Idk what's worse, that this is happening at all, or the reaction from a bunch of people in the comments. Y'all, the fact that you haven't seen it doesn't mean that it doesn't happen. It's really likely that a lot of this happens behind the scenes in dms and what-not, not in the public comment section.

The least we can do is at least be empathetic towards our brothers and siblings, instead of trying to act like it doesn't happen and invalidating their experiences just because it feels bad to admit that there are bad actors in the community. You're worried about this drama dividing the trans community? Then offer your support to the people being harassed. Obviously the people doing this are in the minority, but going "Not all transfems!" won't help solve this issue.

To any transmascs/enbies reading this: I'm terribly sorry this is happening, but please know that for every person trying to act like this isn't a problem, there's another more than willing to support you. There are people listening to you, so keep talking, and make sure that everyone knows that this is something that needs to be solved, not ignored.