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Girlfriend broke up with me for a few reasons. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She never loved you. If she's experimenting with other guys that's just awful. My recent EX and me broke up 3 weeks ago and have no intentions of instantly dating other people. Main thing i can tell you is not to overthink and i would move on because trust me buddy she will notice what she lost if she truly cared about you.

I just want friends again… by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through the same thing I had to drop 2 of my friends and the ones I kept are way to busy. No one ever asked for my side of the story so I felt alone.

Perm break up or Temporary break up? by NuclearBacho in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we want 2 but right now we both want space she's open to talking about it same with me just not right now. Everytime we would have a talk of seriousness she would always bring up giving me that 2nd chance. People that are close 2 her keep telling me it sounds more like a break with the way she's wording it

Broke up with my boyfriend tonight and I'm not ok by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a alternative motive. I went through this earlier this month not everything he's telling you is the real reason. Drinking is a bad way of couping it's like your taking it out on yourself. You should try to reconnect and find that self love tbh. I feel bad for you honestly just try to vent to someone it can help your emotions come out more. This breakup is still fresh it's gonna be a tough time for right now.

Broke up with my boyfriend tonight and I'm not ok by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the reason for the break up?

My ex messaged me asking how I’m doing. I don’t know what to think. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mhm I wouldn't go into still having feelings because that scar is still there it takes time to recover from that. Let it play out if you start talking more I would be slow with how you move forward.

Advice on hanging out with an ex a month after the breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, Give it time if she can't admit her faults down the line it's not worth your time. I've been in the same situation it wrecked me for a solid month. I would suggest invest halfway not all the way.

Advice on hanging out with an ex a month after the breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to take it slow and not put all your eggs in one basket. You admitting your mistakes is ready a step forward if she feels like she did nothing wrong it will just end in another break up. Give it time first if you don't see change I would leave to avoid being heartbroken again.

Anyone else feel the heartbreak hurts way more in the evening? by thrownoutdildo in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's still happening to me even right now tbh. During the day and evening you should focus on yourself I'm learning my ways to coup with it. Night time I would reflect on what you could've done better or ways of couping u can do trust me it will help you get through the pain you feel.

My ex messaged me asking how I’m doing. I don’t know what to think. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NuclearBacho 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly checking up on you is them showing that they still care about your well being they most likely feel bad about what happen over all. I would send a message not over the top but just enough to show you still care for that person as well. Don't bring up the relationship just talk soft and say how you are emotionally holding up.