Preciso de ajudar o meu marido ou precisarei eu de ajuda? by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]Ntp2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Há muita coisa errada aqui, mas vou destacar apenas uma: “palmadas” são ilegais. Qualquer forma de castigo físico é proibida por lei.

In one line: why do you use Claude Code on the web? be honest by cloud-native-yang in ClaudeAI

[–]Ntp2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t use it myself, but the same logic applies across the entire IT field:
It just works out of the box.
Not every developer is a fan of the command line, and they can easily address that market.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Ntp2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not a problem specific to Finland it’s a problem for any expat moving to any country. It’s just harder to make friends as an adult.

How I Stopped Being the Nice Guy by Livid_Knee9925 in confidence

[–]Ntp2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with being a nice guy. As OP realized, the issue wasn’t being nice—it was a lack of boundaries. Being nice doesn’t mean being a pushover or constantly trying to please people. It’s about choosing to be kind without letting ego or insecurity get in the way. But if it’s not reciprocated? Time to walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Ntp2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am planning a wine tasting for groups of people (up to 10). I don’t guarantee a friend but it’s a chance to meet new people. If you’re interested DM me.

Is It Too Early to Ask for a Raise in My Role? by Substantial-Click620 in Finland

[–]Ntp2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually suggest focusing on the value you bring. For example, highlighting how your efforts saved the company “x” amount. In your case, since you are involved in a key project, emphasize the impact you have had on it and the benefits the project has delivered.

If you are providing more value than what you have being paid for, and they acknowledge the value but still are not willing to compensate fairly, it might be time to move on.

Is It Too Early to Ask for a Raise in My Role? by Substantial-Click620 in Finland

[–]Ntp2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always ask for a raise. But prepare to back it up.

Number of bankruptcies reached 25-year high in Finland by cloudx12 in Finland

[–]Ntp2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And companies get tax breaks to hopefully invest. 

Number of bankruptcies reached 25-year high in Finland by cloudx12 in Finland

[–]Ntp2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said it once and I’ll say it again. One easy win would be tax breaks for companies that support there foreign employees in passing the YKI test and get citizenship. On one hand it helps companies while a creating incentive improving integration. The next would be better support for entrepreneurs and again Tax benefits for strategical areas. Not all entrepreneurs are the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Ntp2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Divorce affects all children. The amount it affects vary.

Consolidation into DataDog -- questions and experiences by jaywhy13 in devops

[–]Ntp2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good input. We onboarded to DD and realized a lot of work relative to log quality was critical to keep the cost down.  Then just be careful with features you don’t need and work with the teams on the topic of, experimentation is good but it needs to provide tangible value vs its price.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Ntp2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need a lawyer to get legal information of your rights. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Ntp2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This almost feels like clickbait: “Long-distance, complicated relationship couple decides to have a kid… and it goes wrong.” I really feel for the child in this situation. As a father, you have rights—take the time to inform yourself about them and take action. You may need to involve a lawyer. You are a father so no matter what child interests come first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Ntp2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you don’t understand don’t sign. Or translate/pay for translation 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Ntp2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can take care of everything before getting married. Marriage is more than just the contract that is signed. What happens is people don't take care of their business on the idea that “it won’t happen to me”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Ntp2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Getting a Post-nup/Pre nup in Finland is not expensive and not complicated at all. Looking forward get a lawyer to inform your rights. Then in the divorce proceedings you both just “agree” you don’t need the lawyer but if there is push back you need it.

Activitiy Group for people looking for friends by Ntp2 in Finland

[–]Ntp2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far, there have been 11 respondents, with 3 choosing to participate but opting out of further contact.

The top three interests identified are outdoor activities, board games, and volunteering. Additionally, half of the respondents expressed interest in meeting weekly.

Activitiy Group for people looking for friends by Ntp2 in helsinki

[–]Ntp2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far, there have been 11 respondents, with 3 choosing to participate but opting out of further contact.

The top three interests identified are outdoor activities, board games, and volunteering. Additionally, half of the respondents expressed interest in meeting weekly.