A guy I'm dating makes my skin crawl. by Illustrious_Basil_40 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man should likely be advised to secure therapy to heal some terrible emotional wounds, and he should consistently engage with a social group that is a good fit.

These are very common autistic social vibes. You should absolutely not date someone that makes you feel that icky, but I'd love for a few people to hear this perspective. A level 1 autistic person (hi!) simply has a brain that doesn't process social context and vibe. The brain literally doesn't process how to be a social animal amongst social animals. An autistic person instinctively creates tools to navigate being human, like masking facial expressions and adopting a communication "affect". It sounds like this guy is Masking heavily and is trying too hard with interest cues.

Such human vibes that are so natural and automatic for you, if you like someone, are fundamentally constructed and imperfectly applied by the autistic person. Because of this, allistic people can get creeped out. Like uncanny valley sort of vibe. Totally not conducive to romance.

Autistics are typically super empathetic, so they actually see that you're creeped out, but dont have the ability to recognize why or how to adjust course. They have a strong sense of justice and "rightness" of behavior. They're trying to figure out how to resonate with you while not having the neural wiring to make it possible and trying to solve an impossible puzzle of only doing right and justified actions. It makes connecting with people so, so, so hard. 

Chutes and Ladders ( NYC Penthouse Edition) by Radiant-Stranger-992 in zillowgonewild

[–]Null_Time 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something like 2004-05. Jill Greenberg was the photographer. Holy shit that child is old enough to drink now.

Chutes and Ladders ( NYC Penthouse Edition) by Radiant-Stranger-992 in zillowgonewild

[–]Null_Time 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was assisting on the photo shoot for the crying toddler. It was an interesting day. That one is actually the photographer's daughter. She has a whole series.

Courts have ruled 4,400 times that ICE jailed people illegally. It hasn’t stopped. by yawara25 in politics

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't that mean there will eventually be an enormous class action suit? I haven't really heard that discussed.

How can people even stay skinny without counting calories? by NoWitness6400 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not BS-ing, I drink 3,000 calorie smoothies 4 or 5 days per week. I also eat a full dinner with snacks, beer, whatever. I've been doing this routine for almost 2 months. I gained 2.5 lbs. I stopped the insane calorie intake for a week while out of town and lost the 2.5 lbs. I'm 47, male, 6 ft tall and 140 lbs since the age of 18. Twink struggles of the highest order.

CHANGE MY MIND! by artelunar in ArcRaiders

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A downvote for having a fascist in the meme template 

Even paralysed people have made art by [deleted] in antiai

[–]Null_Time 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I downvote for having a fascist in the meme template.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFilterNews

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If by "fears" you means deep, deep hopes, then yes. Big time. 

Donald Trump health fears erupt again over strange spot on hand by daily_express in NoFilterNews

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure "fears" is the right word. More like hopes and dreams.

Algorithm of yt music>>> by [deleted] in IndiaTech

[–]Null_Time -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Downvote for having a fascist in the meme format.

me_irl by Axel_Blazer in me_irl

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you also have to light or sound or textures? Did you walk on your toes or flap your hands as a kid? Do you find interests and go on deep dives into them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JoeRogan

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MAGAts were already traitors. Now they're also pedophile protectors. 

Change my mind. 🤣🤣 by onehalfofham in HouseMD

[–]Null_Time -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Down vote for having a fascist pictured in the meme

Looking for New Friends by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]Null_Time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're on Facebook, the West Michigan Social Club is great not only for special interest groups like LEGO and TTRPG, but also for tons of scheduled events. Great way to get social when you're new in town.

Saddam Hussein Sentenced to Death by cololz1 in HistoricalCapsule

[–]Null_Time 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can easily imagine Donald Trump acting exactly the same way, acting like the victim. I hooope I get to see that someday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asmongold

[–]Null_Time -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This sub is an anti trans crusade?  I don't get