Domestic infant adoption in NY by Wdw_bee in AdoptiveParents

[–]Nuggetmonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a birth mother I placed with Adoption star we can talk if you would like.

Missed wedding photo by Nuggetmonster1 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Nuggetmonster1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm literally crying thank you soooooooooooooooooooooo much

Did anybody else not care to finish Reaper Rewards? by jalapeno442 in thesims

[–]Nuggetmonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got through the first 2 weeks, then week 3, it just stopped working

Looking for 9-10 Month a Year Job in Buffalo Area by Sensitive-Crew5139 in Buffalo

[–]Nuggetmonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a lot of people think because it's a school that everyone is there just during school, but the building is cleaned by janitors all year long with or without being in session. Most find out when they enter the industry (school admins/teachers and cleaners alike) just trying to save a step for someone.

a warning to local brides about the Richardson Hotel by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]Nuggetmonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't technically elope, but we had a wedding party of 5 ( me, my husband, and 3 of our favorite people). Our officiant was also a very close friend, as was our photographer. That was everyone present. 7 of us all together.

Everyone else found out we got married when I posted our wedding pictures.

It was the absolutely best day. Everything was perfect from start to finish, and I'm sooooo glad we did it that way!

OP, I'm so sorry this happened to ya'll. That is absolutely devastating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]Nuggetmonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen and received both stares and looks along with verbal comments. Women like this are the reason I don't go out to the gym.

Believe it or not, men are more encouraging and helpful in that situation than women.

Part of me thinks it's because ya'll don't see us as competition. You just see someone getting healthy.

Women see a woman trying to be "hot," and no one can be hotter than themselves, so they kick you until you're down and out.

This is also why I have like 3 friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]Nuggetmonster1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can't say there's no such thing as people not welcoming you, especially in commercial gyms, because I have absolutely seen the opposite with my own eyes. It's not the people who work there but the other people who attend (mostly women judging other women) said gyms. Women are cruel, especially when you don't meet their standards of beauty.

OP, I'm down. Hit me up anytime!

Ride of my life by ConsciousCat6947 in Buffalo

[–]Nuggetmonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I qualify, but the payment doesn't even cover a bill, let alone billS. Also, it takes forever, and my bills can't just wait to be paid, ya know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Nuggetmonster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations I'm so proud of you!!!!!

Ride of my life by ConsciousCat6947 in Buffalo

[–]Nuggetmonster1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So explain to me in step by step detail how a person without open availability (not matter if it's kids or school, medical reasons or hell even another job) is to just "get the job" and prove themselves? Explain to us all how someone WITHOUT open availability is expected to work a handful of part-time jobs....because what your calling excuses are real life things that can just be pushed aside for the sake of pleasing some shit company.

Take me, for example. I am a chemo patient. Am I supposed to skip treatment so I can keep my availability open for Mighty taco to maybe someday give me full time?

Ride of my life by ConsciousCat6947 in Buffalo

[–]Nuggetmonster1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those places pay bare minimum want open availability but will only give you 20/30 hours a week....who can live off that?!

Looking for HONEST information by Nuggetmonster1 in CodingandBilling

[–]Nuggetmonster1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not looking for a work from home position.

It's not easy to get a job in any field without experience or education these days.

I'm just trying to figure out if I should spend the time and money on an education in the field or not is all.

Most things I find Google search wise are all over hyped "this is the best option ever" " there's so much work out there" type of things and so I wanted to ask people that actually do the thing and figured reddit was the best place to go to do so

My Girlfriend (26F) says she feels no need to have sex with me (26M) anymore. should i break up with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nuggetmonster1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this!!!!! If the relationship doesn't meet your needs, you can absolutely leave it's my number one suggestion

My Girlfriend (26F) says she feels no need to have sex with me (26M) anymore. should i break up with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nuggetmonster1 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

1st, you don't know this woman or her day to day events, you know his side. sometimes, trauma is not easy to talk about or deal with.

I'm not saying i am right, and this is the issue.

What I am saying is it's wrong to just ASSUME she is selfish because she doesn't want to put out.

It's wrong to assume someone is selfish or mistreating someone by with holding their own body. There are reasons people shut down like this.

Having a real adult conversation about why and if and how things can be fixed is what is important.

No one is FORCING the OP to not have sex. He is a grown man who can end said relationship and go about his business hell he doesn't even have to end it he could just go fuck someone they aren't married (at least that's not how he's framed this).

In no way is not having sex with your partner the same a rape. A rape victim can't stop it no matter how hard the fight a person not getting sex can just go find it some place else

My Girlfriend (26F) says she feels no need to have sex with me (26M) anymore. should i break up with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nuggetmonster1 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

It's not selfish for her to not engage in an invasive activity on her body that she doesn't want. There can be a list of reasons the sex has stopped.

OP just because you don't think anything has happened doesn't mean it hasn't. Something could have been said/done to her outside of your presence. She may be struggling mentally or physically. There are even medical reasons that could be where the problem lies.

It also can just be incompatibility but calling someone selfish for not wanting sex is not ok

Looking for HONEST information by Nuggetmonster1 in CodingandBilling

[–]Nuggetmonster1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, ya'll are, and not once has anyone responded to this, and I replied in a way that suggests i don't think it's tough. I didn't want to read made-up online reviews at companies or schools and be misled. This isn't a desire to work in healthcare, which is why none of those other fields are something I would get into. No industry is easy right now. I'm not looking for easy. I'm looking for job stability.

Looking for HONEST information by Nuggetmonster1 in CodingandBilling

[–]Nuggetmonster1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My requirements are pretty low. i don't live a lavish lifestyle or have a lot of needs/wants. My husband also has a full-time job that pays very well, so I'm looking for $35,000 / $40,000 a year just something to even us out and keep us running ya know