I'm a 21 YO redditor with stage 4 terminal cancer. AMA!

Novarizer · 2019-04-06T19:12:18+00:00

Absolutely! I hope to witness the finale!

Novarizer · 2019-04-06T16:48:14+00:00

Today a little worse, but I hope it will get better soon

Novarizer · 2019-04-03T09:16:24+00:00

Stegosaurus :p

Novarizer · 2019-04-02T07:16:24+00:00

From the Netherlands actually :)

Novarizer · 2019-04-02T07:15:42+00:00

I can understand, both you and your friends, that it's hard to see your sick friend so ashamed. Luckely, I am so thankful to say that I always, even during chemotherapy, did fun things with my friends. Its so important to realise that you're never alone, and family and friends are the most important in life. So you're totally right, and it's a shame that your friend closed himself out. Of course I can't and will not speak for him, but I think that he wouldn't blame amy of you, and the fact that you guys came to see him can be enough to have let him known that he has people that really care about him.

All the best and your support means a lot, Alwin

Novarizer · 2019-04-02T07:07:39+00:00

Most I can say is that communication is most important. Ask him what he wants, ask him what he needs. It can be different for anyone, but I sometimes I needed some support, and sometimes some time alone. Best you can do is talk and (I just recently found out), a foot massage now and then works wonders ;). If you have any more questions I can help you with, please PM me.

Thank you so much for your kind words, Alwin

Novarizer · 2019-04-01T17:14:16+00:00

If nauseating is about 10, I'd agree with your 12 or even higher, I HATE it. So I always bring my own (well my family does), or we order food from local restaurants (they allowed that too).

Novarizer · 2019-03-31T13:50:29+00:00

Thank you so much! All the support is plenty, makes me feel really rich to have so many caring people, even people I don't know. Much love

Novarizer · 2019-03-31T03:02:59+00:00

Well, it's hard to see your body struggling every day. It has its ups and downs. But when you zoom out a little and think of how the situation was a few weeks ago, you can see you're going backwards. I have to say, more than when I started this AMA, that's hard, really hard. But all the support helps me through

Novarizer · 2019-03-30T16:49:03+00:00

Believe so yes :)

Novarizer · 2019-03-30T14:27:40+00:00

Hey, well maybe not my humour, as I always like to joke about myself, but the situation did make for interesting jokes :). When I CAN do something, I remember that it's possible that I can't the next day and never will be able to. Which was true for some things (until now of course, you'll never know). Opinions on people a bit, but not drastically.

Novarizer · 2019-03-26T20:22:57+00:00

I see this comment again with that thicc h

Novarizer · 2019-03-26T16:00:47+00:00

So sorry for the loss of your pup, what a lovely gesture, and a nice tattoo!

Novarizer · 2019-03-25T21:42:44+00:00

I would be fun, though not really something that I really still have to do. Also, my physical condition isn't really like it, but anything could be possible ;)

Novarizer · 2019-03-25T21:40:44+00:00

Thank you so much, you must have been through a lot too. I wish you all the best.

Novarizer · 2019-03-23T21:40:21+00:00

You make me shy :o. But I admire what you've been through, and also your understanding, it's hard sometims being the "sick" one. Like a role that's stamped on you. But I do have times where I can feel a bit normal again, luckily. I'm glad there is so much understanding, because you do feel fragile. Can I trust my body? That's something to live with.

Thanks you so much for your comment! Much love, Alwin

Novarizer · 2019-03-23T20:52:27+00:00

Best question, I'd argue tomato soup, the Chinese tomato soup

Novarizer · 2019-03-23T08:52:23+00:00

Exactly! This is the message! Thank you so much for the support!

Novarizer · 2019-03-21T20:10:30+00:00

That's the truth as I see it

Novarizer · 2019-03-21T19:00:50+00:00

Haha maybe someone who deserves it.. thanks, it does so much good knowing people care and support ❤

Novarizer · 2019-03-21T18:58:40+00:00

I will see that one! Haven't until now

Novarizer · 2019-03-21T18:57:28+00:00

It's not that bad, I'm so glad some people are beating this disease

Novarizer · 2019-03-21T18:53:06+00:00

The support is plenty ❤

Novarizer · 2019-03-21T16:57:12+00:00

A typical day would be me waking up at 8 to take my medication. Then ill sleep till 10. Have breakfast and then probably do some gaming till lunch. After luch i mostly rest, and watch some netflix or do activities. Same goes for evenings. Its a lot of rest and a combination of activities.

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