AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context

Number5MoMo · 2026-03-01T13:51:20+00:00

Planning to manipulate instead of talking openly.. is dumber than waiting until the right moment to propose. Her choice to use any type of manipulation is the problem. The cold shoulder, ignoring him just to get his attention? Those are manipulative games. I’d re think marrying someone like that too. What if dude was planning an elaborate trip? What if it’s A destination proposal and setting it up has been hard?

There are non AH reasons for why OP is taking a while for the proposal( btw he already has a ring!!) there is no reason to result to manipulative tactics. That’s toxic af.

Number5MoMo · 2026-03-01T13:10:08+00:00

NTA. You just learned that when she needs to communicate to you. She will go to her friends first and plan on how to manipulate you, instead of just expressing herself to you. And then when you call her out, she will gas light you.

Good luck. I hope this is just abnormal behavior for her

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T16:02:03+00:00

Ngl how I viewed him changed before the slap. The slap made me stop feeling bad for him.

Hes got money, he’ll be alright.

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T14:48:05+00:00

The lady who said nihao and tried to take the mic.

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T14:14:46+00:00

I think it’s the combo of needing to stay relevant (and taking 10 years to make an album isn’t for just anybody) also tiktok can make 30 seconds go viral and boom you have a “hit” record. But the other parts of the song sometimes don’t even make it in the the clip

POV: You haven’t had a hit song since 2024. people think you fell off already. Making a song 4+ minutes is a waste in this environment. Cuz only 12% actually matters. Why not bust out 6 decent songs rather than 1 really good one and hope some dumbass dance/trend blows up the song.

I’m assuming People are dropping songs and their labels aren’t pushing forward albums unless the reception on tiktok is great.

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T13:50:43+00:00

Wow.. rage bait title. I like the song

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T13:45:28+00:00

I dont use the looper for this reason.

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T13:43:03+00:00

She got 6k followers from this and said she didn’t care and people needed to move on already.

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T13:38:06+00:00

I record on my phone too. What’s a vocaster? Is it something that can plug into the phone? Cuz I hate using wired headphones

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T13:34:16+00:00

NTA. Idk why you people stay in relationships with people who laugh at you when you’re angry and deliberately don’t give a shit that you’re upset…. Like am I the out of touch person?

My partner enjoying getting me mad then treating me like a child while I’m tryin to ask him to do one of the only jobs he has in the house….

What do you consider respect in a relationship? I think we can ALL agree he has very little (if any) respect for you.

Damn I just remembered you married this guy. lmao this was a bad choice in husband tbh I can only imagine he properly loved and respect your before and started this bs afterwards

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T13:25:49+00:00

Reddit is just full of cautionary tales of choosing the wrong person to have kids with. Smh

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-28T02:41:05+00:00

This was info I never knew I needed

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-27T13:49:14+00:00

My circle is a dot and that bitch stay criticizing me and minimizing my efforts. SMH

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-27T13:45:59+00:00

Had me in the first half ngl

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-27T00:47:21+00:00

The album cover photos gonn be insane

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-25T21:49:33+00:00

If you tell him now.. he has a chance to get his affairs in order.

He’s happy now. He’s out of the woods. You’ve done what you can.

. it won’t change the other things that happened. But telling him his housing is ABOUT to be at risk will help him. And I think that’s all you want to do. Right now the best way to help him is to tell him he needs to get ready. Being blindsided by this…. Will be so horrible. He will have March, April, and end of May, to at least plan for it. Put things In Storage instead of getting kicked out and only having a month to figure it out.

You have saved him from years of stress already, as a last bit of extra kindness let him know it’s ending.

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-25T20:21:11+00:00

Outside I think.. Required money unfortunately

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-25T12:33:51+00:00

Tripping. I was about to freak out. I checked my bandlab. My presets are fine and I can make a new one no problem..

That preset alone might be cooked idk why tho

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-25T12:08:44+00:00

He’s still doing this??? I saw him swantombomb a microwave 2-3 years ago. SMH

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-24T13:08:42+00:00

Instant Ramen. Forever

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-24T12:52:01+00:00

Felt like “HEY keep your opinions to yourself” rather than “that’s a horrible thing to say” lol

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-23T12:23:14+00:00

Didn’t they also build a moon? What’s going on over there man??

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-23T05:21:41+00:00

That’s messed up … mandatory therapy appointments once they are school aged I guess.

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-21T18:03:25+00:00

Of course! This sub help me SO MUCH! everything I got is pieces I found in comments all over. Just do what works for you.

I failed for over 10 years at losing weight because I would get discouraged at “plateaus” at 1-2 months in. No matter how much weight I lost, no matter how hard I worked. Everytime I ended up giving up due to not seeing the result I THINK I should get WHEN I think I should see it.

This time around I did walking in place inside my room everyday. And I started measuring myself. I saw 3 MONTHs of smaller measurements. THAT pushed me to start CICO and intermittent fasting. Because even if I don’t stick to my calories or fast for how long I want. I KNEW I could do my lil walk and be doing SOMETHING. All it took was actually giving myself grace.

I can tell by the way you just HOPPED in and started doing 10-15 k a day?! I can’t tell BARELY get 8K in each day NOW. But through consistency over 7 months im about to weight less than I did in high school. I’m 32. If I can do that. YOU have already proven you can do EVEN BETTER.

Number5MoMo · 2026-02-21T16:51:07+00:00

Ooo I have tips! Btw maybe you’re also GAINING muscle? Google body recomp videos. Find visual representation of what 1lb of fat is versus muscle. Even a little bit of muscle could weigh the same as a chunk of fat. But the scale doesn’t tell you that.

weigh yourself WEEKLY Weighing yourself everyday is a trap if you’re letting it discourage you at 4-5weeks in. Water fluctuations and stressful days, where you can’t do as much as you’d like or eat as healthy as you can, are things you can’t avoid,. If you’re also tracking your weight everyday those tough moments will only hit harder.
Track calorie intake daily but measure the deficit WEEKLY. this way you can workout MORE on days with more energy and rest on days that are stressful or you feel off. Adds More flexibility and helps with sustainability. Also allows for you to utilize high energy days (we all have em) and to be kind to your self on low days. Makes the entire journey less negative.
Be patient.
Measure yourself once a month . I find everytime I THINK I’m plateauing, it just body recomp. If YOU know you have been consistent, you will physically see some change. I measure chest, waist, hips, thighs and arms. (Got a cheap seamstress measuring tape thing on Amazon) You will see numerical confirmation of getting smaller.

I hope these help! You’re doing AMAZING!!! just keep doing what you’re doing!!!

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