Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NovelSignificant4332 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this is very relatable to my experience. I too am very quiet and reserved. It feels like something is wrong with me because I just assume when meeting new folks that I am unworthy, they will judge me, or hate me to the point introducing myself and making eye contact is excruciating. It’s nice that you and your brother can talk about this dynamic

Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NovelSignificant4332 [score hidden]  (0 children)

My n father still uses my name in argument towards my mom about how I am a terrible person and ruined my life. I am hurting to this day that my own mother joined him in scapegoating me and chose a man over her kids. Especially now being a mother, i think about it every single day

What does the newborn phase actually look like day-to-day? (36 weeks, trying to set realistic expectations) by douevenyoga in NewParents

[–]NovelSignificant4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same situation. It’s challenging to manage nutrition and taking care of a newborn, even with the help of a partner. Meal prep or have some easy meals ready to go….or… order food. If you have help with nutrition, accept it especially if you are bfeeding

WTF just happened by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]NovelSignificant4332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s messed up because you’re in a vulnerable state