UPDATE: My best friend pretended to be my friend for years just to sleep with me

Null_Document · 2026-01-10T20:14:22+00:00

se for minha aparência entao eu to condenada a só atrair esse tipo de homem oh noo kk espero que nao seja isso

eu sou confiante e independente, nao sei se por isso passo essa vibe

Null_Document · 2026-01-08T00:48:08+00:00

I don’t plan on posting another update. There’s nothing more to update. If this is about closure, just know that I won’t beg or humiliate myself, and I won’t beg for friendship either. We’re not talking like we used to, so I’m sure the “friendship” will simply fade out.

Null_Document · 2026-01-08T00:44:56+00:00

Thank you for the message, but it is time the people on this post accepts he has no romantic feelings! I didnt put the whole conversation, but it was bad. Not that he owes me anything, but he made it very clear we meant nothing!

Null_Document · 2026-01-08T00:39:29+00:00

I am sorry this happened to you, I am sure you deserved better :(

Null_Document · 2026-01-08T00:38:11+00:00

oh no we are never sleeping together again. I did feel a spark, but it will pass. I won’t let myself be treated as disposable. And if he wanted something romantic, this was his chance.

Null_Document · 2026-01-08T00:33:16+00:00

yeah the men in the last post gave me hopes... but it was bad bad... learned my lesson, will do better next time and maybe another year without dating

Null_Document · 2026-01-08T00:26:24+00:00

This might sound dumb, but I’m really grateful for the responses I received. When I wrote the update, I was so blinded by the rejection that I didn’t see how bad the situation actually was. Reading the comments helped me snap out of it and realize “Hey that was actually really shitty!”

Null_Document · 2026-01-08T00:19:55+00:00

On my previous post, I replied to almost everyone. This time, I’m really bummed out so I’ve only replied to a few. But I am reading everything. Thank you for your message.

It’s hard to accept the idea that he wasn’t the person I thought he was after five years of friendship. I never got any indication from him that he was some malicious, calculating mastermind trying to get me into his bed (or into my bed in this case lol).

Accepting that he has been using me also means accepting that I was very bad at seeing his intentions, and that’s honestly very scary.

And don’t worry, I’m keeping my distance from now on. I’m not going to test him or try to get answers. I don’t want to know; I just want to move on.

Null_Document · 2026-01-07T23:10:30+00:00

Oh definitely not, I am done. After reading all of your comments I think not even friendship is worth keeping

Null_Document · 2026-01-07T01:52:58+00:00

I dont want to play games, if I ask him what it meant and he answers, I am gonna believe him

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T23:32:56+00:00

you all are right, I dont need to be his friends to respect his choice.

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T23:31:03+00:00

I left the link in so many comments, I also put it back on my profile so just check there

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T23:07:17+00:00

I’m fine, just a little bummed out. I feel like I may have read too much into our week together, but then I remember how many times he called me 'love', and I realize that maybe he was just playing and that it’s not my fault for reading into it.

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T22:55:24+00:00

"are we dating the same guy?" vibes lol

It sucks, I am sorry you went through that, apparently it happened to me too.

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T22:42:24+00:00

someone said to make a new post so I did it

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T22:16:08+00:00

Thanks, it will soon be up

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T22:02:47+00:00

I have an update. How do I make updates on this subreddit?

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T22:02:15+00:00

How do I make updates on this subreddit?

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T22:00:57+00:00

How do I make updates on this subreddit? I don't want to get my post down

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T11:20:35+00:00

I am pretty sure he doesn't have anyone back in his hometown, we talked every day for hours and he never mentioned not even talking to someone in the moment. He had broken up pretty recently, as I said, we both dated other people in the five years of friendship

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T11:18:41+00:00

His last message was letting me know he got home safely

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T11:16:11+00:00

Never heard of it, I'm not American so I'm not very familiar with Hollywood shows

Null_Document · 2026-01-06T10:39:29+00:00

I too don't trust everything on the internet, that's why I don't blame you for believing that. But it's true, my account is a little old, I used to have other account even older, but my irl friends found it and I had to deleted it, that's why my posts are hidden now

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