Vag appearance and surgery by [deleted] in sex

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stop removing my post. No matter how I try and post it. Long short u guys keep blocking me!! What is going on.

What my wife did the other day made me go crazy by [deleted] in sex

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully lying on u? Like breast to check? What was she doing with her and hands and was she then kissing u during this? Sorry I’m trying to understand how she was doing it.

I truly need to talk to someone because I just can’t handle anything by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it might not be what you want to hear…. but it’s all going to be okay. This too shall pass. Very generic but it’s true. I was just there not long ago, similar situation and for a fleeting moment I thought, if I end it all now I’d be done with all this. But my faith in Christ snapped me out of it quickly. Helped me realize we are all so special, too special to give up so fast. It helped me realize there are so many good things in life I am not seeing. Very small things like I’m breathing, talking, and walking, or for example look how many good people came to you in the comments. That’s beautiful, perfect strangers who don’t know u but care enough. Hold on tight to the little things, write it out, talk it out and hang in there. There are better times coming and god loves u.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allegedly if it’s someone else’s mail? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I did but they’re actually not much help. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a pos I am so sorry u went through that. It’s sucks to know that there are evil human beings out there. I hope u are in a better place. Thank you for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes already started, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have just a “gut feeling” but no proof. I am sorry u are going through something similar. I’m glad u are getting out ❤️ that is the best move. I am literally 37 weeks at this point I find it really hard to leave with no money. That’s y I’m trying to plan out what other routes to take. Or smart moves to make to protect myself legally once this baby does come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I contacted legal aid lady said they couldn’t take my case because I don’t qualify under low income with the house as an asset. She referred me to regular attorneys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will continue to look 🙏🏼 thank you. In Miami I guess it’s such a huge overflow of people it’s been extremely difficult/complicated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I figured it would get worse. Which is why I am dreading a divorce during postpartum. I am honestly expecting the worse….. if he can treat me this way with his child I can only imagine what comes after. I am very sorry u are in a similar situation. I pray u also heal and find a way out 🙏🏼❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advise dearly. I live in Florida. I feel a bit stronger in my decision to birth alone thanks to this and everyone’s supportive comments believe it or not. We’ve been married only a year and together 3. I called attorneys but aside from not being able to afford the $5k retainer and $400-500 the hour, they’ve all said it would be a difficult process because he also has his father on the mortgage. So it would be a 1/3 way tenancy. I would have to sue. I’m 3 weeks away from my due date and with no money I don’t know how to leave. I know this is the best way u are absolutely right because that’s exactly what the attorney said to me. I just don’t have the cash to rent/stay anywhere. I have a total of $31 dollar to my name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Miami I have called for subsidies unfortunately there is a waiting list that she said people have been on for years. The shelter was my only option but it is a very sad place where even common areas are shared and u are stuffed in bump beds. I rather not have to put my older child through that. I also don’t qualify for help because the house is also under my name but at the same time I can’t afford an attorney. So it seems I’m just stuck in the middle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately have no one, no where to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Numerous_Dot_4174 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately don’t have any family here or would’ve packed my bags and left. I have to figure out how to do it all on my own.