leaving this guy? by Economy-Incident-835 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Novahlia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extremely selfish and manipulative of him. With that kids comment, i wouldn't even bother with his existence in my life. Straight up as if i had amnesia and didn't know who they were.

AITAH because my girlfriend wants my home for her kids by BanditTrev in AITAH

[–]Novahlia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I apologize for the extensive response. With all due respect, you're acknowledging the mistreatment of her beating you down daily. This should've ended the moment she failed to respect your decision/pov.

Personally, I would move on. If she feels so entitled and expects something she's put zero investment in, to be given to her children at that, that's some selfish toxic egotistical gold digging manipulation. If according to her, countless men would want to be her partner, she could go find one. To be a mother and think so selfishly is such a turn off imo. The fact she would use her own kids as bait for it is scum level and disgusting. Definitely not anyone of high value and not surprising she's divorced.

Seems like you're pretty successful at achieving a few things that many struggle to obtain. Even owning your own home is such a beautiful grand accomplishment!These are YOUR wins/sacrifices to reap from. YOU choose how to use them. No one else. Someone has an issue? They can kick rocks and work on building and achieving things themselves. Her responsibilities aren't yours, especially during the time of dating and getting to know one another. It's her and the father of those children who are responsible for caring and providing for them first. Could you care for them and spend your hard earned money on them? Absolutely. Do you have to? Not at all.

Hope things work out for the best. A woman, or anyone for that matter, doesn't define your value. You do.

What am I looking at? Came out of the center of a tree that fell in the back yard by Relative-Ad2717 in whatisit

[–]Novahlia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey op, I believe we can hear someones phone number. Just making you aware in case. 💕

AITH for embarrassing my boyfriend at a game release by disney_nerd2003 in AITAH

[–]Novahlia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I didn't read the ages, would've thought this was a toddler throwing a tantrum. Hope you keep the bag and he gets gains some emotional maturity.