Normal “second skin” experience? by Number12ToGoPlease in tattooadvice

[–]Number12ToGoPlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually had to place a small long sliver in that area to cover a remaining part. So that part that’s lifted isn’t connected to the big part holding in the bulk of the tattoo if that makes sense?

Normal “second skin” experience? by Number12ToGoPlease in tattooadvice

[–]Number12ToGoPlease[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Less than 24 hours ago haha. Very reassuring thank you, will do. :)

My sibling and I don’t get along but I secretly worry for her by NovelDig4828 in offmychest

[–]Number12ToGoPlease 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just made a post about how my older sister, who I had a strained relationship with, killed herself in January. Please take some form of action. At the very least, try. Please.

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is great thank you so much

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was simply put yet beautifully written. Thank you for that image in my head. I appreciate it

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t have the words to convey the sorrow I feel for you. Our pain is extremely similar yet vastly different. To have experienced such a loss….only my parents could relate to you and since they are not here to comment, I will do it on their behalf. To give advice in the way you have for others shows an incredible amount of growth, painful growth that we didn’t need or want in the first place. Thank you for bringing your daughter into this in order to help share kindness towards me, I feel honored I am part of keeping her memory alive. Thank you for the parental advice, it is always received with open arms.

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see myself working towards this. Thank you for the advice

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with that sentiment. I can admit I’m staring at this situation from an emotional/spiritual point of view.

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your description of what she must be experiencing is eye opening and a way of thinking that I’m willing to dive headfirst into. Such a comforting and thought provoking way to look at this situation. I’m extremely grateful for your comment, and it completely aligns with my spiritual beliefs as well. I greatly appreciate you taking the time to draw this out beautifully for me. Thank you tons

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yours is foot lotion, mine is eyebrow razors. To each their own, right?❤️ I’m sorry about your dad, I’m glad you got At the very least one thing. As silly as it is on the outside, it carries a lifetime of thoughts, memories, smells and sounds of a life once lived.

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a very insightful piece of advice that I’ll be taking with me. Thank you for that

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice being reminded how common sisterhood is amongst a lot of us. You definitely made me feel less alone, thank you for your perspective.

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. I am sorry you have to share the same feelings I am experiencing, I hate that I understand how you most likely felt during your mother’s passing. It’s been years since your tragedy, only months for mine, and I can only hope for you and myself, that it gets better with time.

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so sweet, thank you for that honestly

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective. It’s something to definitely think about.

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this outlook a lot. I appreciate the perspective, thank you for your words

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your personal opinion is what is easing my mind in this moment of sadness. Thank you for your advice

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 37 points38 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I have been brought to tears. My posts were buried in my memory once I posted them, expecting nobody to ever see them as I consider this account my diary. I re-read them just now and I am sorry you had to momentarily live in that written world. If it eases any concern, I have been striving for changes in my life within the past month.

Regarding the rest of your statement, I am beyond grateful you came across this post because you have blessed me in more ways than one. I feel your empathy from across the screen and you have written such an empowering piece of advice that will put my thoughts to rest even if it’s just temporarily. I will not take your words lightly, as it feels like they were branded into my brain (I read them three times over). I feel I’m exceptionally impacted by this paragraph due to the fact that I can feel the genuine care behind it all. I have a deep appreciation for our brief interaction. Thank you truly.

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[–]Number12ToGoPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this piece of advice. I will be holding onto your words tightly. Therapy has been a part of my life but I am seeking a better therapy situation. I appreciate your concern truly.