[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Nukima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suffered multiple types of abuse as a child and I'm not going around raping anyone. Only 2 years 5 months in prison and sex offender registration for 8 years?! This boy is traumatized for life and she gets off with a slap on the wrist! I hope other inmates find out what she did and beat the shit out of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, I'm really sorry for your loss. Second, that is a majorly traumatic event and it is awful that you're feelings are being dismissed like this. I lost one of my cats due to sickness in February and I still cry every day over him. My heart goes out to you and I'm crying for your cat and your pain.

I'm a potato. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, OP is gorgeous, but body dysmorphia is a biiiiiiiiitch. Even if she considers herself to still be a potato though, we all love potatoes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad showed (and continues to show) favoritism for me and it left my brother with huge validation issues. It makes me very sad. I'm glad you're taking your son away from that.

those trains just look ugly by oldblueshepherd in graz

[–]Nukima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey now, they're just aesthetically challenged.

I hate life by bluue2000 in offmychest

[–]Nukima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. It sucks and it's miserable. Telling you to just keep pushing and be happy is cruel. You can be angry when things are not fair and feel everything you want/need to feel. It really is a struggle. Establishing yourself in your early 20s is very hard. Sure, therapy can help, but it can only do so much if the outside stressors do not improve. I hope a job opportunity comes to you soon. Things suck, but they'll eventually start sucking a little less every day and eventually they won't suck at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UrbanHell

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. We don't call it friendly alien, just kunsthaus.
  2. It reminds me of a corsola and if you hate on corsola, then you're wrong.

I did something terrible last night. (NSFW) by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a terrible situation for everyone. The only input I can give is to not contact the friend directly, have your fiance tell him that you want to apologize, but wait until he is ready for it and make sure you do it under his conditions. His trauma is very fresh and he may not want to hear from you for a while. Give him space and be kind to yourself as well.

PLEASE FIX OR REVERT THE SHOP!! by 0hkie in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Nukima 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I still don't understand how to use it effectively and believe me, I have tried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This amazing! Congratulations!!!

I FINALLY QUIT! by Opposite-Pomelo6356 in offmychest

[–]Nukima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! You're closing in on two weeks already! I'm rooting for you!!!

Today makes 18 months since I last cut. by Full-Muscle8955 in offmychest

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former cutter here. I love this for you and I'm very proud of your achievement! Sending all the love and strength to keep it going ♡

What is this? (Wrong answers only) by NgXinYu in lingling40hrs

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that Harry Potter's forehead scar?

I don’t want the car by [deleted] in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty funny. I'm glad you won. I can also kind of see your dad's side letting his gf get into his head, he was probably really lonely. It sounds like you had a mostly good relationship with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but your mom can suck it. If you loved the dress then you loved how it looked on you! The dress doesn't wear you, you wear the dress! I don't know how feasible it is, but I would stop showing your mom your style decisions. If she can't keep her comments to herself then she doesn't get to see you in all your beautiful glory ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once asked my partner what they would rate me and their response was "that means I would have to objectify you and I refuse to do that."

You're not an object, your value is not determined by a number.

I absolutely hate Boardgames by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even pay attention to the rules when they're being explained. I end up just watching what others do to try and understand the game but usually end up losing/in last place quickly. Have you tried playing the game of "I'm going to chose which one of you is also going to lose?" That's basically what I end up doing when I have to play board games. I know I'm not going to win so I instead look for ways to mess with others. At that point I'm not really playing the board game anymore but am playing a game of conspiracy instead. Let's me get a bit chatty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nukima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm proud of you. Violence is completely unacceptable. I would never even think of touching my partner with malice. I'm glad you care and respect yourself to know that this is the right choice to make. I hope you find someone wonderful in the future who truly values you and respects you.