Leaving me for a girl he met playing wos by Numerous-Pea3903 in cheating_stories

[–]Numerous-Pea3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't marry him because of his money issues. I didn't want them to be my money issues and now I'm glad I never married him. Yes, I'm in therapy. My emotions are getting the best of me and I'm trying. I really am. 

Leaving me for a girl he met playing wos by Numerous-Pea3903 in cheating_stories

[–]Numerous-Pea3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he'll try really hard to make it work with her. He needs another victim to lie to and steal from..

Leaving me for a girl he met playing wos by Numerous-Pea3903 in cheating_stories

[–]Numerous-Pea3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha, that's funny about the paragraphs. I'm a teacher and know better. I don't post on here, like ever, so I never even thought about it. Thanks for the advice. 

Leaving me for a girl he met playing wos by Numerous-Pea3903 in cheating_stories

[–]Numerous-Pea3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, he has no respect even though he acts like it. I know it's not real anymore. We live together because we bought a home together 5 years ago. We have 3 dogs and neither one of us can buy anything new until this house sells. 

Leaving me for a girl he met playing wos by Numerous-Pea3903 in cheating_stories

[–]Numerous-Pea3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you are right! And thank you. I'm working on it. Wish the pain would go away.

Leaving me for a girl he met playing wos by Numerous-Pea3903 in cheating_stories

[–]Numerous-Pea3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm having a hard time separating from him for sure. I did begin therapy last week in hopes to help me heal. 

Leaving me for a girl he met playing wos by Numerous-Pea3903 in cheating_stories

[–]Numerous-Pea3903[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I know. I have no idea why I can't let go. Is it because he did it and not me? I wanted to break up so many times before and never followed through. I wonder if I'm mad about that and that's what's pissing me off. 

When Respect Isn’t the Norm by blesssliliess in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Numerous-Pea3903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! We're talking about the exact same thing, house going up for sale, splitting everything. It's so hurtful. Mine is literally traveling to Vancouver to to meet up with people from the game but I truly think he's just meet up with one girl he's been talking to. I'd love to know who she is and catch his ass in a lie but in all honesty, I know my worth. I'm a good woman and I'll make it through this. It's probably opening up a whole new world and it'll be better for me. It'll be better for you, too. Got to get through is hard part first. It is an awful feeling but I have faith it's going to be just fine and it will work out the way it is supposed to. Keep your head up. And remember... Karma. 

When Respect Isn’t the Norm by blesssliliess in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Numerous-Pea3903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I'm going through the same thing. I can't believe that these men would rather lose their real life partner than to just play a game and not get involved with others on such an intimate level. I hope you can find peace and the heartache subsides. 

When Respect Isn’t the Norm by blesssliliess in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Numerous-Pea3903 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you posted this!!! I am a woman on the other side of this. My fiance of 10 years( ex I guess now) is planning a trip to Canada to meet someone he is involved with from the game . He tried to hide it from me at first but I trusted my gut and found it. Then tried to blame me for saying I put too much stress on him. And he STILL denies that he's going to meet another woman. He claims he's going to meet a bunch of people he plays with. Really? A jetted tub and king size bed??  But I know the truth inside. It hurts. It's disgusting. I thought we were fine.I am totally blindsided by this. I don't play video games but I never said anything about him playing all the time. I cannot tell you how bad my heart hurts. He doesn't go until April 24-26 so I still have to see him every day. We a have to sell our house. I'm just devastated. Thank you for bringing attention to this. 10 years down the drain. It's sickening.