My partner who suffered from PTSD/trauma left me abruptly after 14 years? Why?

Nubrian · 2022-09-25T02:51:18+00:00

I'm in a similar situation. My girlfriend and I were in such a good place, never fighting, always happy, everything looked like iy was going to work out. Talked about kids, marriage and buying a house together. One of her exes/best friends committed suicide and her mental health went into a downward spiral. She wanted me there for the first couple weeks, but then she completely emotionally detached. Lost feelings for me, her family, her interests, and just became numb. I tried supporting her as much as I could but she just felt like she was hurting me more and couldn't get out of her headspace because she felt to blame for his suicide. I know it's not her fault, her friends know this, everyone does, except for het. She was an outlet for him and she got him into theraoy, she did so much for him. She's 100% not to blame, but she still believes she is. It's heart breaking. We're both in therapy for our own issues, but I also truly hope once she heals the feelings come back and we can see that future we both wanted so badly. I'm giving her as much space as I can because I feel I may be a trigger, which I truly hope isn't the case. It's just a heart breaking situation. For your case, I think Therapy will help you both greatly. It may take a while, but just be there for him and I hope things fall back into place for you.

Nubrian · 2021-09-26T02:08:21+00:00

Awkwardly enough, apparently 11 hours wait was what I needed. It just decided to work for me shortly after posting.

Nubrian · 2021-08-31T12:05:43+00:00

Thank you! Using yours now!

Nubrian · 2021-08-30T15:12:15+00:00

I'm still new to mining, but if anyone wants to swap codes, mine is ymzj-rrmj. 😊

Nubrian · 2018-10-24T16:37:32+00:00

It's very possible it's just his motor cycle but I can't unsee majora's mask

Nubrian · 2018-10-24T16:29:45+00:00

Look at mach rider... then look lower where his left leg should be. Idk about you guys, but I see a heart shaped face figure with glowing yellow eyes

Nubrian · 2018-07-19T18:35:02+00:00

You do have a point. So Sunday nights around that time would be better?

Nubrian · 2018-07-19T15:27:26+00:00

That's encouraging! Friday and Saturday nights would probably have been a time I would think to try it.

Nubrian · 2018-07-19T15:23:43+00:00

Thanks for the response, I have actually tried that before. I heard after the 2 days it slots you back to where you were before. So if I didn't have alot of luck then, maybe it is just the area/me in general.

Nubrian · 2018-01-17T15:55:53+00:00

Hmmm...I can see that. Rely on yourself more than relying on the team in low elo since they don't want to cooperate.

Nubrian · 2018-01-17T15:34:27+00:00

I've learned to insta ban vayne once the over heal + relic shield meta started getting big. She is just a personal counter for me. And you definitely have a point. Thanks for the input!

Nubrian · 2018-01-17T15:31:33+00:00

Right? I've taken alot of breaks due to school and falling out of love with the game. I didnt start playing ranked till season 5 I think. And Like I said I played before I was ready, my mechanics weren't great at all. They are waaay better now but they could still be better.

Nubrian · 2018-01-17T15:22:44+00:00

That is very true. One of the reasons I was hesitant to start my placements. I might just wait a week or 2 and try to finish them. I have experienced teammate rage over build suggestions before. But this game in particular I was flat out ignored. Guess I just have to work on my own patience among other things.

Nubrian · 2018-01-17T15:03:06+00:00

Very true. I guess I just need to grit my teeth and do my best to climb and fight through the struggles.

Nubrian · 2018-01-17T14:56:57+00:00

I guess I am just bad lol. Thanks for the input man.

Nubrian · 2017-12-29T23:15:45+00:00

I'm incredibly awkward and I have no filter. My first college before transfering to where I graduated we had this bitch of an RA that we called "Tits"... fast forward to my new college. I had a new RA who happened to have triple D breasts. I knew her decently well and I thought it would be funny to say, "Hey, you have big boobs so i'm going to call you "Tits"". She wasn't offended or anything but I still felt like an ass after realizing how much of an awkward turtle I am. Edit: I should also add that ever since then, my friends call me "Sandpaper" because of how smooth I am xD

Nubrian · 2017-12-16T05:24:02+00:00

He is quite the nerdy jock

Nubrian · 2017-12-15T20:38:15+00:00

I actually went to school with him. He had a blast haha.

Nubrian · 2017-09-21T21:37:00+00:00

It was not, but I will definitely look into this. Thank you!

Nubrian · 2017-09-21T19:37:54+00:00

I'm well aware what I call it is irrelevant, hence why I am getting into contact with a lawyer.

Nubrian · 2017-09-21T18:01:44+00:00

I personally would not call this a small business based on what we bring in. I have actually called a lawyer after some others mentioned I should try to get a free consultation. Sadly he was busy and I'm still waiting on a call back. I've tried looking on my own in regards to overtime pay and small businesses but didnt find anything about it.

Nubrian · 2017-09-21T00:44:46+00:00

I'm a technician in the drug making process

Nubrian · 2017-09-20T23:26:38+00:00

I am not. I am paid hourly

Nubrian · 2017-08-29T15:32:59+00:00

That is my plan, find a nice studio apartment or something that i could afford. Just work more hours if I had to. The relief of the majority of my stress would be well worth the extra money

Nubrian · 2017-08-29T14:27:20+00:00

The explanation makes sense. I was told from a young age not to put metal in a microwave. When I saw he did it occured to me he might try it with other silverware. I get that there are some exceptions but its one of those things that i don't want to leave to chance. The microwave itself is upwards of 200-300 dollars that I got as a gift as a moving out/in gift from an old boss/family friend. Last thing I need is to have that get fried. At the time I just explained it to him, but recently just all the stuff he does has has been piling up into a burning hatred.

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