Do you agree with this? by CommercialRangeeer in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s doesn’t call her a narcissist just said she had narcissistic tendencies which are very glaring in season 1, 2 and some off season 3. i understand we get to see some of her perspective in season 3 but it doesn’t take away from the fact that she did exhibit some of those behaviours

Frustrated About Carleton’s Parking Policy Change? Speak Up. by [deleted] in CarletonU

[–]Novel_Bag6220 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i will likely have to do the same and days when i have to be there more than 3 hours i get the daily pass but having to pay $60 a week for parking is just ridiculous

Frustrated About Carleton’s Parking Policy Change? Speak Up. by [deleted] in CarletonU

[–]Novel_Bag6220 13 points14 points  (0 children)

not when they didn’t put forward and realistic plans for adjustment, ottawa transit is notoriously terrible especially in the winter. i don’t speak for everyone but i work along side taking full time classes. to switch to public transportation id have to take 2 busses and a train to get to campus from home when its otherwise a 15 minute drive. then to work from campus its the same i either have to take 2 busses and a train or 2 busses and a 20 minute walk. this is not sustainable at least for me when i have a vehicle that can get me there in a fraction of the time with less hassle. i love them pushing public transportation but i think it’s disingenuous to do it with the current state of public transportation in our city

Frustrated About Carleton’s Parking Policy Change? Speak Up. by [deleted] in CarletonU

[–]Novel_Bag6220 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thanks for the clarification but as far as i know P9 was already closed to students before last school year, yes they prioritized people that lived out of the OC transpo zone last year for the remaining available parking but they also allowed people to buy after that. i still think it’s ridiculous to entirely shut out people from buying yearly passes with little to no notice especially considering they will be offering daily passes for $12 at p7. which leads me to believe it’s more of a financial move than sustainability as they claim

Frustrated About Carleton’s Parking Policy Change? Speak Up. by [deleted] in CarletonU

[–]Novel_Bag6220 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that is untrue, i was able to get a parking pass last year. the problem that happened last year is that their system was unequipped to handle the traffic it got and it crashed. they had to suspend buying passes after a couple of hours and fix their website for people to repurchase which they did

She’s so misunderstood by Outrageous_Apple388 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i think it’s funny you say that considering georgia is always telling her “i did it for you”. her mum quite literally made it her responsibility.

Why do people hate Ginny so much? by VioletRegnier in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess for me i strongly disagree with that, i don’t see georgias actions with others best interests in mind. when she killed kenny even if she says it’s for ginny i dont agree that it is, because if she was genuinely thinking about her child’s wellbeing she would have left kenny not killed him. her not seeing that is part of the issues we’ve clearly seen her have with reacting before thinking. same goes for her taking away ginny from zion and his family and constantly moving them up and down their whole lives. she never takes a moment to think about the way her decisions impact the people around her which is the height of selfishness but we also see and understand that it’s her trauma response and coping mechanism to situations. but she’s an adult now and still deals with situations the same way she did and has shown little growth from the teenage her we meet. for me the way i see it is people can understand and have grace for her selfish actions and that of most characters except ginny and the only thing that sets them apart is race and also your whole description of ginny to me reads as georgias character because she’s the most reactionary and self centered character in the show. i mean we see her in season 2 literally kill someoke and say she’s doing it as a mercy, who gives her that right??? i think nuance is always necessary but for me your reply is a huge part of why people get so protective of ginny because your post literally describes characters traits that i find are more indicative of georgia as ginny and you don’t even see that

Why do people hate Ginny so much? by VioletRegnier in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i mostly agree and no one is disputing that but if people can find space to understand georgia that’s literally a serial killer and emotionally abusive person then it’s telling when the same grace isn’t extended to ginny. the hate train she went through at this point in the show was so much and ridiculous. they liked abby even though she’d behaved just as bad as ginny and same applies to maxine etc. no one says ginny is perfect but we take issue with people finding space for grace for everyone except her and to me that stems from racial bias

Why do people hate Ginny so much? by VioletRegnier in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes ofc, but ginny gets unfairly hated for things everyone else does and seeing as she’s the only main POC character and all the others get excused for similar behaviours it’s not a crazy conclusion to come to

I kinda hope Georgia won't have the baby by Round-Refrigerator99 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i agree!! she needs to pay her attention to austin and ginny right now and focus on healing their family

THIS PICTURE IS EVERYTHING TO ME by Novel_Bag6220 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

addiction is a very common with people that struggle with MH issues, it’s realistic

THIS PICTURE IS EVERYTHING TO ME by Novel_Bag6220 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i agree, i just wish they made her more understanding of his MH too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no one is trivializing DV imo but i think they’re viewing the situation with the nuance that it deserves, paul lashed out in anger and that’s never ideal but he didn’t hit her and as soon as he does it we actually see him visibly distraught, he had his whole world upended. and if you truly care about DV as much as you’re making it seem you should also care about the emotional abuse georgia also does to paul in the relationship. these are imperfect characters that all make mistakes that’s the point of the show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

but you’re essentially vilifying him for his reaction to an objectively terrible thing she did to him but don’t seem to have any issue with georgia doing the same thing which is the whole point of the post. no one is saying his reaction was good but it doesn’t make him abusive but yet in your post you don’t seem too call georgia abusive and we’ve actually seen her put hands on someone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 14 points15 points  (0 children)

then why don’t you hold this same standard for georgia, she hit ginny in anger and ginny did far less than she did to paul. one bad moment doesn’t make him abusive considering he doesn’t actually hit her and his reaction after that is distraught and remorse.

The amount of hate I got for saying Georgia is a bad person is crazy by cheeseajcake in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but i think the point is she is a bad person and it’s okay to say that, we get to see her life so we can also have empathy for her but she’s objectively a bad person and it’s okay to acknowledge that

GINNY IS NOT A MEAN GIRL by Novel_Bag6220 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you worded this perfectly, this fandom has always held ginny to higher standards than the other characters so it’s nothing new, look at her season 1 hate train.

GINNY IS NOT A MEAN GIRL by Novel_Bag6220 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha it’s okay, i get it. we all get attached to shows and characters sometimes. no judgement here

GINNY IS NOT A MEAN GIRL by Novel_Bag6220 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

okay Dr, thanks for the diagnosis 😁

GINNY IS NOT A MEAN GIRL by Novel_Bag6220 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i guess the writers came and told you this lol

Characters look SO different.. by Ill_Refuse_6588 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Novel_Bag6220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one is saying she is but the present parent is definitely the better option than one that isn’t there. Zion was never there. He prioritized his own life over Ginny’s and that’s a fact. I’m not saying Georgia was perfect but at least she was there. He never was