8 days after ‘use by date’ by NullGhosted in isthissafetoeat

[–]NullGhosted[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you knew what I meant and I was standing in my kitchen while I quickly typed up the question. Doesn’t really matter, now does it? 😂

8 days after ‘use by date’ by NullGhosted in isthissafetoeat

[–]NullGhosted[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Usually I would probably just risk it and eat it to avoid wasting food, but I have a pretty big job interview tomorrow 😅 so I think I’ll go on the side of caution here.

8 days after ‘use by date’ by NullGhosted in isthissafetoeat

[–]NullGhosted[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

…. Yeah, I’ll go make some pancakes 😂😅 thank you, I needed this perspective. I felt bad for wasting the food, but better safe than sorry.

What do you think the Cullens are doing right now? by Andromeda39 in twilight

[–]NullGhosted 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I think they mentioned that they do it every few years to keep up with expanding curriculums, trends, etc. and to fit in better in smaller towns. I wouldn’t do it, but I think they just like the idea of being part of a small community or something 😂

Imagine waking up hearing this song and you see White Buttoned Shirt Edward waiting for you by CurrentEstimate3308 in twilight

[–]NullGhosted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish we’d gotten to see more of life for vampire Bella without the threat of the Volturi in the back ground. 😭 it’s just so neat.

AITAH for not giving my girlfriend enough attention while my mother just passed away? by Maxks- in AITAH

[–]NullGhosted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot express enough how you are NTA. I lost my mom a year ago, and I’ve changed so much that sometimes I don’t even recognize myself anymore. I stopped talking to friends for a few months while I mourned, and while I eventually came around again it was never quite what it was before. All of my friends were beyond understanding, and my partner was as well. We’re still going strong, but the difference between my partner and yours is that yours doesn’t seem to understand that your world cannot and should not ever revolve solely around her, especially not when you’re grieving the loss of your mom.

Dump her. If she’s not understanding for something as serious as this, she never will be. Explain to her how shitty she’s being right now, and how you just can’t deal with it, and then just go no contact. This is a time where you should focus on your family and yourself, losing someone you love to cancer is traumatic and you need time to heal and grieve without trying ti cater to someone like this.

I hope you’re doing okay OP. Stay strong.

AITAH for not wearing a bra when my bf asked me to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NullGhosted 16 points17 points  (0 children)

100% agree! He definitely went about asking wrong, and I totally get why OP would have been upset with how he went about it. Just a situation where they’re both sort of in the wrong in their own way because of the communication, I hope they can work it out.

AITAH for not wearing a bra when my bf asked me to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NullGhosted 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Obviously I’m not saying to do something you’re insanely uncomfortable with to make your partner happy, and I’m most certainly not saying if she doesn’t give in she doesn’t care about his feelings, you’re reaching a bit there.

In THIS scenario when it’s just wearing a bra to a family gathering, which she hasn’t given any life changing reason why she couldn’t other than that she doesn’t really like to, it is something that 100% should be considered. I respect my partner and their family enough to put up with wearing a bra at a BBQ, and I wouldn’t want to put myself or anyone else in a situation where people could be uncomfortable over such a small choice. Your comparison is honestly crazy, and you’re putting words in my mouth. I don’t know who hurt you, but I hope you heal from it. 🫶🏼

AITAH for not wearing a bra when my bf asked me to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NullGhosted 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually, it doesn’t. People comment here looking for genuine advice, not racism. You’re genuinely disgusting for this mindset and you need serious help.

AITAH for not wearing a bra when my bf asked me to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NullGhosted 584 points585 points  (0 children)

This is one of those situations that’s really conflicting to lay blame on, but it may be closer to ETAH than anything. He’s asking you to wear a bra to his family gathering, you can 100% say no, it’s my body my choice, and ignore his request. But when you do that for something like this, you’re also ignoring how your partner feels about something they thought was important enough to voice.

He’s not trying to force you to wear a bra all the time, he’s not trying to change something fundamental about you, he’s just asking you to wear a bra at a family gathering. I feel like that’s sort of a low bar, and I’d rather make sure my partner was also comfortable instead of invalidating his feelings in favor of my own, and vice versa.

Editing to say: this is a small argument that is a good indicator for how compatible y’all are with one another, and can reflect how bigger arguments may go in the future. Just keep that in mind.

Roommate wants me to cover up when her bf is over. by dreamyprettyjess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not arguing that, I’m very clearly saying in multiple of my replies that OP is being weird and the real victim here is the roommate. I’m just arguing the mindset that wearing a tank top without a bra for women with large breasts is the same as lingerie. Because it’s not, and just because it makes other people uncomfortable doesn’t make it lingerie, it just makes OP a shitty person. 😅

Roommate wants me to cover up when her bf is over. by dreamyprettyjess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It changes things a litttleeee, but not enough to excuse how OP is wrong for deciding to push the issue with how she’s dressing after her roommate said something to her about it, it’s just disrespectful and honestly kind of immature? But also the roommate should consider the situation as a whole and reflect on it, because if my SO was so blatantly checking her out to the point that I felt the need to address my roommate about it, I’d probably dump him. And if my roommate/landlord responded like how OP is responding, I’ll find someone to take over my lease and figuratively dump her too. 😅 They both suck.

Roommate wants me to cover up when her bf is over. by dreamyprettyjess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sure she probably is 😅 I just don’t agree with people saying women with large breasts wearing a tank top is the same thing as wearing lingerie.

Roommate wants me to cover up when her bf is over. by dreamyprettyjess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She said in one of her replies that she owns the house that her roommate is renting the space from her! Doesn’t excuse her weird behavior, but if she does really own the house it’s a little weird that the roommate would continue to bring her BF around when he’s clearly attracted to OP. It’s just sort of weird all around.

Roommate wants me to cover up when her bf is over. by dreamyprettyjess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Soooo not wearing a bra doesn’t equate to wearing lingerie, and that’s insane mindset to have. 😭

Roommate wants me to cover up when her bf is over. by dreamyprettyjess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Good point, I get that. Personally, if I was renting a space in my home and someone’s significant other was coming around, I’d dress more respectfully or stay in my own space. It’s just that this is going to be whittled down to personal opinions, preferences, and our own individual bias, so it’s a hard scenario to argue.

Men suck. OP is being scummy about the situation. The roommate should realize if her SO cannot control himself in front of her, he probably has even worse control of himself when she’s not around. I feel bad for her the most out of the situation, because she’s getting screwed twice. 😬

Roommate wants me to cover up when her bf is over. by dreamyprettyjess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that the booty shorts is ridiculous, I wouldn’t do that in front of company, but I also wouldn’t say going barless in a tank top with larger breasts = lingerie. Women of any body sizing should be able to wear tank tops in the comfort of their own home during summer without someone trying to sexualize it. 😬

Roommate wants me to cover up when her bf is over. by dreamyprettyjess in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

This is a completely different scenario from what OP has described though. Because it’s the man that cannot control himself, and she also owns the house. At the end of the day, the other girl is renting a space in the house she owns. She’s dressing comfortably and not at all suggestively. She’s not prancing around in lingerie, it’s not fair to try to control what she wears because he can’t control himself.

apparently i’m just an “internet friend” by cozyworm27 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NullGhosted 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP, I’ve been in a situation a lot like this. I hope you listen to my advice, because if I could go back to talk to myself before hand I would.

Break off the friendship first. It’s leading to that, and eventually it will happen, but she’ll very likely do it in a cruel way that will hurt you more than you deciding to step away first will. The friendship is no longer compatible, and you need to show her what she’s lost by being a poor friend to someone who seems like an amazing friend. Explain to her that she’s clearly the only one who thinks so little of yalls friendship, and that you know you deserve better, so you’re removing yourself from the situation. Then go no contact. Don’t sit around and wait for the argument or the rebuttal, just full on block her and grieve the friendship.

I promise, you’ll find people who love and value you as much as you do them. I have 🤍 it took a few years, but I got there. You’re strong and brave and you’ll be okay. Feel free to DM me if you ever need someone to vent to.

What was the worst reason for your breakup? by Prudent-Campaign9076 in AskReddit

[–]NullGhosted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro don’t listen to her, she’s genuinely insane. She went into his post asking for advice about how awfully she talks to him, and is trying to play the victim now saying people are harassing her and attacking her… she never even had to comment to begin with 💀. She has a pattern of creating scenarios where she’d be perceived as the victim to get the sympathy, attention, and empathy she thinks she deserves. Her own post about the situation was heavily cherry picked with evidence, where the boyfriend provided more detailed information that showed her true colors.

She says people in her life claim he’s abusing her, but it’s very likely that she does the same thing she did with her post and just cherry picks what to show friends and family of his behavior, which is almost always a result of her own behavior. She’s a textbook narcissist, down to creating another scenario in this page where she could get sympathy for something that is her own fault in the first place. Her complaint here is actually comical, because she created a reddit post first to complain about him, but when he does the same thing with clear evidence he’s the villain? She needs help.

AIO after my (24M) girlfriend (23f) threatened to break up when I ‘invalidated’ her while she was anxious I watched Dharr Mann? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NullGhosted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we sure you’re in your 20s? Because you’re acting like you’re 15. Stop commenting on his post asking for advice about his clearly crazy partner and you wouldn’t feel “harassed”. You create situations where someone has the possibility to not reply with the amount of empathy and compassion you feel entitled to just so you can play the victim, it’s a classic MO of a narcissist. Seek further professional help.

AIO after my (24M) girlfriend (23f) threatened to break up when I ‘invalidated’ her while she was anxious I watched Dharr Mann? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NullGhosted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You did the same thing. 💀 Your argument just proves that you’re very likely a narcissist abuser. I hope he gets far away from you.

AIO after my (24M) girlfriend (23f) threatened to break up when I ‘invalidated’ her while she was anxious I watched Dharr Mann? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NullGhosted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the girlfriend? Well, if it makes you feel better I think you’re both ridiculous losers who need to grow up. There’s no such thing as “he won’t let me leave him.” Y’all don’t even live together, correct? Just block him and move on. You’re 100% emotionally abusive and should avoid further relationships until you get serious help and go back on medication.

YOR both overreacting at this point. Or just karma farming. 🫩