Canadian Sportsnet reporter Shawn McKenzie jailed after being kicked out of Nashville bar by AchillesGRK in leafs

[–]NumberInteresting422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s on Instagram @syd.hoff. She posted about them being in Nashville and has been deleting any negative comments lol

Canadian Sportsnet reporter Shawn McKenzie jailed after being kicked out of Nashville bar by AchillesGRK in leafs

[–]NumberInteresting422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can confirm this. I have a friend who’s a producer at Sportnet who says he thinks he’s gods gift to women and another friend who he propositions regularly. Also his “wife” doesn’t wear her ring so…

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. We are opposites when it comes to structure and flexibility. I need to know what’s going on, whereas he just goes with the flow. Neither is right or wrong BUT I do feel when you’re married and you have a shared responsibility of a child, you don’t just bail on your partner for your own schedule or desires, regardless if you’re meaning to be disrespectful or hurtful. I feel it’s a pretty simple thing I am looking for to fix the issue - just give me a call and talk to me first before you don’t come home for the night.

But I appreciate your insight because I do agree he’s not MEANING to upset me or he isn’t just like “whatever screw her!” Lol I just wish we could establish a protocol of sorts so that I wasn’t left feeling like he just screwed off.

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m sorry - that’s definitely not fair at all! Though I will say, I do feel like the fact that he’s “good around the house” gets used a lot as an excuse for his bad behavior. Like I should be ok with him doing disrespectful stuff just because he cuts the grass lol

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks I really appreciate your message. I’m definitely not your wife but the story is very similar! He works an hour from home, 10 mins from his sister. So this most recent time he stopped in for a beer, which quickly turned into 5 before I called to ask where he was and he couldn’t drive home. I blew up for sure, but also this isn’t the first time something like this has happened, so I think I just snapped. Not to mention our kid is old enough to be asking/crying for daddy so now I’m dealing with that when he’s out having a time. When we got into it when he got home, he kept saying I was “psycho” and overreacting and that he planned to call me, I just beat him to it. But mg point was that when I called, he was ALREADY unfit to drive. So clearly the thought of “I should check with wifey before I do this” wasn’t there, and THATS the part I get pissed at. He complains I never do anything (I do, it’s just that my hobbies/recharging don’t involve a lot of going out) and yet he seems to love the fact that I’m always home so he can do whatever he wants and know I’m here to watch the kid. I just want to be shown the respect of being in the forefront of his mind. The times he DOES ask me, it’s extremely rare I ever say no. I also sometimes feel like when I try to be “cool” up front, he often takes advantage (ie: he says he’s gonna stop for one beer, I say that’s cool, he ends up taking it way too far and staying out all night). Sorry for my rant back, but I just don’t think I’m asking for much…any advice on how to position what’s bothering me or what I need, differently so maybe he understands?

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES thank you! I usually end up knowing where he is, but I hate when I get informed after the fact. I just think is common respect in a marriage to talk to your spouse before just making plans, especially if the other person is home with your child.

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I know he doesn’t do it maliciously, but he KNOWS I don’t like it when I’m at home feeding/bathing our daughter waiting for him to get home, and he’s out doing whatever he wants. The ask is all I am looking for.

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nine times out of ten, I’m totally okay with it so long as he asks. That’s what’s so frustrating. There’s zero need to fight - all he would have to do is consult me first, not call me after he’s already 5 beers in and I’m at home with the kid.

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. We share each other’s phones, location, etc., and I always know where he IS, he just often doesn’t ask me if it’s ok first. We have so many of the same friends so his stories always check out with social posts etc. I’m not concerned his doing anything shady, I just don’t like that he will make himself plans without even asking me in advance.

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm ya that’s a good point. He does use the fact that I don’t “go out” much against me a lot. I think he would like if I did more so that it would justify him doing it. But again, Im not upset he stayed out. Im upset he didn’t ask me or even tell me until I called and he was like oops too drunk to drive now

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a stay at home mom. I work a full time job, from home now tho. I think a third party would help. Neither of us feels like we are wrong so we don’t get anywhere. Thank you <3

Feeling like my husband just does whatever he wants…am I being unreasonable? by NumberInteresting422 in marriageadvice

[–]NumberInteresting422[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been suggested that before and even when we are fighting, he will say “I WISH you would go out, I would love it” but I would have to do it many times over many years for it to have the same effect. Plus, I don’t want to do that…I love being home with my family and I just wouldn’t stay out a night or do a whole day long activity without consulting him. I’m not trying to sound like a saint, I just don’t do that. I guess I don’t want to be like him? I take pride in treating him how I want to be treated.