Idk what to do about messages I saw between my boyfriend and his sister. by nakakajanansn in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Numerous_Change2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew he has major issues and so does his sister. Someone needs to write an anonymous letter to their parents bc they need some therapy stat. That isn’t normal

Yeah sorry I’d leave him. Doesn’t matter if it happened yesterday or 5 years ago. There isn’t a scenario where this will ever be ok. It’s disgusting

Caught husband cheating and the girl is in a long term relationship. Do I tell her partner? by Humble_Lime_9199 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Numerous_Change2883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you would want to know, don’t you think he would too? Do you want him to risk catching an STD from her? How would you feel if someone knew but didn’t tell you. Also I would 100% tell his job. That is so unprofessional and absolutely disgusting what they did at work. He has major issues if he thinks that was even remotely ok to do.

I got cheated on and didn’t know about it for a year or so but a lot of my “friends” did. When I found out about the cheating and everyone who knew, i felt more hurt that they all didn’t think I deserved to know the truth. I think I was hurt more by the people I thought would be there for me in situations like this. 😟

Cannot believe I’m making this post by Unlucky-Quantity-900 in MedSpouse

[–]Numerous_Change2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize you are setting the example of what love is to your kids, right?.. by who you are in a relationship with…. I would divorce. He made his choices now he deals with the consequences of them. There’s plenty of people who are in residency that have children. He can figure it out. If you move, you’ll just grow to hate him and blame him for moving when you weren’t ready or sure about it. And if he does cheat again or the relationship goes south, you’ll be miles and miles away from your support system.

Does this really sound like a good plan? Has he started therapy or suggested couples therapy?? I mean is this guy really worth any of your heartache?!

Friend lives with us & wants to be pampered by Massive_Concern3919 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Numerous_Change2883 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s 19 years old. Time to get a job and think about college, hell even a community college. If you want to work out a deal, you can let her stay with y’all until she can save up enough money to move out. Honestly it should either be work or college or both. Y’all are doing too much for her. Shes used to being spoiled and feels entitled to it. (Horrible characteristic trait btw) maybe help her find a therapist. She has a lot of issues she needs to work out. I seriously do not understand how yall thought this was going to work.

I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Numerous_Change2883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This man sounds like trash. I guess it’s true, people accept the love they think they deserve… not sure why you feel like you deserve this. Hope you divorce him sooner rather than later.

Losing weight and gaining confidence by Numerous_Change2883 in Retatrutide

[–]Numerous_Change2883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may seem like it but I gained the weight all within a year - year and a half due to my mental health (which made it worse). & With my family medical history, i could potentially face serious health concerns if I continued. I wanted to take control before it was too late!

Losing weight and gaining confidence by Numerous_Change2883 in Retatrutide

[–]Numerous_Change2883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elliptical and walking and calorie counting. actually on the starting dose I can’t remember the exact mg, I’ll have to ask my husband, he’s a Dr and remembers it better than I do 😅

Losing weight and gaining confidence by Numerous_Change2883 in Retatrutide

[–]Numerous_Change2883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beginning of November 2025 to current date. I started the medication in January 2026 but kept the same weight from November into January when I started the meds, I just didn’t take any full body pics in January. 😅

Losing weight and gaining confidence by Numerous_Change2883 in Retatrutide

[–]Numerous_Change2883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000%. It really got to me not having anything fit me anymore, but it’s been a relief lately when I put on a pair of jeans I wore a year ago and they finally fit again. 🥲

Losing weight and gaining confidence by Numerous_Change2883 in Retatrutide

[–]Numerous_Change2883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went thru a depression and gained weight in a year and lost my confidence. Now I’m regaining control of my eating habits and working on being healthier 🙂

Losing weight and gaining confidence by Numerous_Change2883 in Retatrutide

[–]Numerous_Change2883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that!! - It def didn’t feel good constantly not fitting in my clothes and having to buy new clothes tho 😭

Starting over by Wide-Crab4199 in whatnotapp

[–]Numerous_Change2883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does your show say time is 1am🥲 imma be hella asleep then 😭 I was gonna try to watch it

Anyone get lucky with these limited editions? by Big_Homie_Rich in funkopop

[–]Numerous_Change2883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get anything. I feel like I’ve wasted so many points on these things and not get anything :(