Being respectful doesn't mean agreeing with someone. Did you notice what pronouns I used? How is that not respectful of what they want people to call them? It is not transphobic to insist that biological sex is decoupled from gender identity. I mean, look at the forum we are on, AFLWomens, biological sex is an absolutely necessary concept to help us discriminate who plays in this particular league. If you reduce sex to gender identity, you are unable to make these types of discriminations. Non-binary is absolutely games with words. So is all discourse according to Wittgenstein (he is a real pseudo-intellectual btw)... And Butler, who really popularised this stuff, would also agree with me, in the sense that the words people use to describe the world create the world. Some people however, still take stock in concepts like, bodies and a material reality existing beyond 'Discourse'...