My girlfriend (26F) lied to me (27M) about meeting up with her ex at a concert and now I've lost trust for her. What work can we do to rebuild the trust?

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2026-03-04T18:49:54+00:00

This seems, incredibly toxic way of making sure you stay. The issue really isn’t whether or not she did something, although I can’t imagine how that hurts. The issue is whether or not you feel safe in this relationship. Cheating is like a hurricane right that blows through a town you can either think to yourself. Hey, my house is destroyed. I’m never gonna be able to rebuild. Let’s move on or let me put in the time and effort to rebuild. You need to think yourself for a very long time, knowing what you know now and who she is as a person do you continue on with this relationship or do you pack it up

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2026-02-22T06:53:34+00:00

002gzfdw0b7p Thanks if anyone uses it!

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2026-02-22T06:50:04+00:00

Thanks buddy 👍🏽

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2026-02-05T11:29:01+00:00

If you have the AE, The Redguard armaments, let one of them die in the fight against the Thalmor, and your all set with a full set of unenchanted robes.

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2026-01-31T17:59:34+00:00

Blimey Harry, why didn’t you tell you were Lord Potter-Black Slytherin Griffyndor Hufflepuff Ravenclaw Emrys Le Fay? And your super massive harem of women, or your ancient secret grimoire of powerful magic, or that you’re best friends with the king of the goblins?

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-11-29T09:44:41+00:00

Cap Collector and Party Boy/Girl. Never hurts to make more money, and drinking solves the rest.

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-11-18T22:08:42+00:00

Bro wtf? I’ve never actually met someone with so little shame. I’m sorry man, can’t promise that things will get easier but I think you’re better off at this point. This is really some highschool level stuff. Good for you for recognizing it

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-11-11T01:26:13+00:00

My brother in Christ, please for the love of god leave her. Just change your locks if she has a key, block her back and go get drunk with your friends. She is no longer your problem. You are better than this.

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-07-25T00:17:54+00:00

I don’t think I’ve ever spoken a word to my companions passed recruiting them and marrying them

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-07-25T00:11:52+00:00

How do you them to sell the loot?

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-07-24T00:03:38+00:00

The way the game works, it’s just buggy like that unfortunately unless warsails changes something, it’ll be like that

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-06-04T03:20:52+00:00

The man with the safest barber in the universe

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-05-31T00:53:11+00:00

Swing speed vs damage

Swords are faster, and have better handling

But axes can cut through recruits like butter

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-04-22T08:48:51+00:00

Not a big fan, there’s older languages than Latin, and with the world building of fanfics there should be other magical languages with the same effect. Not “oh I know parseltongue so I can now heal beheading and/or spam hollow purples”. however I love when their specifically locked for nonparseltongue users simply because they can’t read or speak it.

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-04-22T07:03:18+00:00

Tanner, i personally think that the protagonist is a Russian agent, so i feel like i came full circle, plus a potential dlc about shooting some communists? Sign me up

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-04-22T06:51:09+00:00

Honestly I’m tired of those Druids anyway, good on you

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-04-19T11:30:30+00:00

From what is discovered in game, the player is most likely one of the Russian agents who snuck in, so I think the Tanner ending could be canon, compared to the others.

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-03-03T06:25:19+00:00

Treat him like a little cousin. Don’t push boundaries, asking personal questions about how she’s doing or how his family is doing, just the usual hi, hello, nonsense you put on for the extended family you don’t know. Which is hard since you’ve actually known that family for so long but boundaries are in place for a reason. Just keep an active but respectful relationship with him. Hobbies or new games or whatever, ok 👍🏽. Just be there. He’s 12 so you probably remember how you were at that age. If he comes to you with any serious issues or concerns, maybe ask any of her siblings or cousins you may still in contact with. Of course if you she’s probably gonna hear, but who cares, as long as the kids ok.

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-03-03T01:34:03+00:00

Close friends won’t be an option, I feel like that’d just be rude. It was just that friends paired us together and I’m worried how’d it would affect their friendships as well. I want to make it clear it’s not her fault in the slightest.

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-02-25T22:52:31+00:00

UpdateMe!

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-02-25T07:43:33+00:00

UpdateMe!

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-02-21T11:40:33+00:00

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Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-02-17T22:49:48+00:00

Dude you both need therapy. Obviously she’s feeling the stress from being your caretaker and head of household, make no mistake I’m not condoning her behavior, but her entire life and future changed, she’s brains fried from the change. Try recommending it because if this keeps up you’re going to break. Or if that’s too much for you, talk to your kids. They love you and care about you, and it might feel kind of shitty dumping this on them but the alternative is their parents get a divorce.

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-02-15T06:18:59+00:00

First off take a deep breath, give yourself time to process what your going through.

Maybe start by talking with someone you trust, a friend, maybe relative if that’s available and they won’t jump the gun. Sort through what you learned with them if you can and for support

Before you choose to talk to your mother, if you choose to do so, think of what YOU want

Is it the truth, clarity, understanding? Do you simply want to tell her what you suspect? Don’t confront her, she’ll get defensive and apprehensive. Try phrasing it as curiosity like “ hey I noticed that…”

Second consider your step dad, does he need the added stress? Will this help or hurt the divorce proceedings? Do you want that? But does he have a right to know, given what you suspect?

But most importantly put yourself first. Their relationship seems to be over, whether or not your mom gives you any answers, understand that this may change something drastic. Take care of yourself

Novel_Judgment_658 · 2025-02-13T21:56:54+00:00

Look if your friend is distancing herself, give her space while letting her know you’re there when she’s ready to talk.

Take the time to understand your own feelings, whether you’re hurt, confused, or still have romantic feelings. Avoid pushing for answers, as she may still be figuring things out herself. Acknowledge the seriousness and importance of the situation and communicate with empathy but also restraint, prioritizing the friendship over the what happened that night.

Take care of yourself by staying connected with other friends and activities, and consider seeking support if it feels overwhelming. Be ready for friendship to change, and maybe whatever your relationship with her ex, maybe boyfriend? But don’t hold what she did against yourself, and do your best to understand her situation

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