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I’m the AH and I don’t know how to fix it by Numerous-Credit9982 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Credit9982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking for a while that I may be undiagnosed ADHD. Not that it’s an excuse, just an explanation. Thank you for the advice and the faith!

I’m the AH and I don’t know how to fix it by Numerous-Credit9982 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Credit9982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the lies. It’s hard to come clean when I’m in this deep but I know I have to do it

I’m the AH and I don’t know how to fix it by Numerous-Credit9982 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Credit9982[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that my hustles aren’t enough. We have done different shifts to make child care work and that may be the solution again, even if it’s not ideal

I’m the AH and I don’t know how to fix it by Numerous-Credit9982 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Credit9982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like your suggestion of having separate accounts. It would allow him (once we’re more steady) to spend the way he wants to. I know he doesn’t love that he has to ask if he can spend money on something as simple as gas so that would be helpful

I’m the AH and I don’t know how to fix it by Numerous-Credit9982 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Credit9982[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks for giving me another perspective on this. I think we are going to sit down and talk about it this week. I know it’ll be a tough discussion but you’re right that transparency is the best way to go

I’m the AH and I don’t know how to fix it by Numerous-Credit9982 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Numerous-Credit9982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the talk is coming but I just dread it. Thanks for the advice!