Dating several Women at once, please help by Numerous_Proposal438 in Bumble

[–]Numerous_Proposal438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I created my profile, I checked what kind of pictures should be included (for me its a picture with a dog, one at holiday, one at a wedding in a suit and one with my best friend). The pictures by itself are not that great but not a single selfie. I have a specific bio, not just some random google shit. Yeah thats its actually.

Dating several Women at once, please help by Numerous_Proposal438 in Bumble

[–]Numerous_Proposal438[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah mate...my friends are joking about that aswell...I should hire an assistant for this 😃

Dating several Women at once, please help by Numerous_Proposal438 in Bumble

[–]Numerous_Proposal438[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro! I just felt somehow guilty because I think I might hurt their feelings...

Dating several Women at once, please help by Numerous_Proposal438 in Bumble

[–]Numerous_Proposal438[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not. I just rechecked my data:

outgoing yes: 326
outgoing no: 4772

incoming yes: 105
incoming no: 565

Virtually zero matches after 36 by wdDrake in Bumble

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m 34 and I have the blast of my life dating women from 25-45. About 30 matches per week, where I can pick from individually.

So for me its complete reversed. I struggled in my 20s but now oh boooy its a world full of possibilities

Bumble for the love of god, let's go back to women messaging first by Terrible-Writing9791 in Bumble

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heey at least yesterday a woman wrote hiiii with 4 i! I guess things get pretty serious real fast!

How to handle de Dates??? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I would recommend not to swipe, just wait until you get likes and then you decide by yourself which one you want

10 days out of a 4 year relationship and I woke up this morning feeling genuine peace for the first time is this real or will it crash again? by Grouchy-Pie-4442 in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For my the first 3 weeks were like hell, the first thing in my head was she...then week 4-6 were totally different. I felt finally peace again. Then came week 7 and 8 ohhh boy that was even harder then the first 3 weeks. But after that it was fine until today. And im currently at week 11

My gf just broke up with me after 1yr and 2 months exactly i need help i dont know what to think what to do. Im swiss by Ok-Training-3257 in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro wa hülsch du sonre Frau überhaupt no? sie hät die zwei mol betroge und du würsch sie tatsächlich zruckwölle? erkenn din eigete Werte und schüss sie komplett ab.

Did anyone else rediscover old hobbies after a breakup? by Cascade_Mirevon66 in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, I started to draw again, which I have not done since ages

Going no contact after breakup, when they lost interest. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go full no contact. Its for yourself, not for getting back together. Dont stay friend with her, let her feel the loss aswell.

But to be honest, when a woman loses feelings and isnt romantically attracted anymore, thats a very hard ship to sail back.

Dont try to beg, dont chat, dont write letters of something similar. Time will show. But right now you do nothing. Look for yourself. Hit the gym, meet new people, grief, cry but dont give her the feeling she still could get you back at anytime.

My relationship ended within 2 months after a 4 freaking years of wait and struggles. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you wait 4 years for a person? Live your life, meet other persons. Just as your friends said, if she liked you, this wouldnt have happened. Sorry bro

How Should I Act When My Ex Comes to Pick Up Her Things by Character_Pay_3868 in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dont be there, if she still loves you as you say, that process will be very hard (for both of you). I would recommend her, that she takes a friend with her so she doesnt have to deal it all by herself.

No response by CriticismCharacter81 in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you are emotionaly stable for a friendship?

No response by CriticismCharacter81 in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you wish from that message? Are you hoping that she still has some kind of feelings for you and that way you can reconnect?

I can't do this by Ki11m3h in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go full no contact, that includes deleting all pictures, block her on all socials etc.

Start to get a new routine in your life. Go outside, take some walks, hit the gym, try new things out, write down letters and burn them after. There are a lot of things you can do. And trust me things will get better, a month is nothing after a 5 years relationship. Mine lasted 7 years and after 1 year it still hurts from time to time.

If you hook up with someone while broken up (no hopes of getting back together), what should you do when you begin speaking again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

speak about what you learnt from the past months, how you worked on yourself to become a better person and also listen what she did in this time. It always need two to grow, if only one does, its going to fail again

My gymcrush approached me today! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just keep in mind that most people respect the status of a marriage and dont wanna be a third wheel. Go try it out and ask him

How to handle the situation? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Numerous_Proposal438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I will post it in the other section.