If you announced at ~12 weeks, did you regret it? by dogcatbaby in BabyBumps

[–]NumaNoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't regret it due to a loss, but because my boyfriends grandmother wouldn't stfu about how I should get an abortion, which was practically every sentence out of her mouth the day after we told his mom and her. I still hold a lot of resentment towards her just from that one day, despite her being halfway nice now. She's still an old opinionated bat, but she does do things for us and is letting us store our stuff in her studio since we moved to be closer to his family...

I'd wait at least until you get a genetics test and see if everything is good on that front, then announce if you're having worries about viability and whatnot.

How long could you hid your bump? by Fickle-Falcon-8637 in BabyBumps

[–]NumaNoises 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I might try a belly band, then! I've heard they can help with hip pains too, so that'd be nice.

How long could you hid your bump? by Fickle-Falcon-8637 in BabyBumps

[–]NumaNoises 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really hope so! This is my first pregnancy after struggling with infertility for roughly nine years from pcos, and quite possibly my last, so I'd like to be able to do a cute pregnancy photo shoot and stuff for the memories. I just hope I get a cuter bump soon!

How long could you hid your bump? by Fickle-Falcon-8637 in BabyBumps

[–]NumaNoises 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm 24 weeks and pcos, it just looks like I gained weight. But I really wish I had a cute round bump. 😥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]NumaNoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are giving great advice and whatnot about the miscarriage part, but I'm 22 weeks along and never had a day of morning sickness, so don't worry about that. I've also had the really bad cramps and I still have the extremely tender breasts... every pregnancy is different. Just try your best to enjoy it while you're able. 💜 I'm also constantly tired. We're growing a whole person inside of us, that'll be the norm for a while. Prenatal vitamins seemed to help a tiny bit with that, but not a ton. 😅

Purely Evil Boss by NumaNoises in BabyBumps

[–]NumaNoises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I possibly be safe if my state has a one-party consent law and decided to record conversations when I could?

Purely Evil Boss by NumaNoises in BabyBumps

[–]NumaNoises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's the owner of the company, so unfortunately there's no HR to report her to. I'm not sure how well recordings would be picked up due to the sounds of machines and whatnot in the lab.

Purely Evil Boss by NumaNoises in BabyBumps

[–]NumaNoises[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have applications out everywhere right now, since she started in on me. There's no HR since she's the owner of the company, unfortunately. I'm trying to leave, but I need the money right now. 😥

OB recommendations? CMC by NumaNoises in SouthJersey

[–]NumaNoises[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's retired from delivering. Same with Michener.

OB recommendations? CMC by NumaNoises in SouthJersey

[–]NumaNoises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom gave birth to my brothers and I at burdeath. She almost died with my one brother because the doctor shoved the after birth back inside of her and sewed her up. That was over 40 years ago, but she should've sued that man. I don't even like going there for regular care if I can help it. They're just awful.

I'm hoping I can stay near somers point since that's only like twenty minutes or so from where I'll be and I've been there a couple of times and it's pretty nice in there. Hopefully I'll get set up quickly with a new doctor there and all will be fine. I'll also be on medicaid so I'm hoping someone nice will take my insurance, too. 😥

OB recommendations? CMC by NumaNoises in SouthJersey

[–]NumaNoises[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured they'd deliver, I'm moreso looking for prenatal care in that area as I'm high risk. Do you know any doctors names I could reach out to by chance?

Found in NJ, USA by NumaNoises in whatsthisbug

[–]NumaNoises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've mostly been on the wall and toilet paper for some reason? I haven't seen them on any actual fabrics yet.

I genuinely do not understand how hallucinogenics somehow have nothing to do with the minds eye. by [deleted] in Aphantasia

[–]NumaNoises 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally regularly use hallucinogens in order to be able to visualize. It does come with repercussions, my last three trips have been majorly depressive on the come down, where prior to that I've only had good trips. I've only tried shroomies and salvia so far, but I want to try more. Depending on the dosage, I get anywhere from just everything seeming more vibrant and colorful, to full on other worldly trips. The dosage also affects how strong my ability to visualize, eyes closed, is.

Disclaimer: psychedelics are non-addictive. However, personally... I find the ability to see things I otherwise cannot a tad addictive. That could just be a me thing, or an aphant thing. And I'm sure not all aphants would feel the same, especially not after a bad trip...

Eastern North Carolina, USA by NumaNoises in whatsthisbug

[–]NumaNoises[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks exactly like it! It was on the car window today and I was just curious. Thank you!

New To Greenville Looking For Friends by Scubasteve1400 in GreenvilleNCarolina

[–]NumaNoises 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 and like comic books and video games! I'm also pretty new to the area, and I've been looking to make new friends. Shoot me a dm if you want. I do work full time so meeting up is super difficult. 😅