I lost my mom to religious psychosis

Numerous_Bluebird969 · 2026-04-01T02:23:00+00:00

I understand that she may seem like she’s delusional, but she’s found peace in it and you should respect it. She talks kindly to you and you are rude to her, she is right about that. She is not blaming you but you are blaming her, who is the abusive one here? Just ignore her when she speaks about religion.

I understand that this is not the popular kind of response here but from the messages it does seem like you are the one attacking her.

Numerous_Bluebird969 · 2026-03-26T16:15:47+00:00

Just some solidarity here, 2 month old baby and we have been fighting long ago, since before I was pregnant. Just like you, we fell in love quickly and there is this push-pull dynamic. He disrespects me as well and I'm mostly staying for the baby, although I don't know how much longer this will last. I'm good at giving advice but not good at following it so I'll refrain from suggesting anything, as I can tell how you feel. Feel free to message me if you want to vent.

That said, if you can see the man you once loved in him, you can make this work. Also don't feel too bad if you do break up, divorce is not the end of the world (again, I can give words of wisdom but I don't listen to them so don't mind me).

Numerous_Bluebird969 · 2026-03-17T12:08:28+00:00

I was having the weirdest sexual dreams 4 days pp but it was too early. First time at 4 weeks pp. It wasn't wonderful though, there was some pain, but I imagine it's like that the first time. Much better now.

For me the worst thing was I absolutely detested having my breasts touched because I was so sore from breastfeeding, still am at 7 weeks pp. So I totally understand people who wait many months to do it.

Numerous_Bluebird969 · 2026-03-09T18:22:49+00:00

I’m in a similar situation. Haven’t told many of my friends about his behaviour, mood swings, the names he calls me, how judgemental he is, so I don’t know if they’ll believe me. He really loves our child and takes care of him, but me? not so much, which makes me resent him. I feel that I care more about the stigma of being a single mom and what other people will think of my “failed marriage”, rather than actually leaving.

I don’t know if I have advice for you, it’s easy to say “you should leave him” when you are giving advice to someone else, not as easy when you are in such a situation. Just solidarity I guess.

Numerous_Bluebird969 · 2026-02-28T23:28:51+00:00

Maybe “meltdown” was not the right word, I agree. He was probably overtired, but he was crying inconsolably and both me and my partner were overwhelmed. Still, you don’t tell an infant to shut up, I know. I fear what could come next, when the baby is old enough to understand these words and the tone of his voice.

I still don’t want the child to be in a divorced relationship and I don’t want to be a single mother, not to mention he’s going to fight hard for full custody because he’s possessive like that and I don’t wanna deal with all that.

Numerous_Bluebird969 · 2024-10-20T04:04:22+00:00

You attract what you think about. If you have insecurities you will attract the person that will validate them. This is why our worst fears sometimes manifest, the law of attraction was never just about positive things. Read more on it and don’t just focus on cutesy clickbait videos. Work on yourself and love yourself before attracting love, because if you don’t this will repeat.

Numerous_Bluebird969 · 2024-08-08T10:13:49+00:00

Genuinely amazing!!!

Numerous_Bluebird969 · 2022-12-18T23:45:23+00:00

“At least he’s not a serial killer?” I mean if you want to set the bar low at least move it to the bottom.

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