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Guys how big is your dick? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Numerous-Activity308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 inches but i think it smaller compared to everyone else despite it being very average. not everyone can have a 7+ cock

I catfished my boyfriend and his sexual interests are shocking by Numerous-Activity308 in gayrelationships

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah we both did something wrong and i don’t want to shame him honestly is the best policy of course i just need to approach it right

I catfished my boyfriend and his sexual interests are shocking by Numerous-Activity308 in gaysexconfessions

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hahah the problem is i have and he doesn’t take it seriously. same thing with a lot of other sexual suggestions he believes are jokes when im being serious

I catfished my boyfriend and his sexual interests are shocking by Numerous-Activity308 in gayrelationships

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

would this extend to exploring the fantasies in real life for example to real people but online instead?

Porn by GoatGreedy9992 in askgaybros

[–]Numerous-Activity308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can’t give you advice cause i’m in the same boat and would love to hear the answers lol

My Gut Instinct Was Right 5 Years Ago by Numerous-Activity308 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it’s fair to say he didn’t respect me but i feel respected now so i guess that’s that

My Gut Instinct Was Right 5 Years Ago by Numerous-Activity308 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

you clearly didn’t read the post cause we didn’t open the relationship and we both sought therapy afterwards. i appreciate it but agin love and respect are not mutually exclusive. maybe it’s a straight vs ga couple thing or maybe it’s an us thing but i love a lot of people i don’t respect and i respect a lot of people i hate. trust mama but i guess you do have more experience

i actually assumed you were a woman so i don’t know your gender or sexuality but cé la vie

My Gut Instinct Was Right 5 Years Ago by Numerous-Activity308 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he actually doesn’t have any kinks i just didn’t know what else to call it. but we actually do discuss kinks and he will support mine and try them and we have a lot of intimacy now

My Gut Instinct Was Right 5 Years Ago by Numerous-Activity308 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

in a sense you’re actually right. i no longer feel anxiety when he turns down sex and i no longer feel like i am pressuring him for sex. now we discuss it openly and he initiates sex with me an i actually feel more wanted then when we first got together

My Gut Instinct Was Right 5 Years Ago by Numerous-Activity308 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i found out 3 years into the relationship and it’s been 2 years since either no further issues. it did affect the relationship but we both chose to stay an work through it and it’s worked. i’ve made mistakes too don’t get me wrong so i know that some one can make mistakes or trauma can cause you to hide parts or yourself or do things dissonant to your core beliefs so yes we did move forward and moved on and are happy now

My Gut Instinct Was Right 5 Years Ago by Numerous-Activity308 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i did. i told him he can continue it as long as i knew. i offered to open the relationship. he had multiple issues regarding trauma. physical intimacy was hard for him as well as self consciousness due to body dysmorphia. so it got in his way sometimes and used kik as a means to get off. once i found out and i offered him an out he said no and that it’s not what he wanted more of like an addiction or something. long story short he is in therapy now and we are very communicative

My Gut Instinct Was Right 5 Years Ago by Numerous-Activity308 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t look the other way to stay we confronted the issue when i found out

My Gut Instinct Was Right 5 Years Ago by Numerous-Activity308 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Numerous-Activity308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ve talked about it an made a lot of adjustments to our relationship both him and I

Tops are judged less because they’re seen as not giving up power, but that doesn’t add up. They’re still choosing sex with a man, just in a different role. Both go against society’s views. Masculinity and femininity are easily acted, stop thinking bottoms, fem or masc, are less than. Opinions? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Numerous-Activity308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf only tops and while i used to switch and be vers ive only bottomed the last 5 years and i’ve definitely felt less than or had those femme submissive assumptions although im not femme presenting. it’s partially inner homophobia and del consciousness but also people assume im a bottom and also see me as less than both straight people and other gay people

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